zaimianduifenshouerqidaifuhewanhuishi,zhongyaodeyihuanshiruhezailiaotianzhongjianlijijizhudongdeqifenheguanxixiubudeqianti。fenshoufuhewanhuizenmeliaotian?zaizheiyangyigejinyaoguantou,bixuyizhenchenghezhenchengweizaitizhankaiduihua,lingtingduifangganshouhexiangfa,biaoshuzijineixinyuduifuhedeqiwang,tongshihaiyaolijieduifangdejueceyukongjian。genjuganqingjiaoliu、jiejuewentidefangshilaijianlixinlai,bingxunzhaogongtongmubiaohejiejuefangan。liaotianshiyaobaochilizhihelizhi,zhenchengshufaqinggan,yongzhengquedeyudiaoyutaiduqulejieduifang,tongshihaiyaoxuehuikuanronghekuanrong。zheidoushifenshoufuhewanhuiguochengzhongguanjianxingdeliaotianfangfa,xiezhuliangrengongtongbaituojiannan,jianligengjiawengujiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。
建立沟通的桥梁
fenshoufuhewanhuizenmeliaotian,fenshouzhihoudefuhewanhuishiyiduanminganerruanruodejieduan,xiufugoutongdenenglijianghuichengweiwanchengfuhedediyibu。zailiaotianzhong,shouxianyiyoushanqiekaifangdetaiduzaicichupenglingyifang,jianliyigeanquanershuxindegoutonghuanjing。fangzhitaoluncongqiandezhengchaohesunhai,fanershijijidiliaoxieyouyisihuojijizhudongtaolundehuati,zhanxianzijibiandegenghaodeyimian。genjuqingsongyukuaidehuihualaizhongxinjianlilianluo,nengrangduifangjuedenishiyigezhidexinrenderen。
聆听对方的心声
fenshoufuheguochengzhong,lingtingduifangganshouhexiangfazhiguanzhongyao,zheiyouliyulejieduifangdeneixinxuqiujiqizaochengfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。liaotianshi,buyaoqingyibianbohuobiaoshu,ershiyinggaizhuanzhuyuqingting。jiduifangzugoudeshijian,rangtamennenggoubiaoshuneixindexiangfa,zheiyangyouliyujianlishencengcidegoutongyulejie。biaodaleduilingyifangganzhidezunzhongyuguanzhu,weicijianqingshuangfangzhijiandejiaolvqingxu。
表述内心深处的要求
zailiaotianzhong,quelibiaodazijineixinxuqiushifeichangzhongyaode。taolunzijiduiyufuhedeqidai,zhuzhongfuheduinimenzhijiandeguanxihegerenchengzhangdebiyaoxing。danshi,yaobimianguoyuzhuzhongzijidexihao,ershixiangnengyinqilingyifanggongmingdian,bingyuyibiciyidingdexuanzedeyudi。yucitongshi,yexuyaolejieduifangdexuqiu,bingtantaoruhedadaobicizhijiandeqiwang。genjubicizhenchengdeduitan,nenggouweifuhediandingjichu。
处理问题并建立信赖
fuheguochengzhong,wentijiejueherenkedegaizaoshibukequeshaode。liaotianshi,yingdangzhuanzhuyuchulifenshouzhihoudemimanghefenqi,erfeizhizehechize。tongguozhanshizijidejianjieziwogaibiandeguocheng,jiduifangchuandiniyaogaijinyunulijuexin。yucitongshi,jijizhudongditichujiejuefangan,yiqitaolunhenyoukenengdekaoyanhezuai,bingxunzhaojiejuedefangfa。zaizheiyangyigeguochengzhong,shizhongbaochijijidexintai,chuandachuduiweilaidexiangwanghezixin。
包容与宽容
fuhedeguochengzhong,baorongyukuanrongshihenzhongyaodeyaosu。liaotianshi,yingchangshijieshouhelejieduifangdeguowang,wangjiguoqudefenqixingshanghai。zheibushiyicuerjiudeguocheng,xuyaonaixinyushijian。tongguojijidejiaoliuhejianshexinghuihua,nengrangduifangkanjiannidechengxinyunuli,weicikaiqilingyifangxinlingshenchudedamenkou。jieshouduifangdedaoqian,jiduifangbiaodazijikuanrong,yitongmaijindiaojiehefuhedelu。
fenshoufuhewanhuizenmeliaotian,fenshoufuhewanhuideliaotianguochengshiyigechongmankaoyanqueyechongmanqidailvtu。genjujianligoutongdeqiaoliang,lingtingduifangdexinsheng,biaoshuneixinxuqiu,chuliwentibingjianlixinlai,jiqibaorongyukuanrong,nenggouweifuheyingzaolianghaodebiaozhun。danqinglaoji,meiyigezhuangkuangquanshiyuzhongbutongde,yincizailiaotianguochengzhongyinggenjushijiqingkuanggenduifangfanyingzuochuxiangyingdediaozheng。zuizhuyaodeshi,chixubaochizhenxinshiyi、zunzhongyulijie,rangzijizaiwanliuzhonghuodejijihezhangjiudeshijixiaoguo。
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