挽回老公：老公有外遇怎么处理？

　　fenshouhoutabufapengyouquanshishiwanglema，fenshouhoutabufapengyouquan，rangwoganjuedaokunhuo，wokaishikaolvqibeihoushibushiyunzangzheshiwangqingxu。yizhiyilai，shejiaowangluojiushiwomenbiaoshuqinggan、fenxiangkuailedequdao，erqietadechenmowuyanquelingwoshenxianyihuo。zheileiwuyindefenli，haoxiangliushileyizhonglianxihelejiedelujing。yexutabingbuxiwangduifanglejiefenshou，yihuozheshiyouyujuedeshiwangerbuyan，youyixiaochuzheiyiduanganqingcunyou？zhuduocaixiangzaixinshangbuduanyongxian，lingwoduibicizhijiandeganqingzaochenggulv。zhongjiu，fenshouhoutabufapengyouquanyiweishenme，shibushijiuzhendaibiaozheshiwangqingxu？

　　失望背后

　　fenshouhou，tadepengyouquanjianjianbiandetianjing。pingrilipinfandeshengjigengxindeqingkuangmeiyoule，zaiyekanbudaotagongxiangdiandiandididetupian。zheizhonggaibianlingwojinbuzhusikao，fenshouhoutabufapengyouquanshishiwanglema？

　　沟通交流的缺少

　　zaiguoqudedeguanxizhong，weixinpengyouquanyizhishiwomenzhijianjiaoliudechuangkou。tongguopengyouquan，dajiachuandikuaile、biaoshuguanai，bicizhijiangengshenrudilejietarendeshenghuo。danshi，fenshouhoutahurandechenmowuyanlingwokunhuobuyiheshiwang。zheiyifenshiwangyinweitaduiwomendeguoquyijingchanshengleshiwangma？

　　情感的隐匿

　　huoxu，tajiubufapengyouquanjiushiweileyinzangzijideqinggan。fenshousuodailaideshiwanghetongkuyexurangtabingbuyuanzaigonggongchanghezhanxianzijidemingan。yexu，tatongguochenmowuyanlaibaohuziji，bukenrangbierenjiandaotaneixindeqifu。gengyexu，zaitakanlaiweixinpengyouquanzaiyebushizhanxianbenrenmeihaodedifang，wulunzainali，tadoubuhuizaiduiwaibudakaixinfei。

　　新的起点

　　fenshouhou，meigerendouyinggaishizhangqumianduihelijiesangshi。yexu，tabufapengyouquanbingbudengyutaduiyuwomendefenshoujuedeshiwang，fanershizaibuduantansuoxindebianyugerentisheng。tahuoxuyijingzhongxinshenshizijiderenshengjingli，jixunulizhuixunxinzhongdemengxiang。zheiyiduanchenmowuyan，kenengzhishitaxiangqiantuijindediyibu。

　　信赖的复建

　　buguanshishenmeyuangu，fenshouhoutabufapengyouquansuochanshengdecaicehezaodongbuanxuyaodajiashuangbeidegoutongyulejie。weiyoutongguotanchengdigoutongjiaoliu，dajiacainengzhujianzhongjianxinren。rangtazhidao，taqingganhetihuizaiwomenxinzhongshibukehuoquede，womenyuanyijitalingting、aiyupeibanshiyong。

　　彻底改变关联

　　fenshoubingbudengyuwomenjiuyinggaicihoushengshu。wulunshizuoweipengyouhaishiyiwangjingliguodeshiqingqinglv，dajiadouyouzerenchedigaibiandajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanxi。zunzhongduifangdetiaoxuanqueding，xianghuzhijianjiyushijianyukongjianqu heal，huoxuzheiyangdajianengzhaodaozhenzhenzhengzhengfujianyouqingdefangfa。

　　正视自己的情感

　　fenshouhoutabufapengyouquan，yexugengduodetishiwojienazijideqinggan。shiwang、yihuo、shiwang，zheizhongdouhenzhengchangxintai，danxuyaowocongzheidangzhongdongdeshifangchulaiyuchengzhang。erqietadechenmowuyanzechengweiwomenzhongxinshenshitazaizheiduanganqingshangdebiaoxianhexingweideyike。

　　彻底改变自身

　　fenshouhoutabufapengyouquan，bingbudengyuwobudebuyizhihuozaiguoqudeyinyingzhong。wobixuxuehuizhongxindingyizijideshenghuozhuangtai，bingjizijishezhixinmubiaoyuzhuiqiu。guoqudejinglishizhenguidejingyanjiaoxun，danbuyingbianchengjushuwoshufu。woxiangzaijinglilefenshouhou，zaicizuohuiziji，bingxiangzhegengmeihaodeweilaifeiben。

　　理解与尊重

　　fenshouhoutabufapengyouquandezhuyaoyuanyinyexuzhiyoutazijilejie。buguanbeihoudedongjishishenme，wozuoweijuwairenyinggaizunzhongtaqueding，daijitazugoudeshijianhekuanrong。yucitongshi，dajiayeyaodongdelijiehejieshouzijidexinqing，congrongyingduifenshousuochanshengdeshiwangyutongku。

　　新的起点

　　fenshouhoutabufapengyouquanshishiwanglema，fenshouhoutabufapengyouquan，yeyiweizhewomenbixuxiangqiantuijin，jieshouxindezhujian。renrendouyoushuyuzijidegushi，jixuxunzhaozheshuyuzijidexingfu。fenshouhuoxuzhishirenshengdangzhongyigeguocheng，womenyaocongzhongxuehuichengzhangheqianxing，weijinhoudejingcaigushierfendou。