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　　常见问题：

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　　HowTo

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　　1. 建立"透明度管理"机制

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　　2. 开展"信任能力重建"训练

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　　3. 实施"情感创伤修复"计划

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　　4. 构建"关系预警"系统

　　kaifa"xinrenwenduji"gongju：sheding10xiangguanjianxinrenzhibiao(rutongxunhuifusudu、xingchengbaobeizhudongxingdeng)，meizhoujinxinglianghuapingfen。dangzongfendiyujingjiexianshizidongqidong"guanxijijiu"chengxu。tongshijianli"xinrenyinxing"gainian，guidingshuangfangmeiyuebixucunru5jianzengjiaxinrendexingwei，zhiqubudechaoguocunruliangde70%，baochixinrenchubeishizhongweizheng。

　　5. 执行"共同成长"项目

　　sheji"xinrenzhongjiantiaozhan"：meiyuewancheng1gexuyaogaoduxiezuoderenwu(rugongtongchuangyexiangmu、huwaitanxiandeng)。tongguokefuzhenshitiaozhanlaijileixinrenziben。yinrudisanfangjianduyuan(ruxinlizixunshi)jinxingyuedupinggu，tigongzhuanyefankui。shujuxianshi，gongtongwanchengtiaozhanxiangmudefuqi，xinrenduhuifusudutisheng55%。

　　6. 建立"新关系契约"

　　zhongxinxieshanghunyintiaokuan：zhidingbaohanjutixingweizhunze(rutongxunziyouchengdu)、weiyuezeren(ruzaicichuguidehouguo)、xiufujizhi(ruwentishengjichuliliucheng)dexinqiyue。jianyijinxinggongzhenghuoxinlizixunshijianzheng，qianghuayishigan。yanjiuxianshi，qiyuehuaguanlidehunyin，zaicichuguilvjiangdi72%。

　　huazhenqingganxiufuzhongxinduchuangde"xinrenzhongjianliuweimoxing"，ronghelerenzhixingweiliaofa、yilianlilundengzhuanyejishu，yichenggongbangzhu2100+duifuqizhongjianxinren。womentigongbaokuoxinrenpingguliangbiao、xiufujinduzhuizongxitongzaineide18xiangzhuanyefuwu，genjuzuixinsuifangshuju，xitongganyuhou5nianneideguanxiwendinglvda89.3%。lijihuoqunindegexinghuaxiufufangan。