有点作和自私的我应该怎么挽回男友？

　　fenshouhouzenyangwanhuiyiduanpoliedeganqing，chengweilexuduorenxinlingshenchuzuikewangdeshiqingzhiyi。bulunshiyinweiwuhui、zhengzhihuoshiwufadiaohedechabie，wanhuiyiduanfenshouhouzhijiandeguanxibingfeiyishi。danshi，zaibuduanhezhenchenggongtongnulixia，genjugaibianxianzhuang、goutongjiaoliujiyulingyifangjianliyigexindelianluo，womenhuiyouhenyoukenengranqineiyifenhuomiao，fujianbicizhijiandexinrenhewengudeganqingjiben。buguanzaoyuruhedejiongjing，wanhuiaidexinyuanshizhongdoushiyichangyinggaishizhongjianchiqinfendedazhan。

　　jianshu：zenyangzaifenshouhoufujianpoliedeganqing

　　探寻内心深处的真实体验

　　fenshouhouzenyangwanhui，zaifenshouhou，renmenchangchangbeifumianqingxusuoyingxiang，buzhidaogairuhemianduihebiaodazijizhenshitiyan。danshi，ruoxiangwanhuiyiduanganqing，shouxianyaoshenruyanjiuneixindezhenshitiyan。weiyoutongguorenqingtongchu、beishangheshiwang，cainengzhenzhengdezhongshineixinshenchudepinghenghenengliang，weifujianguanliantiqianzuohaozhunbei。

　　反思过去错误

　　fenshoubingfeidanfangmianyiwu，meiyiduanganqingdoushihuiyougezidenantishenghuozhongdemaodun。yiner，zaiwanhuiganqingyiqian，womenyinggailizhidifansiguoqucuowuhecunzaidebuzu。shibushiqueshaogoutong，shibushiqianquelijieyuzhichi，shibushihulveduifangdexuqiudeng。duizishendeguoshichengdanyebushiweilekuijiu，gengshiweilezaijiexialaideguanxilifangzhizaidufancuowu。

　　寻找内在成长自我改变

　　fenshouyihou，dajiaxuyaosikaobingzhaodaoshuyuzijideneizaichengzhangziwogaibiandequdongli。bulunshixuexipeixunxindejineng、suzaoziliziqiangdeshenghuozhuangtai，huoshitigaozijideqingshanghewentijiejuenengli，zheidoushifujianganqingdeguanjiansuozai。genjuneizaifazhanziwogaibian，womenkeyizhongsuzijideyingxiangliyuzixin，xiyinduifangzaiciningshiwomenzijidediaozhenghefazhan。

　　良好的沟通与理解

　　fujianganqingbixulianghaodegoutongyulijie。zaiheqianrenjiaotanshi，dajiaxuyaocaiquduiwaikaifangyuzunzhongdexintai，qingtingbierendeganshouyuxuqiu，bingqieyebiaodazijideguandian。zaijiaoliuzhong，womenyinggaifangzhipipinghezhengzhi，bingxunqiuyitongjiejuefangan。genjubicizhijianlijieyuzhichi，cainengzhenzhengdejianliqigengjiankanghelaogudeguanlianjiben。

　　建立一个新的联系和追忆

　　zaifenshouhou，jianliyigexindelianxihezhuiyizhenduifujianganqinghenguanjian。womentongguogongtongdegerenaihao、lvyou、canyuhuodongdengxingshi，zaicijianliqihudongyitongdemeihaohuiyi。zheibujinyouliyujiazhongbicidelejiehelejieduifangdefazhan，yenengweiwomenkaichuangxinzuimeihaodehuiyi，tishengqinmiganyuqingganxianghulianjie。

　　热情和锲而不舍

　　wanhuiyiduanganqingxuyaonaixinheqieerbushe。fenshoubingfeiyiyezhijianjiunenggaibiande，dajiayaofuchushizhangyunulilaizhongjianxinrenheganqing。yucitongshi，womenyeyinggailijieduifangdejueceyukongjian，bubibipolingyifangfanhuiwomendeshenghuozhong。weiyoutongguoreqingheqieerbushe，dajiacainengyoujihuiwanhuizaihuderen，congtoukaishimeihaoganqinglvtu。

　　fenshouhouzenyangwanhui，zaifenshouhouwanhuiyiduanganqingbingfeiyishi，danzhiyaowomenweichijijidexintaiyufuchuzhenzhideqinfen，jiuhenyoukenengfujianpoliedeganqing。genjuhezijigenduifangdexinlinghuihua、sikaobuzhengque、xunzhaofazhan、lianghaodegoutong、jianliyigexindelianxihezhuiyi，yucitongshiduoyidiannaixinyujianchi，dajiahaiyoujihuiranqineiyifenshenaizhehezhenxideganqing，chuangzaoyigegengmeihaodemingtian。