爱情婚姻出现第三者了如何处理的呢

 fajuedisanzhe，youdenvxingbuzulixing，duinanshengtianmanzenghenhejingtixin。yiyanhaiyan，neiyangdezuofashizhongyinxiaoshida，ruoshizhaodisanzhejiaoshe，yeshizitaomeiqu。zheizhongquanshijiejuehunyinchuguizuiyumeidexingwei。jiaruhaishenaizhezhangfu，aiqinghunyinnandaoaiyigerenyoucuomayebuyuansheqizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，fajuezhangfuzhaodisanzhegaizenmeban?weilegenghaodizuohaohezhangfudeguanlian，xiufuhunyin，nvxingjiuxuyaoxuehaoconghuidejiejuechuguinanrenzheijianshiqing。

一、别姑息放任

 fajuezhangfuzhaodisanzhe，neiyangdeshierkendingbukeyiguxifangren。jiufangfoyigerenguiguisuisuidi，ganlehenbufengcaideshi，niyaokuanrongzuinie，kuanrongherongxuneiyangdegerenxingwei，tazhidaonikendingbuhuiruhe，neimazhihoujiuyuelaiyuegengweifangsi，ganjuelisuoyingdangni，zaifazhanqushixialaijiugansiwujidandizuocuoshi。

 dangduanzeduan，danglizeli。nibunengchengshou、bukeyijienade，yidingyaoduanranjujue，chuxianyichangjiandingbuyi，rangzhangfugaoqingchunidebiaozhunhedaodedixian。huozhesuzhuyufalvfagui，nachufalvfaguidewuqizhuangbeibaohuziji。aiqinghunyinkendingbukeyiguxifangren，neibanzongshiduizishendehuaxuewuzhi、huozhejingshenshenghuodaozhidaliangdesunhai。

二、聪慧的解决外遇

 yiqieyigerendehunhoushenghuo，doushiyouhenyoukenengzaoshouwaiyudeshier。qinggandequanqiuwaiyuwukebimian，nixuyaozuode，bingbushiqudanyouheshikefangbeizhezishendezhangfu，ruguoshineiyangdexinlizhuangtai，nidanxindeshierfandaogengfeichangrongyibianweikeguanshishi。qingshanggaodenvrenfajuezhangfuzhaodisanzhe，jiuxuyaoxuehaoyixiegaoxiaolvdefangdisanzhefangshi，weicilaitisheng hunyinshenghuodemianyinengli。

 nenggouyoubiaozhundibaoronglingyifang，shidudijizhangfuyigejietixia，erbushibawozhijiezhengjuhoububujinbi。ruoshimanhengwuli，zhangfuguoduanjiuzibaoziqi，yibuzuoerbuxiu，yuniwanquanpolie，zaiyebuhuihuishoudejiyule。jiaruniyouyigebaorongheqianjiudexinlizhuangtai，zhangfujiubaoshangshenghuiyi，tayeyouhuishoudeyixiang，haixiangyunizaixuqingyuan，fujianyigexingfudejia。

三、属实告之心里

 fajuezhangfuzhaodisanzhe，bubiquzhuizonghejiankongta，yebubiqusousuozhijiezhengju。neiyangdezuofajinjinzhemo，yehuibazhangfutuidegengzhangyuan。nanshengzuidichunvxingdezheizhongyumeixingwei，cushifuqijiandeqinggangengweiebian，benyingguishuyuzishenxuyoudezhipeiquan，yehuichedixiaotui。

 qingxiangtashushigaozhizishendexinlitihui，shitagaoqingchunideshangxinnanguo，shitarenzhinidenaonuhezenge。kanyixiazhangfudefanyingzenyang?jiaruzhangfuduiniyeyouai，huichuxianaohuiheneijiu，huidanyousunhaini，tahuishoulianxingzishendeyantanjuzhi。jiaruzhangfuzaoyiburongyikaolvdaonidexinlitihui，chedibuzaiyini，neimazheihunyinshenghuoyequeshimeifabaochile。

四、明白信心自立

 zhangfuzhaodisanzhe，burongzhiyibiaomingleyigenanti，nvrenqizhibuzu。ruguonvrenyouchongzudefengcai，zairuhehuaxinnanrenyehuiweitadiaozhengxintai。nvrenyaomingbaixinxinhezili，xinxinbianshizuipiaoliang、zuixiyinrendeyizhongfengcai，ruguoninengxinxinhezili，tajiulengzhu，disanzheyeyaoyuanshaoxun，buziliangli。

 yingduiwaiyudezhangfu，ninengxinxindibuxieyigu：xiangxinbushuyuwode，tarenshizhongqiangbudong!nidandingziruo，zhangfubuzhidaonihululimaideshenyao。niyuefabubazheidangyihuishi，duitayebinglengde，meiqujiuchanbuqingzheizhongzharenlanshi，nandaoaiyigerenyoucuomatadangranbianhuishoulianxingzishendegerenxingwei。xinxinzilidenvxing，keyichixuzengjiazishendefengcai，yehuirangzhangfuzaicifajueniderongyan。