男人暗恋女人的表现

　　fenshouhounanyoulaheiwoyoudianshengqi，youyuzheizhongzuofarangwojuedebeishoulengluohebushouzhongshi。zaizanmenwanbiguanxihou，cengjingwoyiweidajiakeyitongguozouxiangchengshuyoushandefangfagebendongxi，dantaxuanzezheileixiaochendefangshiqukandaiwo。zheirangwojuedenanguoheyihan，yinweitabuhuizaixiangyaohewobaochilianluohejiaoliu。jinguanwomenhenyoukenengyijingjieshu，danzuoweicengjingdeairen，wojuedezijiyingdangshoudaozunzhongheguanai，caibuhuibeilahei。zheirangwozhujianzhongxinshenshiliangrendeguanxi，jiqitazaiworichangshenghuosuobanyandejiaose。

　　fenshouhounanyoudecankulengmo

　　伤心绝望

　　fenshouhounanyoulaheiwoyoudianshengqi，fenkaishiyizhongbukebimiandeshishi，dannanyouzaifenshouhoutiaoxuanbawolahei，zheirangwojuedefeichangnanguoheyihan。wobenyiweidajiakeyitongguoyizhongzouxiangchengshuyoushandefangfawanbilianggerendeganqing，baoliuyixiezunzhongyuwennuandehuiyi。danshi，tadelengmogerenxingweirangwocaiyiwomenyiqiandeyiqie，yerangwozhujianyiweitashibushicengzhenxinxiangdaiguowo。

　　备受冷落和不受重视

　　nanyoulaheiwodaibiaozhetabuzaixiangyaohewobaochilianluohejiaoliu。zheileibeishoulengluohebushouzhongshideganjuelehaowuyiwenrangwoxianrumimangheshangxindangzhong。womencengshihuxiangdejiezhu，gongxiangsuoyouxinuaile，danxianzaikeshitaquedingbawopaichuzaiwaitaderenshengyiwai。zheirangwoyiweitashibushizhenxinshiyiguo，shenzhihuaiyitaduiyuwomensuoshuodemeiyijuhua。

　　重新审视两人的关系

　　nanyoulaheiworangwopobudeyizhongxinshenshiwomenyiqiandeaiqing。wojianjianhuiyiqidajiashenghuodediandi，shunxiwanbiandejiyilizaicishanguozainaohaili。wojianjianyiweitashibushicengzhenxinxiangdaiguowo，womenshibushicengjingyouguozhenzhengyiyishangdexianghuzhijianlijieyuzhichi。zheiyiqierangwoyishidaole，yexuzheiyifenkaishibicidouxuyaodebaituo，zhiyaowomenbutaishiheyizhizouxiaqu。

　　真实自我使用价值

　　yingduinanyoudelengmohelahei，woshenganbeishanghaiyanlidaji，danwoyemingbairichangshenghuobunengzhishijinjinweiraozheziji。wodasuanzouchuyinying，zaicizhaohuizijidezizunxinyuzixin。woyaoduizijishuo，bingbuxuyaojiezhutadecunzailaiyanzhengwodejiazhi。woyaogenjugerentishengyunulilaijianliyigegengjiachongshihexingfudeshenghuo，buhuizairangtamendexingweizuoyouwodeqingxuhemanzugan。

　　包容和释放出来

　　jinguanwoduinanyoudelengmojuedeqifenheyihan，kewozuizhongxuanzelebaorongheshifangchulai。wozhidao，chenjinyuzenghenfennushangzhihuirangwozishenxianrujuejing，wufazhenzhenghuodebaituo。woshifangchuduiyutadeyiwangdefennu，yeshifangchuduiyutadeeyiqipan，woyaojinzaobaituozheiyiduanganqingheiying，yinglaixindeqidian。

　　向前走

　　nanyoudelengmohelaheirangwojinglileyiduantongchuhedanyou，kewoxinxinbuzaishouyiwangsuoyingxiang。woxuanzelejijizhudongxiangqianzou，yinglaixinjiyuyutiaozhan。wojianxin，meiyiduanjinglidoushiyicichengzhangdejihui，woyaocongzheidangzhongjiqujiaoxun，yuelaiyuegengjiajianqiangduli。woyaojianxin，yihouhuidaijiwogengmeihaoderenheshiwu。

　　fenshouhounanyoulaheiwoyoudianshengqi，genjufenshouhounanyoudelengmohelahei，wojingliguojidadeneixinzhengzhahefazhan。zheixiejinglirangwoxuehuilekuanrong、shifanghexiangqianzou。woyaozhanliqilai，yingduitongku，zhongshizishen，yinglaixindeqidian。youyuwozhidezuihaoderenyugengmeihaodeqinggan。