女生初次约会如何避开尴尬?

　　zaiaiqingdebodongzhong，fenshoukenengyiweizheyiduangushichedijieshu。danshi，dangyiduilianrenfenshouhou，nanyouquexuanzeleyigeteshudefangshilaianshizheliangrenzhijiandepolie。tabuzaishengjipengyouquan，buhuizaigongxiangshenghuodediandiandidi，haoxiangzangnizhezijidecunzai。zheituruqilaidechenmowuyan，budeburangrenchuaimobeihoudeyuanyin，yinweitadexinyibuzaishuyuziji，haishichuyuzangyudebeishanghewunai？fenshouhounanyoubuzaigengxinpengyouquan，yexushitaxinlingshenchudeyizhongbiaoshu，yizhongchedifangxiadexingshi，rangtamenduziyirenjienazijideguoquyuweilai。

　　jianshu：yinzangdexindong，pengyouquandeningjing

　　第一段：无声间距

　　dangyiduilianrenzaiaiqingdaolushanggebendongxi，bicizhijianyiqianbicifuwuchengnuodeaiyuxingfushashijianxiaohaodaijin。zheiyibeishangdefenshoubujinyinciyiduanyiwang，gengjiashiyiduangushideluoxiaweimu。danshi，zaizheiyangyigeshuzihuashidai，shejiaowangluorupengyouquanquechenglebicizhijianqingxubianhuadequanshi。xianrujin，fenshouhounanyoudepengyouquanqueyiwaidichuxianchenmoyihuier。cihou，tabuzaishengjipengyouquan，haoxiangbasuoyoudewenxinyupeibanyinnizailexuwudeshenhou。

　　第二段：无音的表达

　　yiqiandejiqingshishikeke，congqiandehuangexiaoyu，zaitapengyouquanzhong，zaojiupingkongxiaoshi。hemeiyigerengongxiangshenghuodediandiandidi、kaixindeshunjianjibenshanghuaweiwuyou。taxuanzelejingjingdiningjing，haoxiangbingbuzaizaihuwaibudeyanjieheguanxin。bulunshiyiduanmeijingdexiangpian，huoshiyicikuanghuandekuanghuanpaidui，suoyoudeyiqiedouyutawuguanle。fenshouhounanyoubuzaigengxinpengyouquan，haoxiangtabazijicongzheishijieshangmochu，xiaoshizailewuyinxiaojiaoluo。

　　第三段：无声暗喻

　　danshi，tazheizhongwuyindexingweishibushidaibiaoletaneixindezhenshitiyanni？huoxu，fenshouhounanyoubuzaigengxinpengyouquan，henyoukenengbingbujinjinshiyizhongxiaoyin、chenmowuyan，gengshiyizhongxinlingshenchudeanyu。yexu，tadeneixinzaoyichengzhang，buhuizaishuyuziji。yexu，tamianduifenshoudekuchuhewunai，xuanzeleyongchenmowuyanlaibaonangzishen。yihuo，shitafangxiacongqiandezhuduo，qiaoqiaodetashangxindelvtu。buguanzenyang，zheileibuhuizaishengjipengyouquandejudong，doujiyuzhezijixinlingshenchudeyizhongqingxu。

　　第四段：无声随意

　　fenshouhounanyoubuzaigengxinpengyouquan，shitaxinlingshenchudeyicishifang，doushiduiguoqudeyizhongdaobie。zaishejiaomeitidexinfuqizaoshijiezhong，taxuanzeletianjing，bazijicongwaibudefenxiaozhongshifangchu。tawuxuzaigenjupengyouquanlaizhengmingzijidecunyou，bianbuzaixunzhaowaibudeguanzhuherenke。tanlianaidewanbibingbudengyutashiqulequanbu，fandaoshizhongxinshiqizishendeqipo，zhongshineixindeningjingyujiandingbuyi。zaitawuyinzhong，tazhaodaozijidesuiyi。

　　第五段：无声将来

　　fenshouhounanyoubuzaigengxinpengyouquan，yexushitaxuanbuzijideyizhongxuanze。tajingjingdiburulexinderenshengjieduan，bulunshigongzuozhong、xuexihaishirichangshenghuo，yejiangzhuruxinxianxueyehejingcai。tabuzaiyilaipengyouquandedianzanhepinglun，fanershiyigerenneixindelilianglaisuzaoweilaiderensheng。zheiyifenshouhoudenanyou，yexuzaiwuyinbeihou，yijingyongshijixingdongyanyizheguishuyuyigerendegushi。

　　汇总：

　　fenshouhounanyoubuzaigengxinpengyouquan，juewangzhongtouluchuyizhongneixinshenchudezhuanbian。taxuanzelewuyin，huozhezangnitadecunzai，huozhebiaoshutadetongchuhewunai。zheiyiduanwuyindeyike，huoxushitajiefangziji，xunzhaoxindesuiyi。buzaiyilaishejiaomeitideta，yijingjingjingditarujianglailvcheng，yanyizheshuyutazijidexiaogushi。