婚姻复合：让出轨老婆后悔的3个步骤

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　　常见问题：

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　　HowTo

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　　1. 利用"愧疚感波动期"精准介入

　　chuguinvxingzaijiqingqihouhuijingli3gexinlijieduan：di4-6zhoukaishichanshengkuijiugan，di8-12zhoujinrujiazhimimangqi，di16zhouhouchuxianguanxifansi。zhuazhuzheisangechuangkouqi，zaikuijiuqishiduzhanxiannidetongku(ru"wuyi"rangtakandaonishimiandeyaopin)，zaimimangqizhanshijiatingwennuanzhaopian，zaifansiqitongguohaizichuandisinian。shujuxianshizheizhongfangfawanhuichenggonglvtisheng58%。

　　2. 制造"社交价值比较"压力

　　chuguinvxingzuizaiyiqingrenyuyuanpeideshehuipingjiachayi。yaoqingnimengongtongzunzhongdezhangbeizuzhijiatingjuhui，zaiziranchanghezhanxiannidechengshuwenzhong;tongshitongguopengyou"wuyi"touluqingrendefumianxinxi(rujingjizhuangkuang、guowangqingshi)。yanjiuxianshi，83%dechuguinvxinghuizaishehuipingjiayalixiazhongxinquanhengguanxijiazhi。

　　3. 启动"母性唤醒"计划

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　　4. 实施"价值替代性"测试

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　　5. 设计"现实困境"对比

　　hunwaiqingzaijiqingtuiquehouyaomianduixianshiwenti。shishirangtakandaoqingrenchulirichangsuoshidewuneng(rubuhuixiushuiguan)，tongshizhanxiannijiejueshijiwentidenengli。zhizuo"xianshiduibiqingdan"，liechuniyuqingrenzaijingjinengli、zerengandeng10geweidudekeguanbijiao。shujuxianshizheizhonglixingduibinengrang78%dechuguifangzhongxinpingguguanxi。

　　6. 运用"情感断崖"效应

　　dangwaiyujinrupingdanqishi，turanhouchenideqinggantouru：banchuwoshizhu，quxiaoshengriqingzhu，zaishejiaoquanbaochishidujuli。zheizhong"shiqugan"huichufatadeweijiyishi。yanjiuxianshi，qiadaohaochudechoulinengrang62%dechuguifangzhudongxunqiufuhe，danxuyangekongzhichetuichengdubimianchediduanlie。

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