就是爱情婚姻出现第三者了如何处理

 zuoweiyigedangdainvxing，bujinyaozuoshaxiangsha，haideguandezhuxiaohai，doudeledisanzhe。nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomaguanjianshixuduo xifuzaizhangfuyoudisanzhehou，bingbushiyikuernaosandiaosi，aiqinghunyinbianshijianjueliyilaosibuxiangwanglai。

 shubuzhiqianmianyizhongzongshirangnanshengdeyiyangyang，ganjuenilibuleta。houmianyizhongzongshihuasuanledisanzhe，kulezishenhezishendexiaohai。neima，zuoweixifuyingdangruheyingduidisanzheni?

应对第三者的五大绝技之一、明白对自身好

 hunyinshenghuozishenbianshiyoufengxianxingde，hunyinshenghuozhongdenantiyixieyebushiniyigerenjiunengrongqiade。keshiyuefazaipengdaosunhaideqingkuangxia，yuefayaomingbaiwanqiangdian，chengguoqujiuxing。liangzhezhijianhuashijiangendisanzhedouzheng，bibushanghuishouhaohaodihaohaoaiziji，zhiqianzishenbushedechi、shebudechuan，rujinyaogaihuilai，gangkaishiquzhuzhongxiachi、chuan、yong。

 nixuyaolejieliangzhezhijianrangzhangfuzhaodisanzhehuajiazhongdeqian，bibushanghuawannanshengdeqian，kantayeyoumeiqianzhaodisanzhe。ruguonichuanshanglegaogenxiezi，huaqilejingmeidezhuangmian、fuzhuangdedangyazhishi，nidezhangfuyidinghuifajueniyuguoqudebuyiyang。

 jineryehuiduinizailingyanxiangkan。zhongjiufufu，ganqingjichuzai，jiarutameiyouliyidexin，aiqinghunyinneimadisanzhezaiqiangdadouyushiwubu。

应对第三者的五大绝技之二、提高自己，纠正自身的身上的缺陷

 ruguonijiuzhenglezishendeshenshangdequexian，huiranglaogonghuanranyixin，zaicizhaodaochuliandeganjue。hainenggouzaiyigeshihedeziranhuanjingxiadadazhenqingpai，chentuolianggerenyilutaguodekankankeke，yiqianwanmeideaiqing，jianjianditarumeimanhunyindequanguocheng，jineryibubuwanhuizhangfudexin，jibaidisanzhe。

 erqie，mingbaizaizhangfumianqianweichixingfudepinpaixingxiang。jiehunhouyiliangnian，lianggerenhaitiantian，jiule，bianhuiganjuelaofuqi，henduoshierbuyongjihui，richangshenghuomeishenmebihuidetiya、dageerdengshi，shenzhihaihuijixuduilaogongjianghuayulaiyutaiguo。bukeyiyouyudajiazaiyiqideshijianjiule，yebuzhongshipinpaixingxiang，neiyangzongshishitaduiniyulaiyushengshu，yegengshiyouyuzheiban，caijiledisanzhedekechenzhiji。jiaruninengzaizhangfudeyanqianyizhibaochiwendingdepinpaixingxiang，weichibuduandexiyinzhu，neimatadangranyejiumeiyoukongxiandexinquzhaodisanzhele。

应对第三者的五大绝技之三、应对第三者得用软一点的一口气

 yibannvxingyingduidisanzhedaduoshujidetongma，jiarunihuanyigeshijiao，xinpingqihedishuo：「qidaidajianenghaohaodizaiyiqi。laimanzuzheiyiduanhuihuainixingfukuailedeqinggan。niyexuhuiganjuenanyibaozheng，danyouerdianyuangufeichangzhidenikaolvdao：yishidisanzhexiaiqiangdejuede，tarensongtade，taburongyineimayaoxiang。erlai，liangnianhoukanzheniruoshiqueshimanzuyiduanzhenqingganyesuanzuoyijianxingshanjidedeshi。

应对第三者的五大绝技之四、始终别舍弃自身做为老婆的有益地形，宜以守为攻

 hewaibiandedisanzheduibi，yizhijuedelaopobuguancongganqing、shehuifazhanhuanshicongshijianluojixingshangmianzhanjinletianshidili。yibanzhuangkuangxia，yaoshinengjishizhuazhunyouyidimao，busuibianqichenggongji，ruoshiyishouweigongdehua，daduoshushinenggouchenggongde。

 pajiupazheixieqiankaolv，wangtuqidai“yiqingdongren”he“yiqipoyaren”denvxing，biaocengshanglaikannenggougaoshengrangyiliangju，zhaolaiyixierendekanrenao，huodejigerendelianminheshiyong。

 shijishangtaquesangshigengweiguanjiandeyigerenhegengweiguanjiandeyigeyingxiangli，zheigerenbianshitadezhangfu，zheiyiyingxianglibianshitazuoweilaopodehaoranhebaorong。zheibanyinao，yanzhiyoulijiubianchenglebuli，zhengdangfangweijiubianchenglejingong，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomabuliangyingxiangtongchangshirenweiyinsunanyicaozongde。