出轨的男人的处理过程和作法

 chuguidenanren zenmewanhui?dangzhangfuchuguishi，xuduonvxingtongchangcaiyongshifenjijinpaidefangfa，bingbushiyikuernaojiushishuosandiaosi。wojuedesheidouqidaizishendehunyinkeyidedaowanman，keshineizhongjiushizheizhonglixianghuaqingkuang，ruguonishi1gebamianlinglongdenvxing，buranpengdaonantinibenzhijiubuqingchugaizenyangjiejue。neimazhangfuchuguidechuliguochenghezuofashishenme?

最先，先让自身平静下来

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?zhangfuchugui，nvxingbixuhenyuwang，doushuorendaoyuwangdeneishihouzhiliweiling。ruguonipengdaonantideneishihou，nicaihuigaoqingchusheilinijinqi，huoxuzheiyineishihouqueshilianggexiangshuohua，gaishuozheijianshiqingderenyemeiyou。

 jibianneiyang，genggairangzishenpingjingxialai。yaolejiezheiyishehuiqingniangenrenxianghuguanxihenbicizhijian，niaiyigeren，tongchangjiuhuibeizheiyirendexintaishangxia，nipeizhelingyifangneimajiu，lingyifanghuanshizuochulebuzhongchengnideshier，zenmehuishineiyang，guanjianjiushinihuanshimeiyoufangfanyuweiran。chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?xuduoneishihou“qiguanyan”shiyoubixudadaolide，zuishaotayouyidingdejupa，jiuburongyinaoshi。

次之，你可以明白想着该怎样解决适合

 niyaojiejuehaozhangfuchuguizheijianshiqing，haiyaoxiangqingxizishenyuanyinaxie。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?niyaoaizhezheiyinanrenme?nixiangyaoweizheiyinanrenchengdanzheileitongchuma?dangniganjueyihuichuguixingwei，houhuiwuqi，neimatashifeichangjiandandechuliguocheng，zhongyaoshinikeyiningjingma?yunyinglezheimeduoniandeqinggan，jiuyouyu1gedisanzheerdechuxian，shuofangjiufang，nixiangyaoma?

 jiarubuxiangyao，neimanigaizenyangzhenshixinlijieshouchuguideairen,yougaizenyangjiejuecaiburongyibashierbaozhengmeifazhenglidechengdu。nikeyimingbaijinanrenloutixia，zaishidudeneishihouwenhuajiaoyu，keshizaidangjinbixuyaoxiangfangfazhaozhaoshuaigederuanzhusuoshu，rangnanrenjijilaizhiqian，zheibiniqiangzhixingtalaizhiqianhaoguoxuduobei。yinweiyigerenzhinengzishenzhicuonenggougai，buranbenzhibumingbaishenmejiaobuzhengque，shenmejiaoqiadang。

再度，要明白做取舍才会杜绝痛楚

 zhangfuchugui，nihenfanmen，hentongchu，jiaruzishenqueshixiangzisha，jiuyaozishenliquguoduanshijian，quhaohaodiliaoyangliaoyang。zuoweidangdaidejiazhongmeiyouneimajizhideshier，buguanganshenme，womenbixuxuehaoxianghulijie，rendaoqingganzhonghenrongyifancuowu，tebieshizaishizainianqingdeneishihou。

 zhangfuchuguizheiyishierkanqilaifanza，zhongyaodeshinikeyimingbaizuoqushe，chuzaisheqihezhengtuozhongjianzuitongbuyusheng。yiqieqinfenbingbushimeiyoujianghui，jiranbugansheqi，neimajiujiandingbuyidiquweihubaoyangzishendeganqing。wulunchanshengnaxieshier，doudangzuoqitihuifaleba，yaoshitahaifanhuinideshenpang，qitadeyemeiyounaxiebudui。

 yaoshizishenduirenshengdaolumanhuaixiwang，zhangfuchuguideqishicuobaijiudabudaoni，zhiyaonimingbaizheiyidianer，jiububijupayanxiadetongchu。yaolejieshuobailejiechuderenquanshimingbaiaoderen，nizhinengaoshoudele，nenggoubazheixieshuobailedejiannankunkudadao。

 xiangxianggudaihuangdidemeinvmen，doubujiushishuoneibanguoyibeizi，jiranmeifaranglingyifangyishengzhongshidishandaiziji，gengyaomingbaixuehaozishenaihuzishen。zhongjiutarenjiwomendeaidoushifenbuzu。