老公出轨怎么办?挽救婚姻需要避免三个错误

　　fenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotian，zheihuajieluleyiduanganqingwanchenghounanhaizidegerenxingwei。tahaoxiangmeifaxuehuifangxiayunideguanlian，buduantongguoliaotianlaiweichiguanlian。zheizhongxingweihenyoukenenglaiyuanyutaneixindenanyishihuai，woxiwangninengbaochiyizhongqinqiegan。huoshi，takenengzaichangshichixuyiwangzhijiandehudong，tanxunduanzandefuwei。bulunqiyuanguzenyang，zheizhongxingweikenengjishuangfangdailaikunraoyudanxin，xuyaoshenzhongxiangzheruhejiejuezheilei“fenshouhoudeliaotian”zhuangkuang。

　　没法断的联络

　　fenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotian，zheizhongxingweijieluletaduiyuyiwangaiqingdenanyishihuai。jibianfenshoule，tayiranxiangweichiyunideguanlian，xiwangkeyifujianguanlian。zheikenengshiyinweitaxiguandajiazhijiandegoutong，nanyishiyingyigemeiyounideshenghuo。tashituyongliaotianqumibusangshiniwuligan，tanxunyisianweijiezhu。danshi，zheizhongxingweikenenghuishitawurenweinirengranduizijiyouaiqing，dannihenyoukenengzhixiangchixubaochibicizhijiandeyouhaowanglai。zaiyudaozheiyangdeqingkuangshi，bixumingquebiaoshuzijidexihaohejiexian，yifangzhijinyibudewuhuihesunhai。

　　隐匿不舍之情

　　fenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotiantixianchutadeneixinyinzangzheduizijidebushezhiqingheshiwangxinqing。fenshouduimeigerenlaishuodoushiyicihendadetiaozhan，ernanxinghaoxiangbaituobuleyiwangdehuiyiyuqinggan。tayexuchangshiliaotianlaijianqingzijidexinlikunhuo，qidaikeyijixuyunibaochilianluo。huoxutarenweizhiyaonenggenniliaotian，jiunengtiyandaoyixiecengjingdewenxinyuxingfu。danshi，zheizhongxingweihenyoukenenghuiganraobicideqingxuzhiyuhegerentisheng。duinilaishuo，xianzaishishihoumanmanwangjiguoqu，tanxunshuyuzijimeihaoshenghuo。

　　寻找短暂的抚慰

　　fenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotianyexushitazaitanxunduanzandefuwei。fenshouhoudemeiyigerendoumianlinsangshihewuligan，erliaotianjianghuichengweitalinshiduobizheizhongxiaojiqingxudelujing。tayexuxiwangyongyunidegoutonglaihuoqujingshencengmiandeshiyongheanwei，xunzhaoyizhongcengjingyongyoudeqinqiegan。danshi，zheizhongxingweihenrongyirangtawuyiweizijizaoyitachufenshouyinying，congerjianhuanzijideqingxuzhiyuquanguocheng。duinilaishuo，yaoqingchutamendexingweibingbudengyutaxiangyaocongtoukaishi，yucitongshiyeyaoguanzhuzijideqingxuyaoqiuhekangfu。

　　彻底改变界限

　　fenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotianyushizhebixuchedigaibianbicizhijiandebianjie。jinguantahenyoukenengxiwangjixubaochilianluo，danshinibixuqingxidibiaoshuzijidexihaohejiexian。ruguogandaozheileiliaotianrangniganjuedaobushihuoxianzhilenideqingganzhiyu，neimeyinggaijiandingbuyideduitashuonideguandian。tiyihetakaizhanzhenchengdeduitan，shitalejiezijibixudandushijianyukongjianquchulifenshouqingxu。gaozhitanixiangyaoweichiyouhaodeguanlian，danxuyaoyiduanshijianzhijiandejuli。zhihuizaishuangfangkeyilijiehezunzhonglingyifangdejiexiandeqingxingxia，caikenengjianliyizhongjiankangdeshenghuoyouqingguanlian。

　　向前走，复建自身

　　fenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotiankeshiweiyigetishi，tishinibixuxiangqianzou，fujianzishen。fenshoushiyigexindekaishi，yeshiyicizhongxindingyizijidehaojihui。suirannanhaizishituyongliaotianjiangguoqulahuirujin，danniyaochongmanyongqixiangqiantuijin，zhaodaoxindefengfuyukuaile。keyijiecijihui，nikeyihuagengduodeshijianhejinglizijintouruzijichengzhangyufazhan，suzaoyigexindegerenaihao，jieshixinpengyou，jiqilianjieweilaidegailv。genjufujianzishen，womenjiangkeyijiejueduiguoqudeyikao，manmanjieshouheyinglaixinderenshengjieduan。

　　dangmianduifenshouhounanshengyongzongniliaotianqingkuangshi，bulunshitademeifaduandelianluo、yinnibushezhiqing、xunzhaoduanzandefuwei，yeshixuyaochedigaibianjiexian，zhongyaodeshiyaojianchizijideguandian，bingbaochilianghaodexintaijixuqianjin。zheixiejingliyoukenengchengweinituibiandejihui，rangnigengjiajiandingbuyidexunzhaobenshenxingfu。