精神出轨有什么表现？婚后和旧情人重逢的滋味

 xiaoyuyizhesezejingzhandeyangrongshan，tadetouxing、fushiheshensedoubangwozheizhongfeichangzhengerbajingdejuede，neiyangdenvxinghaoxiangtianshengjiushishuozuozhegongsibangongshiligaorenshigongzuode，renhedexueyuefenghuayutabuxianggan。danxiaoyujinriyaogenwoshuode，queshitademeiduannanyiwanghuaideganqinggushi。jingshenchuguiyoushenmebiaoxian? mengjianairenchuguizenmehuishi ?

没听清楚他的低语

 woxiangyao，wozhongjiuburongyiwangdiaodaxuebiyeneiyitiandebanlijuhuihuodong，neisanzhongtoudejuhuihuodongli，woqinshenjinglileqidaidemeihaohexinhandetongchu。woduinei1geyelichongmanqidai，youyuwozaidengdaizheichangganqingdegaobai。zhihouwoxinhanjiqi，nageyelinaxiedoumeiyouchansheng，wodenghouneiren——luomingmeiyouduiwomenyougengfeichangdebiaoda，tatongjibenshangmei1genvhaidouhechanggequ，tongbierenchanghaoxiangbieyouyongyidedeaiqinggequ，tongwochangdeshitongqingganwuguande《dongfangzhizhu》。

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 jianxiqinei，luomingjingchangzaiyoushijiandeneishihoulaicanyinbukanzhewo。shuoqueshide，youyuyoutadeguanzhu，worenweifanzadetilihuoheshishengwuyongyouyisisidekuaile。qinei，qiahaozhuishangwo22suideshengchen，tasonglewoyikexiaoxiaojiezi，yaohaojibaiyuanba。neishihouzhenduiwoliangeryan，neifenlipinshizhenguidelebudede。dantasongwodeneishihou，yifenyihaonuanweidebiaodadoumeiyou，jinjinduiwomenjiangguojiju：“zhunishengrikuaile。”taqingliangdemuguang，zongyaowoganjuewodexinfanyiluanshitaitianzhen。dan1genanhaizihuisuibiansong1genvshengjiezhima?woxiangyaotashifoudengdaimou1gefeichangdeshikexiangwogaobai?

 3geyuedejianxiwanbideneishihou，tabangwodale1gedianhua。tazaidianhualishuo：“xiaoyu，woxiangyao，renmenweilaibukeyilaiguoyishengduanpanzi、purudandegongzuozhong，renmenyingdangduizishendefazhanqiantuzuo1gezhunbeide。”

 tingjianneiyangdehua，wohenjingya，wobumingbaishuobailejizijidefazhanqiantuzhunbeishiruheyicishier。nizhidaomawojiushimeifazhunbeide。wodebabamamashizaiyibandanshideyuangong，meiyoushenmeshili，yegenbenyixiangbudaohuiweiwokaishacemen。wochuzhongbiye，jinlezheisuozhigao，tamenjiuganjuezaoyiduiwomenhenchengdanle。jiarukeyixiangtongtanbaikaopudenanhaierwanhun，tamendagaijiuhuiganjuehenzhizuchanglele。genjuwosuozhidao，luomingdebabamamadoushiyibandezhigong，zhenduixiadaidefazhanqiantushimeishenmekongzhigongzuonenglide。

婚姻要我释放

 zidadaxuebiyejuhuihuodongyihou，chuguihuanxianghuibianchengzhendema?luomingjiumeiyoutongwodulilianluoguo，neizhiduiwomenyongyouduteshijiyiyidejiezirujinyiranfangdaowodejuzili。

 dangnibanjuedaduoshudetongxuemen，zaimeijiadajiudiangangkaishiqifuwushengdejianxinzhiyeshengyashi，luomingzhenjingdizuoshanglegongsibangongshi。womendouzhidao，tazai3nianlijiujinxinglecongyibankeyuandaoqiyejituanzhonggaocenglingdaoganbudedantiao。keshiwo，zaigangdaxuebiyedeneiliangnianguozhefeichangjianxinhemeiyouqidaideshiri。wojiushineileihenqueshideren，renweinenggoupingkuganranglingdaoganbufajuewo，tigaowo。zhihou，caichajuedehaiziqiyukebei。zaineileigongsili，gandezaijianxindoumeiyouyong，ruguonitongshangbianyouguanlian，ruguonidetaohaoshijiandingji，zheierzhongsuzhiwoyemeiyou，xingkuiwoyeyouqingchunnianshao，yousuanshiqingxiuderongyanba。wojianglaidejiapojiushiwolingdaoganbudepenyou，takanhaolewo，suihouxiangxijieshaohaizilejiewo。

 wodejiaposhigefeichangkeyizuoderen，yesuanzuowozheiyizhizaoxingyeliyouyidianergongzuojinglidetuixiuganbu。wodelaogongshiguaihaizihedaishadehaolaogong。dangyigenvhaijuedemeiyoushichangqianjinghetilibuzhideneishihou，benzhiwuxiaqukaolvdaoniaihuanshibuxihuanzheiyirende。wozhilejie，wotongtawanhunyihou，wozaiyebuxuyaoshangzaobanzhonghebanle，zaiyebuxuyaoduanpanziheyongfuwuxingdexiaorongshirenle。queshi，womenjiehunleyihou，woyehuanlezheifengongzuozhong。

 zaojiuwanwu，youguilvxingdeshangxiabanyuanxianshineimemeihaodezheijianshier。wodecanzhuoshangdaiyoubudianhua，woxiangyaodajisheijiudajishei。yiwangzaifandian，jibianqinrenyouzhejideshiyaowo，haiyaogenjuzhuguanhezhuguanzhuanda，tamenchuanbuzhuandayeyaokantamenkaixin。meiyouqinshenjingliguojianxindetilihuoderen，shibukeyiganshouzuozhegongsibangongshilidemeihaojuedede。youyuneifenannuandeyouxian，wofeichangganxiewodelaogonghetadeqinren。shirijiuneimepingshidiguoxialaile。

相逢的“顺理成章”

 mengjianairenchuguizenmehuishi?wojiushizaigongsibangongshilishoudaoluomingdedianhuade。shoudaotadianhuadeneishihou，woyidianerdoubujingya，tingdaojiushishuotadexiangsheng，wulunshiduoshaonianmeiyoulianluo，zheiyixiangshengzaiwoneixinyidianerdoumeiyouzhuanbian。tayuewohaizainanjingxiluyijianzhimingdejiudiancantingchiyuchi。wojuede《zhongguoshilihun》deneishihou，jingchangxiangqiyutachuqulangdeziji，queshi，jiushishuoneibanjinghuang、xingfen，yinyinyueyuedichongmanqidai。gezileshijinianyihouchuciduliyouhui，henguaiyi，zhengzhongjianxiaoshideshiguangtongrenmenmeiyoutaidadeguanxi，tarengranshijiyishenchujunxiudemoyang，yigesanshilaisui，shiyeshizhongchuzaishenggaoqingkuangdenansheng，nihuoxunenggouxiangxiangsuanchutayoushizaitaixiyinzhuren。

 tazheixienian，fuguironghuazhigaoqiyangdeyishizhuxing，tahuibiancheng1gegengyoufengfanhehuihongdenansheng。woni，zijishaohuashiqudenvxingjiandaonianqingshidaixinaideren，shiduoshaoyouyidianerquefazixin，ketakanzhewodemuguang，wanquanxiaochulewodebuzixin。taningwangwo，neileiningwangjiushiwolaogongjibianzailianqingshiyezuobuchuqude。tashoushangyouzhewo、yejiushishuojibenshangquanbudenvxingdoushixiaideneileiwupin。

 tashuo：“haijidewodaxuebiyejuhuihuodongdeneishihou，zainierduolimianbianshangshuodezheijuhuama?”wojiang：“womeitingdao，wozhijiandaonigenyigenvhaiyikuaierwangshanghaiwaitanfangweilikaile。”tatanleyixiazi，suihoushuo：“niya，yingdangtingjiandenijingranbuting，buyingdangjiandaodexiangqukantaganshenme?”tayongshougualeyixiaxiawodebitou，zheiyiqinmidexingweiyixiazibarenmenlajinle。

 tagenwoshuo：“woneishihougaosunidehuashi，wodengweilaihunhaolabixuyaolaiyuenide，niruhenenggoumeiyoutingjian!”yemeiyoutingjian，wozhilejie，neiwanjiushiwojiyishenchuzuinanguodeshiri——xiaidenanhaizigenyigenvrenlikaile!

 tabangwoliejutazheixienianhunhaoladezhengshi：jingshenchuguiyoushenmebiaoxian?tazaishiqumailailianggefangwu;jinqibujiumaixialaileyizhengtaodudongbieshu。tashuo：“niyoumeiyouxiangguo，dangshijiaruwomenxiangaihuichengnaxie，nixiangxianghuodema?niduanpanziwopuchuangya，e，rutong‘nitaishuilaiwozhibu’deshiri，daorujindayuehaimeiqianmaifangwu，meirifansanban，suihoudahuoerhuijiayouyuxinqingyumenerzhengchao。”

nizhidaomatashuodemeiyoucuo。wodangchudezheixiepengyou，yiranzaiguozheneibandeshiri。

 zaidenghuo、hongputaojiuhemiaomandezhuiyizhong，renmenzhuiyiyejiushishuoranghenduoniandexiwangbianchengshiji。taduiwomenjiangguoyiduanhua：“shunlichengzhang。”

 zheijiushishuowomenxiangaidejuede——shunlichengzhang。queshi，nei1geyeliyaowojuedeyishizhuxingduiwomenhentaiai，wonianqingdechixinhuodelezuixingfudeshouyi，womenxiangaijiushishuoshunlichengzhang。zheijiushiwodaxuebiyeshijinianlaijuedezuixingfude1geyeli，niquanbudexiangsidenghou，yuanxiandoubingbushidanlian，yuanxianzheiyishijieshanglingyirenshizhongshizaiguaniannide。zaitadeshuangyanxiabian，woyiranshi20suichurentoudidewo，zaixianghudeshuangyanliwomenyixishidangchuyangzi。zheicidepengmianjiushishuoyibian--zhumeng。

 fanhuijiazhong，laogongyiranshineimadaishaerzheyidiwangzhewo，tadedaishashixiantianxingde，tadezheyiyouyutayixinyiyidishuoaiwo。tajiuzheiyangziji，tazhongjiuyebutaikenengbianchengluomingneibanderen。danshi，tangruo，dangchuwotongluomingyiqi，jiarushizhongguozheyayiganpilaodedeyishizhuxing，tahuifouyebianweilaogongrujindemoyang?

 luomingjinqishizhongbangwotongdianhua，qidairenmenjixubaochizheileiguanlian，jingshenchuguiyoushenmebiaoxian?woqueshihengansitadeqingshen，quemeifajiejueneixindefanzuigan。xingfujingranyehuibianchengtongchu，tichufenshoushishenghuobuyidegengqiang，danxiangfengni?xiangfengruheyouchanshenglexindekunao?