到底爱情婚姻出现第三者了如何处理

 disanzhe，hunyinshenghuodehuimiezhe，wushujiazhongdouyouyudisanzhedechuxianertubengwajie，nenggoushuochengrenjinhenzhi。nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomadandisanzhedeshanghaibingbingbushinanjiede，gengbingbushidanghunyinshenghuozhongchuxianledisanzhejiufeiyaoliyibuneng，aiqinghunyinshijizhongyaoshifangshiyingyongqiadang，dajiahuanshiyongyou henduojibaidisanzhedejiyu，jinerchenggongzhengjiuwomendehunyin。

 yibanlaijiangdangdisanzhechuxianshi，dajiagengqianglietuijiandeshizhidoudisanzhe，erbushitiaoxuanzhenglianyinggang，youyuzheizhongjiujiushinidejiazhong，huduidejieguobuguanyoulie，duidajiaeryanquanshijudasunshi。yincikeyijishichulidisanzhedecunyoubianchengqushengdezhongyao，bianchuyubeidongweijiji。neimadangfajuezhangfuyoudisanzhegaizenmeban?dajiagairuhezhengquejiejueni?

yingduidisanzhe：fajuezhangfuyoudisanzhegaizenmeban-yingduidisanzhe

一、维持镇定，控住自身的心态

 xuduo nvxingyouyunanshengdepanbianerzaocheng qingxushikong，jinerzuochuguojixingwei。yingdangshuoyouxintaishiyiqiezhengchangde，xiaojiqingxujileiguoduoyeshibixuxuanxiede，dandajiabixuzhangwoyigedu。ninengtiaoxuanyigeshidudeqingkuangxia，shidudechangsuorangzishenxuanxieyitong，danzaizishendezhangfuyanqian，liyingjinliangdeweichizhending。neiyangjinenggourangzishenzuochulizhidefenbian，lingwaibuhuiyiyidailao，shizishenyingduidisanzhenanduxishutisheng。

二、解铃还须系铃人

 disanzhedechuxian，yecongcebiandefanyinglenihezhangfudeqingganzishenjiuchulenanti，suhuashuodehaoyigebazhangpaibuxiang，nizhangfuruguobuyuanyi，jianxindisanzheyeyidingnatameizhe，suoyishuoyingduidisanzheshidefangfahuanshicongnizhangfuzheilixiashou。aiqinghunyinliangzhezhijianquhedisanzhedakoushuizhan，bibushangduodiansixuquweichihezhangfudeqinggan，pingchangrichangshenghuoduoyidianhudongjiaoliu，bubiyizhibanzhegelian，lingwaihaiyaoduoyixiedangdan，weizhangfupaiyoujienanpaiyoujienan，jiaruninengzaiciluhuozhangfudexin，neimayingduidisanzheyejiubushiwenti。

三、明白反省

 hunyinshenghuozhongwulunshidisanzhezhaoshangmenlaihuanshishuonizhangfuxiandezuidedisanzhe，doubiaomingledajiadeqingganyijingmanmanxiaotui。qinggantuiwenshigechijiunanti，buguanjiehunhaijiuhundoushiyouhenyoukenenghuichuxian，erqieyiqieyiduifuqiquanshidandudegeren，douyongyou tamenduyiwuerdetexing，dajiananyixunzhaoyigequannengdegongshijisuanquchuliquanbudehunlianwenti。shidefangshiyiranshiduizhengzhiliao，zhaodaofufuganqingbiandandezhijieyuanyin。zheijiuguidingdajiayongyou chongzudefanshenggongzuonengli，mingbaiziwofansi，congpingchangdeshenghuoqijuzhongzhaodaojiatingbuhedegenbenyuanyin，suihouyoumudexingdequjiuzheng。

四、做一个知性优雅的女性

 nvxingjiaoda defengcaiqujueyuzhixingyouya，qujueyumingbaizhaoliaonanshengdexintai。nijiaruzhenxinshiyiyaoxiangjibaidisanzhe，wanhuilaogongdexindexin，jiuxuyaoxuehaoyidebaoyuan，ranglingyifangjiandaozishendechengxinchengyi。ziranzheierbingbushishuojiuhushizhangfuchuguidezheileigerenxingwei，zhishicaiyongyizhongbijiaorouhedefangfabale。bubiwuyuanwugubianshishengsilijie，sanliangjubufuhejiubaoda，neiyangmeishenmeyouyidajiadewanliumudi。

 yiyizhongjiaoxinhuoshijulishuomingdefangfa，congcebianrangzhangfulejiedajiazaoyibawoletawaiyudisanzhedezhijiezhengju，danyoubujingyiyaoxiangbashiernaoda，guihaitaliuchulehuanjiedekongjian，zuodaozheileimudijiukeyile。genjuzheileijiaoweihanxudefangfagaozhilingyifang，jibaocunlenanshengdeqingmian，jiletayigejietixia，yehenhaodeshuominglezishendexintai。jiarunanshenghaishenaizheni，neimatadangranhuizaochenggulv，zaicisisuozheizaiqizhongdeliyiguanxi。

 yingduidisanzheshijishangbuhuitainan，xuduo nvxingbuchenggongbingbingbushitamenbuzufangzaixinshang，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomayebushishuozishendezhangfujiuchedibuxihuantamenle，daliangdeshixuanyonglebuzhengquedefangshi，shiqudewanliujihui。jiarunizhenxinshiyiyaoxiangzhengjiuzheiyijiazhong，niyejiunenggouyizhaozhishangdesigefangshiquzuo，jianxinduinidewanliuyidingkeyijuyouxiezhu。