谈恋爱是选择性格互补还是性格相似？

　　"aiqingzhudingyaofenshou"zheihuajieluleaiqingdezhuxingwuchanghebianhuanmoce。bulunshiyouyushijiandetuiyi，yeshiyinweimanmandemoheqihewufadiaohedemaodun，aiqingtongchangmaixiangjieshu。dajiachangchangbaaiqingkanzuoyonghengbubianheyonghengde，danyoushihouquewufahuibixianshicanku。zheihuazhenqiedixushuleaiqingdemingyun，budeburangrensisuoaihefenkaidefuzaguanxi。suiranaiqingzhudingyaofenshou，danyezhengshiyinweizheiyibidingzuizhongdejieju，cainengzhenzhengdegewaizhenxiheshouzangzheixieduanzanaiqingjiyili。

　　1. 命运的残酷变幻莫测

　　aiqing，shiyichangshenmierfuzadelvtu，qizhongbaokuozheyuyueyuyoushang、sishouyufenli。suiranrenmenchangchangqidaiaiqingkeyizhangjiu、yonghengbubian，danmingyunquezaishenhoujingjingdicaozongzheyiqie。aiqingzhudingyaofenshou，zheiyiguandianyinqilerenmenduimingyundetansuo。mingyunfenpeidajiataruxiangaizhilu，quezhudingyaoxianggeliangdi；mingyunrangwomenxiangyuxiangzhi，yiranzaizuimeideshihouchajinwuqingdilibie。aiqingfangfoshiyigewuqingdixijubiaoyan，dajiawulikangju，zhiyousuidaliu。

　　2. 时间残酷消逝

　　shizhang，shiaiqingdezhuyaoduishou。aiqingzhudingyaofenshou，qizhongyigezhuyaodeyuanyinjiushishijiandetuiyi。zuichudeshihou，dajiachongmanreqingyulangman，duiyuweilaichongmanqidai。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，shenghuozhongdesuoshiyuyalimanmanfushilewomenreqing，rangwomendeaiqingyuelaiyueyuan。shijianbuhuiren，wulunnishiduomedeshenaizhelingyifang，tahaihuihaobuliuqingdejiangdajiayinxiangfenshoubianyuan。

　　3. 无法调和的矛盾和磨合期

　　aiqingzhudingyaofenshou，yeshiyouyurenherenzhijiancunzaiwufadiaohedemaodunhemoheqinanti。meiyigerendouyouzhezijidejiazhiguannianhexiguan，suoyidangyishifashengchongtushi，jiunanyidadaodegongshi。bingqie，gangkaishideshihouxinxianganyujiqinghuizhujianxiaotui，xianshizhonggongchunantizhujianfuchushuimian。buguanwomenduomedenulidequmoheqi，youshihouyewufabimianfenshouzuizhongdejieju。

　　4. 珍惜和学会放手

　　suiranaiqingzhudingyaofenshou，womenyirannenggoubangzhuhuodeyixiezhenguidejingyanhejiaoxun。aiqingjiaohuiwomenzhenxiheshouzangzheixieduanzanxingdemeihaojiyi，nenggouzaifenlizhongfazhanhewanqiang。tarangwomengaoqingchufangkaishoubingbudaibiaosheqi，gengshiweilejibicigenzijigenghaodemingtian。aiqingchedijieshubingbudengyubuchenggong，fanershirangwomengewaizhenxiyihoukenengdeouyu，mingbaizaimianduitongkushijiandingdixiangqiantuijin。

　　5. 爱情的神奇和快乐

　　jinguanaiqingzhudingyaofenshou，danwomenbunenghulvetadeshenqihekuaile。aiqingshiyizhongteshudeqingxu，takeyirangwomenganshoudaojidadekuaileyudadao。jibianaiqingdejiejufenshou，danwomenrengranyinggaijijierleguandiyingdui，xiangyouaiqingjiwomendailaidemeihaoshike。aiqingdeduanzanxingyerangwomengewaizhenximeiyigeyongbao、meiyiciqingtu。

　　zaizheigeshijie，aiqingzhudingyaofenshoubingbudengyutashiquqijiazhi。aiqingjiaohuiwomenfazhan，jiaohuiwomentihuichunzhendeqinggan，jiaohuiwomenzhenxixianzai。jinguansangshishitongkude，danwomenyiranhaikeyizaifenshoudeguochengdangzhongxunzhaoyonggandemianduidenengliang，jiqicongtoukaishidejihui。buguanaiqingshifenshouhuoshizhangqixiangsui，womendouyaojiandingdiyinglaita，bingcongzhongjiqushengmingdezhihuihexinxin。