六种心态因素直接导致青年男女恋爱失败

　　duanlianhefenshoudequti，zairenjiguanxizhong，duanlianhefenshoushiliangzhongwanquanbutongdingyi，tamenfenbieqianshedaoqingganhelianxidejieshu。duanlianzhideshizaiwanbiqinmiguanxihouwanquanzhongzhilianluo，jiangliangrendelianxichediduankai；erfenshouzhideshixiaochulianaiguanxi，danbingbuyidingyiweizhechediduanlian。duanlianhefenshoudequbiequjueyuqianmianyizhonggengchongfen、gengjiduanhua，chuandichuduiguoqudewanquansheqiyuzhongxinkaishijuexin，erhouzhezehenyoukenenghanyoumouzhongchengdudebaocunhuoyiranbaochimouleilianluodegailv。erzhedetiaoxuanwangwangqujueyugerenduiyuyiwangguanliantaiduheduiweilaideqixu。

　　过去的羁绊，断一切联接

　　duanlianhefenshoudequti，zaiaiqingshijieli，duanlianhefenshoushiliangzhongbijiaochangjiandegerenxingwei，tadouyiweizheduilishilianxidetingzhi。danshi，duanlianhefenshoudefangshiheshijixiaoguoquejieranbutong。duanlian，shuobaile，shizhizaiwanchengqinmiguanxihouwanquantingzhiyiqielianluo，jianglianggerenlianxichediduankai。zheileijuerandechulifangshiyiweizhebulunshimianduimiandejiaoliu、shejiaomeitishangdehudongjiaoliu，shenzhigongtongdepengyoushejiaoquan，douyijingbeiwanquanmochu。zheileiduanliandexingshiyoushihoujiushiweileyiwangyiwangdekuchu，zhonghuiduliziqiangdeqingkuang，tongshiyeweilezaijingshenshangwanquancongguoqudeyinyingzhongjietuochulai。

　　关联消除，分手为此

　　xiangjiaoyuduanlian，fenshoushigengweipubianqielingbiandefangshiquwanbiyiduanlianaiguanxi。fenshoujiushizhitiqianzhunbeiyulianrenwanquanfangxiaganqingbingxiaochulianaiguanxi。suiranfenshouyekenengdailaicitenghenanao，danshiheduanlianbuyiyangdeshi，fenshoubingbushiyiweizhechediduankaiyiqielianluo。fenshoukenengbaoliuyixieshijingshenghuoxiujueshenjing，liruyoushihoudewenhou、yitongpengyoujuhuijiqiyixiebiyaodelianluo。zheizhongfangfajiyubiciyixiewendingxinghemeiyouneimechedidisheqi，henyoukenenggengjiayouliyujiejuefenshouzhihoudexintaiyujiaoliu。

　　危害和选择，两难抉择

　　zaiduanlianhefenshouzhongjianzuochujueding，zhenduixuduorenlaishuoshiyixiangkunaodemeirirenwu。duanliandexuanzeyoukenengshiyouguoqudeshanghaiduizishenhuifudexianshixuqiutuidongerchengde。genjuduanlian，renmennenggoubuyaoguodujiujieheguoduozhuiyijiqiduilishiqingganshangdeyikao。danshi，duanlianbingbuyidingshibianyuzhixing，tebieshizaiyouyingjinzhizeyuliyideqingxingxia。zheishihou，dajiawangwanghuixuanzefenshou，tongguohelixiangchumoshihexinlibianjiequchulitongkuyubuheshiaiqing。zheizhongxuanzezebaocunleyixieheguoquxiangguandeguanlian，henyoukenenggengjiafuhegerendeyaoqiuhejutiqingkuang。

　　重新开始，自身复建

　　bulunshiduanlianhuoshifenshou，shuodaodiquanshiweilejizijiyigezhongxinkaishiyuziwozhongjiandejiyu。genjuduanlianhefenshou，renmennenggouzhuixunneixindeningjing、zhongzhiduiguoqudeyikao，yekeyizhongxinshenshizijideyuwangshichangxuqiu。zheileibaituoyuziyoudeganjue，rangrenmenkeyixiangyongmeihaoshenghuo，houzhongxinwajuetamenzuixiangyaodedongxiwupin。zhongxinkaishimodadeyongqihejiandingdeyizhi，danshizhiyougenjuheguoquduanlianhuofenshou，caikeyizaisangshizhongxunzhaoxindejihuihexiwang。

　　情与缘，断联和分手的区别

　　duanlianhefenshoudequti，duanlianhefenshou，suirandoushiyiweizheduiguoqudesheqihetingzhi，danerzhezhijianquecunzaihenmingxiandequbie。duanliangengweijiduanhua，yiweizheyebuhuiyourenhefangshidelianluo，yiwanquanjiefangziji。erfenshouzebijiaolingbian，keyibaoliuyidingdelianluo，weishuangfangtigongyixiehudongdiaojiedejiyu。zenmexuanzeduanlianhuofenshou，zhuyaoqujueyubenrenduilishiguanliandeguandianheweilaideqidai。buguanxuanzenayizhongfangfa，tadouweiwomendailailezhongxinkaishihezhuiqiuxingfudejiyu。zuizhuyaodeshi，zouchuguoqudeyinmai，yonggandequmianduijianglaidegailv。