挽回老公技巧：如何挽回出轨的爱人？

　　zaiganqingjiufenzhong，fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxin，jingchangchengshoulefanzadeqinggangongzuoyali。wulunshichuyuquehan、kuijiu、huoshiduiairensinianzhiqing，tamentongchangshenxianqinggandemigongbukeziba。zaixinjiankunhuodeyucitongshi，tamenyuxianshidezerenyuhunyinzhijianyechanshenglemaodun。zheileikunhuodeqingkuangshitamenpaihuaiyubutongleixingdeqinggantiaoxuanzhongjian，bunengwanquanbaituoyiwang，younanyichongzutourudaolexianshizhong。zheizhongxinqinggengshijitamendailailejidadetongchu，haiduihunyinyujiatingxingchengleanquanyinhuan。ruhekefuzheileijiongjing，shizijizaiciliyububaizhidi，jiushitamenwubimianduidezhongyaowenti。

　　所困以往的心绪

　　fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxin，zhujianbeicongqiandeqinggansuoyingxiang。huiyihexiangnianjiaozhizaiyiqi，chengweiwomenwufataolidexinlichuangshang。suiranyijingjieshuqinglvguanxi，dantamenqueyizhinanyishihuai，qinggandanxinshidetamenshenxianneixindezhengduo。

　　zheizhongnanshengjingchangbeiwangrizuimeihaodehuiyishenshenxiyin，nanyigesheduiairendeaiqing。fenshouhou，tamenshituxunzhaotidaiwu，mibuxinlingshenchudequekou，danshiquefajuewulunruhedouweizhaodaoyigenengtidaiqiannvyouderen。tamenjiangguoqudeaiqingfangdaoxinzhong，wufawanghuaicengjingdetianmi，yizhikunyuyiwanghexianshizhongjian。

　　愧疚与职责的选择

　　tamenneixinzuishenchugaoqingchu，zijishigeyihunzhenansheng，yongyouhunyinhejiatingzerenjushuzhe。danshi，fenshouhoudejiuchanshitamenduihunyinxingchengleyaobaibuding。kuijiuqingxuzuanrutadexinzhong，shitamenduizijidehunyingandaokuijiu，juedezijimeichedizhongshi。yucitongshi，tamenyefaxianle，ruguoyizhichenmianyucongqiandeenyuan，huiranghunyinzaochenggengdadeshanghai。

　　yingduineixindezhengtuo，tamenxuyaozuochujiannandexuanze。shijixuzhuiqiuyiwangdemenghuan，paoxiashijidezhize？huoshixuehuifangxiajiushi，zaicihuidaohunyindeguidaoshangqu？zheiyixuanzeduiyutamenlaishuojuefeiyishi，bixuyongqihejuexinqujienazijideneixinshijixuqiu。

　　建立新的身份认同

　　fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxinxuzhongxinchuangjianshenfenrentong，duanzhengxintaiyingduirenshengdejixu。yiwangganqingjingliqueshihuibianchengrenshengdeyibufen，danshitamenbixumingquebayurichangshenghuoqubiekailai。tayinggaishenshizijideneixinxuqiuyujiatingyali，tanxunjunhengdian，bingqiguoqudeaiqingguannian，zhongxindingyizijidejiazhihexingfukuaile。

　　zheiyiguochengbujinjinshiyigerendechengzhanghechengzhang，qishishiweilehunyinhejiatingxingfukaolv。genjuzaicitourudaolexianshizhong，suzaoyigexindegerenaihao，kuozhanjiaojiquan，tamenkeyizhujianbacongqiandeqingganfangzhizaishidangdeweizhishang，xunzhaozijiyuhunyingongtongchengzhangdetujing。

　　接纳和摆脱

　　zuihou，fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxinbixujieshouguoqudejingli，bingqiecongzhongjiefangchulai。tamenyaoqingchu，renshenglidemeiyiduanqinshenjinglidoushiyicichengzhangdejihui。jinguanneiyiduanaiqinghuizaiyidingchengdushangyingxiangtamen，danbuyingbeiguoyuzhizheyiwangernanyixiangqian。

　　genjujienazijideneixingulv，yuairenjinxingjiaoliuyulijie，xunzhaohunyinlidejunhengyuhexie，yihunnanrenkeyishixianneixindebaituo，bingzhongshishenghuozhongdeleguanhexingfukuaile。zhiyouzaitamenzhenzhengshifangchucongqiandeqinggan，tamencainengzaijiexialaidehunyinrichangshenghuozhaodaozhenzhengdexingfuyumanzu。