出轨的男人，媳妇果断要离婚该怎么办

 chuguidenanren zenmewanhui?nvxingzheiyibeizitongchangyaochengzhongxuduo，youyuhuaizheduiyuyangushiyiyangdexiangxiangjindaohunyin，zuihoutongchanghuibeishijisipodeposui。youyumeirenhuiyizhaonilixianghuadefangfakandaini，zheijiushishuoshehuixianxiang。dangnvxingaizhenanrendeneishihou，nanrendewaiyujiuhuicushinizaoshoudesunhaiyueduoda。yinci，yibianzhengshinideguandian，niyaogenzheiyirenlikebaituorenheguanlian。zhangfuchugui，xifuguoduanyaolihungaizenmebanni?

最先，你可以明白控制自己的心态

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?nikeyilejieyaobushiyouyunidewaiyu，xifujiuburongyigenninaoliyi，jiranlingyifangzaoyiyaogenniliyi，neimanihaiyaoxiangxiangzishenshenmedifangbaoqianbieren，yeyaobubizaicineiyangxialai。dangnijiaotaliangzhichuanhaowuyiwenshibuhaode，xifudeguandianbujinshijinizuogequshe，yucitongshishixiangzhengshinijiujinghaiyouduoaita。

 xiyinxifu，zuishaonikeyisuodingdajiadepingwendeyishizhuxing。erjiaruxifuruguolikai，nizheimeduoniandeqinfenhaoxiangdouzaoyimeiyoushijiyiyi。chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?yaolejiexuduohunwailianderen，nijibianxianggenbierenlaidaoyikuaier，bierenyebuyidingqueshixiangyaogenleni。yaobutuqian，yaobutuai，zhenshixianggensuinideshaozhiyoushao。

次之，要明白做取舍

 laopoyaolihun，benzhishiduinizheijianshiqingdeguoduofanying。shierjiranzaoyiyinweiyounierqi，nidequshejiushifenguanjian。dangnitiaoxuanlehehunwailianlingyibannuanweixialai，laopohuoxuyaoyuniliyi。jiaruniyaotiaoxuanxifu，neimazishenhaiyaohehunwaiqingrenwanquantichufenshou，haohaoquxifuyanqiantonggaiqianfei。

 dangnihulihutude，niweilaiderenshengdaoluhuoxuzaoyibukeyuliao，tebieshizaiyongyouxiaohaizhihou，xuduorenyikaishidoujuedemeiyoushenme。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?keshiruguolaopolikaiyihou，ninengjuededaohenxianzhudeshaolenaxie。yaoxuehaojianjue，meishenmebuduide，mingbaidangdan，quandounengxiaoqilaide。

再度，得用真情吸引媳妇

 dangniheqizizhongjianyeyouqinggan，neimahuanshiyaoxiangfangfaliuyouta。xiangfangfaqiuqutajiarendekuanrong。jiarunishineileishifenyoubenlingdenanrenhaixing，dangnimeiyoushiduoshaokenai，neimadajiadexianshizhuangkuangzongshiyulaiyucaogao。yinciyaoshoulongzishendezheixiexingzi，jienanideshiji，yaoxuezherangzishenchengcai。

 tebieshizaiwanhundehunwailianzishenjiushishuobuchengshide，niduizishendexifujueqing，duitarenyeshiwuyi。1geboqingguayidenanrenzongshirangtarenquxiaoheqiaobuqi。yincinikeyilejiezishenjijinjiliang，cailejienigaizenyangquzuo。

最终，要学好安稳为人处事，争取她和好如初

 youshiduixifuhaozishenjiushishuo1gechusenanrendezhuyaobiaoxian。jiarunanrenxunhuawenliu，qishi，womenwufaxiangxiangzheiyinanrendeshizhihaodaonaerqu。ruguozhenaiziji，jiuyingdangzhengdehelingyifangyiqi，jiaruqueshibukeyihelingyifangyiqi，zuishaoyaomingbaihelingyifangweichishidudejianju。neiyangnicaimingbaishenmeshiwubidexiai。yejixifushangxinideyibian，zhiyaonimingbaihaohaodiweirenchushi，tabidingyehuimingbaixiangfanxiangxiang。