原谅了出轨 难道说就低人一等?

男人婚姻出轨 我该怎么办?你沒有发觉一个状况，每每谈起出轨，总有些人：“TA都出轨了，你如何还不离异?”

 haoxiangzaoshouchugui，zhinengsatuodishuaikailingyifangxiangyongxinderenshengdaolu，caihehushixiashiqiduidulinvxingdeguiding。daodishifouneiyangni?nanrenhunyinchuguiwogaizenmeban?zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?

 yuanbuyuanliangchugui，hedulimeishieryuanbuyuanliangchuguinan，heshifoudulixinnvxingmeiyiqieguanlian。shishishang，dulibingfeiheyigerenpieqingguanlian，zishenyigerenhaohaoguorizi，huoshizaicizhaoyigegenghaoderenshenghuo。

 “duli”zuiguanjiandeyigefangmian，shijizijichengdan：jizijidexintaiyugerenxingweichengdan，zhangwo、jieshouzishen，erbingbushijinyilingyifanghebulaiwoyishi，wo“younengli”liqushizuodulideguifan。

buyuanliangchuguinan，shinvxingduobizishenzaihunyinzhongdeyiwu，“cuodouhuita，bunengyuanliang”“yanbujianweijing，lilejiuxing”。

zheileiduli，shijishangshishizhishangdebuduli。

xiangbiyuanbuyuanliangchugui，nidaodizenyangyingduiairenchuguizheiyikeguanshishicaigengguanjian，gengjiayouyiyi。

yincishuo，liyishiyingdui，yuanliangdoushiyingdui。

qiantitiaojianshi，nishibushiduobizishendeyiwu，shibushijizijidexintaichengdan?

chuguidaodizhibuzhibeiyuanliang?youerzhongzhuangkuang：

 yizhongshilingyibandexidexingchugui，yejiushishuobuguandajiazhongjianqingganyouduohao，lingyifangrengcaozongbuleyaochuwaizhaoxiexinxiandecijixinglaisunhailingyifang，jiaruzaizheileihunyinzhong，beichuguideyifangrengtiaoxuanjianchibuxiehunyin，jianghuihaiyaoyingdui、tigaozijidizizunxindenanti。

 lingyizhongzhuangkuang，hunyinzishenbutaihao，chuguijinjinyigeqingganebiandejieguo。rutongyiduifuqibiaocengshanghaikuotiankong、shiguangjinghao，keshishishang，hunyinzhongzaoyimeiyouneixindeshencengcigoutongjiaoliu。dansuoyourenxinliyouqipangoutongjiaoliu，neihunhouchuguijiubianchengyigeshijitiaoxuan。

danxuduoren，burongyigenjuhunhouchuguizheijianshiqingquziwofansiliangrendehunyinfangshi。

youyuchuguibutaihao，yincichuguiwanwanbukeyuanliang。wubigankuaili!

离异，由于不原谅。

youxieren，beichuguishangdebiantilinshang，keshijianchibuxiebuliyi，neixinhuaizhezheileiniantou：

“woyaotahuiyibeiziyishizhuxingzaineijiudangzhong。”

“yinweiwoyaochuguilaiduifuta。”

meiliyi，yeyouyubuyuanliang。

 jiaruzhiyiweizhiliyu“buyuanliang”，erbuzhaoxun、sikaochuguishenhouzhenzhengyuangu，neima，libuliyi，douburongyidedaozhenshidexingfukuaile。

youyuyigebeihunyinshangguo，jiucihoubuganai、rengranbuhuiaidenvxing，chengbushangdulixinnvxing。

shidehunyin：xianghushi2geduligongpingdehezuohuoban

liangzhezhijianyongbuyuanliangchuguinanershengchengzishenshixinnvxing，haibibushangzhichihouyong，qutansuo、sikaochuguishenhoudezhenzhengyuangu。

 suiranshuoxiangfuxiangchengdehunyincaixingfukuaile，danjiaruzheileixiangfuxiangcheng，zaibeigaofanglaikan，shijishangbushigongpingde，naliyoudulikexun?

 dangbugongpingdehunyinzuihouyidijimao，nikeyizuodebingbushilikegongbu“duli”，zhishiyaowenwenzishen：renmendehunyingongpingma?

 shijishang“duli”yougengshencengcineihan：gongping。buguanjingjifazhanhuanshijingqishenshang，nengbaozhengyulingyibangongping，zheicaisuanshihunyinxingfukuailedejueqiao。

怎样公平呢?

dangdaijiazhongdefufu，shijishangshi2gedulihezuohuobandeguanlian。

 dangniyounenglikandaozishenyaoqiushi，yinweiwoyounengliqukaolvnideyaoqiu;dangniyounenglibiaoshuzishendetihuishi，yinweiworongxujinizishendemingan。

 renmenyaozaigongzuoshangyulingyifangbozhongzhijian，gongtongjinbu，jibuzuohunyindelietouyou，doubuguoduoshengdongzishenduijiazhongdefengxian，danshifenzaihudeyushi。

zhichangnvrenmennulijiankudechuangdang，danyehuodelejiatingshiwudeqianghanzhudaoquan。

 jiarurenmenkenrenkezheixieyiqiande“bugongping”shijishangshizhijiushishuo“gongping”de，neicaihuirangzishenfangxiazhinian，gangkaishichengcai。

 hunyinzhongduilingyibanyouxiwanghenyiqiezhengchang，danzuoweidulixinnvxing，yaodongdeyonghaofangshi biaoshu，yuairenkaizhanlianghaogoutongjiaoliu，erbingbushiyiweiyaoqiuzaihunyinzhongsheizhanzhudaoxing，yizhiyushijiaoweizaiweijilailinshixing，guiqiunenglixianliquhunyin。

 dangnilianzishenderenshengdaolufangshidoukanbudao，lianzishendexintaiyaoqiudoubuqingchuzenyangbiaoshu，yizhiyulianzuijibendefufugongpingdouzhaobudao，haitannaxiedulixinnvxingni?

 nvxingzheiyisheng，huizaiganqing、hunyinhezhongduoshiwuguanlishangzaoyujiongjing。buguanwulunzenyang，baozhengduizijifuze，yejilingyifangyigongpingsisuohetiaoxuandejiyu。

neima——fangkaishouhuanshizhengde，liqiyihuoyuanliang，nidoushiguodeduli、zidehexingfukuaile!zenyangduifuchuguidenanren?