婚姻成功和长久的秘诀：放下自我

　　fenshouhounanshengzongshibizhezou，fenshouhou，nanshengyizhibizhezou。tamenchenniyutaolilejiedemeihaohuiyi，fangzhizaicixianruxintongdeguowang。meiyibudoushiduiguoqudefouren，shiweilebaohuzijibuhuizaifushang。tamenbuganmianduineiyigecengjingaiguoderen，pabeiqingxuxianru，kongjuzaiduqinshenjinglixinhanyutongku。yinci，taxuanzetaobi，youyibikaigongtongdechangdi，huibihenyoukenengdexiangyu。zheizhongzuofachengweiwomenfenshouhoudechangtai，shiduiyuziwobaohudeyizhongbiaoshu。danshi，zheileihuibiyenanmianhuirangrenwanxi，yinweitamenkenengyincicuoguozaiduxiangyudehaojihui，jiqizhongshixinlingshenchudequanyuhepingjing。

　　逃离记忆的追寻

　　fenshouhounanshengzongshibizhezou，fenshouhou，nanshengyizhibizhezou。tamenchenjinyushiwangdeqingxuzhong，qinfentaolicengjingdejiyi，xiwangcongfenshoutongkuzhongjiefangchulai。meimeitamentaguoyiqianyiqizouguodediqu，tingjianershunengxiangdege，huozhekandaoyitongxihuandeshiwu，zheixienanwangdehuiyibianhuiruchaoshuibanfuxianzaiyanqian，rangtamentongkuwanfen。yiner，zaineixinshenchu，tamenhuixuanzehuibi，huibizheixieyehuiyinqijiyideshiqing，huibiyucongqiandeairenxiangguandechangdi。tamenshituyonghuibilaihuanjieneixindeshangtong，zhuiqiuyizhongxinlingdeziyouyupingjing。

　　逃避背后

　　tamenhuibideshizhiyuanyuduiqingganshangdedanxinyubuan。zaifenshouhou，tamenjinglileyicishiquairendekuchu，yiner，zhenduizaicixianruxiangjindeqingxuquantao，tamenxinshengweiju。tamenhaipazaiduxinrenbieren，danxinzaiduchengdanfennuhetongkudezhemo。huibibianchengleyizhongziwofangyujizhi，shiweilebaohuzijideminganneixin。jinguantaobihaoxiangnenggoudailaiduanzankuanwei，danshiqueshidetamencuoguolehenduohenyoukenengdehaojihui，henyoukenengcuoguoleyigezhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijidexingfukuaile。

　　寻找释放出来的形式

　　nanshengweiletaoliyiwangqingganshangdejinguqiulao，xuanlegezhongshouduanlaixunqiushifangchulai。youderenkaolvzaishenghuohegongzuozhongzijintourugengduodeshijianhejingli，yifengfuzijiderichangshenghuo，zhuanyizhuyili。youderenchenmiyujianshenyundonghuoshizhuixunyigexindeganqing，changshixinxiandeshiwulaiyanshineixinshenchudekumen。haiyouxierenzexuanzetongguolvyou、mingxiangxunlianhuoshichuangzuolaixunqiuxinlingshenchudeweijiehezhiyu。zheidoushitamenshifangchulaineixinkunaodefangfa，bangzhuqizaicizuohuiziji，zhongxindedaoneixindeningjingheziyou。

　　调解和成长

　　taolizhuiyibingbudengyushizhongtaobi。suizheshijiantuiyi，nanshengmenzhujianyishidaolehuibigenbenwufashizhongchuliwenti。tamengaoqingchu，jinyourenqingyiwangdeshangtong，cainengzhenzhengdiyingdui、jieshouhefangkongziji。dangtamenneixinquanyu，zaicizhongshizixin，dongdecongguoqudejinglizhongfazhanhejiqujiaoxunshi，tamenjiuhuifaxiantaolijiyidebixuriyijianshao。tamenhuimanmanxiangqiantuijin，zaicichangkaixinfei，weixinderenyuxindeaichangkaixinxiong。

　　再次相遇与缺憾

　　danshi，dangnanshengmenzuihoumanhuaixinxin，yonggandemianduiguoqushi，henyoukenenghuiyouyitianheqianrenzaicizhongfeng，lingrenyihandeshi，yinweihuibidehaoxiguan，tamenyexucuoguoneiyigexiangfengdehaojihui。tamencengyitongjingliguodeshiqingyidianyidi，cengyiqizouguodemeihaohuiyi，douzhinengchengweijiyizhongdeyimumu，zaimeifazhuiyi。tamenyishidaole，taobisuirankeyiyishidihuanjietengtong，danyekenengcuoguomeihaofuhexingjiyu。yiner，zheigejuedingyexushiyigewufagaibiandequehan，bianchengnanshengmenxinzhongshizhongyihan。

　　抵触逃避的气魄

　　fenshouhounanshengzongshibizhezou，weilenengbuhuizaitaobi，nanshengmenbixuyonggandemianduizishenneixindejiaolvhetongku。taxuyaoshendusikaoyiwangjiaoxun，congzhongxuexibingfazhan。taxuyaoshifangchulaineixinkunaodeqingxu，hejieshouneixindequanyu。weiyouruci，tamencainengzuodaozhenzhengjiejuecongqiandefudan，yinglaiquanxindeweilai。suiranraokaizourangtamengandaoanquanxing，danshizhiyouyonggandemiandui，tamencainengzuodaozhenzhengxunzhaoneixindequanliyuxingfu，zaidumaixiangaiqingdezhian。