fenshouhounanyoushuoduibuqizenmehuifu,fenshouhounanyoujinidaoqian,niyinggaizenmeyanghuifuni?dangtazhenxinshiyibiaoshukuijiuhehouhuimojizhiqingshi,nikeyiganjitadechengxinhedaoqian。zheizhonghuifubujinzhanshilenizouxiangchengshuzhencheng,yejiyuletayigehaowuyiwen,rangtamingbaitadedaoqianbeizhendejiena。zheileihuifunenggouweiliangrenzhijiandeguanxijieshuixingzhou,tigongyigekenengxingdediaojiejiyu。
1. 体会它的真心实意
fenshouhounanyoushuoduibuqizenmehuifu,fenshouhou,nanyoujinidaoqian,zheishiyigechurenyiliaodexingwei。taweizijidexingweigandaohouhui,zheijiuyiweizhetahuoxuzhendeyishidaozijidewentixingshanghai。huifushi,nikeyixianbiaodazijiduitamendexingweibiaoshiganji,xianxianchuniduitadezhenzhihechengxinbiaodachulaideshangxi。nikeyishuo:“woxiexieniyongyuxiangwomendaoqian,zheizhenqiedeganshoudaonizhenzhiheduiwomenyiqianguanliandegaoduzhongshi。”
2. 表述内心的想法
fenshouhounanyoudedaoqianrangniganjuedaoyijianzhongqing,yekenengrangnizhongxinshenshinimendeganqing。huifushi,nikeyibiaoshizijixinlingshenchudetihui,danshiquebaonideyanyuqueli、zhenshihebujizao。nikeyishuo:“zuijinyiduanshijian,woxianglelexuduo,nidaoqiandaozhileneixinshenchudegongming。woyeyishidaoletazaizheiduanganqinglidewentihexuyaogaijindedifang。”
3. 注重必须时间与空间
fenshouhounanyoudedaoqiankenenghuiyinqinidexinliqifu,danfujianguanlianbixushijianyukongjian。nikeyihuifuta,biaomingniyaojieshoutadedaoqian,danniyexuyaoshijianlaihuifuxinlideshangtong,bingshensishulvnimendeweilai。nikeyishuo:“wolijienidaoqianshizhenzhide,danduiwolaishuo,zheiduanshijianshijiweizhongyaode,womenxuyaozishenkongjianheshijianlaizhishanghezhongxinsikaoliangrendeguanxi。”
4. 探讨将来的概率
nanyoudedaoqiankenengrangnizhongxinshenshinimenzhijiandeganqing,danhuifushi,nikeyimingquetichujianglaidegailv,baohanzaicijianlilianxidegailv。nikeyihuifuta:“wojuededajiakeyitongguopengyoushenfencongtoukaishi,yiqichengzhangyuxuexi,danshiwomenxuyaoshijianlaixiufubingzhongxingoujianxinlai。”
5. 调整情绪,保持独立
zaihuifunanyoudedaoqianshi,nixuyaobaochilixinghelixing,bubiyouyutadedaoqianermangmuhuidaocongqiandeguanxizhong。womenxuyaodiaozhenghaozijidexintai,weichiduizishendedanduyuxinlidejianshou。nikeyihuifuta:“wonengduidaicicifenkaigennidedaoqianzuoweiyigejiyu,rangwogengzhuyizijidexuqiuyufazhan。buguanweilaihuizenmeyang,wodekuaileyufazhandoushiwozijifuzerende。”
6. 汇总,祝福对方
fenshouhounanyoushuoduibuqizenmehuifu,zuizhong,zaihuifunanyoudedaoqianshi,nikeyijichuyigejijierwanshandehuizong。nikeyihuifuta:“ganxienindedaoqianhechengxin,qidaiwomendoukeyicongzheicijinglizhongfazhanyuxuexi。buguanweilaihuizenmeyang,zhunixingfuxunzhaozhenzhengshihenidekuaile。”tongguozheizhonghuifu,nizhanxianchunidexinlizouxiangchengshuzhencheng,tongshiweiliangrendeweilaizhaodaoyizhongjijizhudongfangxiang。
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