脱单秘籍：追求心仪的男生 从聊天开始

　　zaiaiqingdejiaodiezhong，dangfenshoushangbajibenquanyu，zongyouyixieyishunjiandexiweibianhua，haoxiangfenlichulaiyihoudezhuduoyushizhebuhuizaibengkui。yidianyidizhongcunzaideguanai、yanshendejiaohuichu、xinkoubuyideguanhuai，douchengleneigemimizhongyaoxiansuo。tamenxiweierxishao，querangwomendeneixinjuedeyisiwennuan，rangdajiazaisangshixinyangdeyikexiangqujianxin：yexu，rengrancunzaiyisi hope，fenshouhouhainengwanhuidezhengzhao。

　　yiduanshibaideaiqingguanlianzhongdianzhan，tongchanghuirangrengandaoshenxinpibei，meiridouchongmanshiwanghebeishang。danshi，zaizheilimanmanzhangludeheiyezhong，huoxuhuiyouyisiweiruoliming，neijiangdeshiwanhuiaiqingdezhengzhao。yixiashiyixiehenyoukenengyiweizhefenshouhouhainenghaiyoujihuiwanhuidejixiang，zhidedajiasikaoyuguanxin。

　　1. 浓浓的关怀和关心

　　fenshouhouhainengwanhuidezhengzhao，dangfenshouhoudexiaoqinglvyiranbaochihuxiangzhaoguyuzhichi，xianghujiandegoutongjiaoliubingmeiyouwanquanzhongduan，suandeshangshiwanhuiaiqingdehaoyunqi。zheileiguanzhufanyingduiqilingyifangrichangshenghuodegaoduguanzhu、duishentizhuangkuangdeguanhuaishenzhihunyinshenghuozhongdeyouguanwenti。zheizhongxianxianchulingyifangyiranzaihunidecunyou，xiangyaoqufuchuhezaihunideyiqie。

　　2. 不期而遇的频率增加

　　zaifenshouhou，ruguoniganjuepinfandebuqierzhi，zaijieshangouyuhuoshibujingyixiangyu，neiyangzheikenengshiyigezhengzhao。zheizhongpinlvzengjiabiaominglingyifangxinlihaiyounidechuxian，bulunshiyouyihuoshibujingyi，doudaiyouyizhongwanhuiaiqingdexiangfaheqidai。zheibujinshinimenlianggerenhaiyoujihuizaicichupeng，yeshiyigezhidesikaoyuzhangwodejiyu。

　　3. 深夜的默默地倾听和倾吐

　　zaifenshouhoudeshengengbanye，dangbicizhijiancheyenanmianshi，turanshoudaoduifangdianhuahuozheduanxiaoxixunzhaoqingtu，neiyeshifenshouhounengwanhuidezhengzhaozhiyi。zheileichenmowuyanheqingtu，biaoxianlelingyifangneixindeqingganqifu，duiguoqudehuiyiheduiweilaidemangran。zheiyeshiyigekeyimashanglajinbicizhijiandejulijiyu，genjuqingtuhelingting，xiufuxinlai，fujianaiqingdechuangkou。

　　4. 闪过的对视

　　muguangshilinghunchuangkou，ruguonizaifenshouhoudemouyishikegenduifangmuguangjiaohuichushi，jiarunikanjianleneiyishunjiandewenxinheqidai，neiyangzheikenengshiyigewanhuiaiqingdezhengzhao。duishilideyuyiwufayanyu，danyehuichengweizhonglianbicizhijiandejihui，chuandachubicizhijiandeyilaiyuxiwang。

　　5. 过去的回忆和设身处地思索

　　zaifenshouhou，lingyifangouertijidajiayiqianyiqijinglizuimeihaodehuiyi，huoshizhanxianchuduiyunimenyiwangshenghuozhongdesilianbeishang，yeshiyizhongwanhuiaiqingqianzaijixiang。zheileizhuiyiyusikao，daibiaozheduiguoqudegaoduzhongshiheduiweilaixianggaibiandexinyuan，jiyubicizaicisikaodehaojihui，zhongxinsikaolianggerendeguanxiyijizijixingwei。

　　fenshouhouhainengwanhuidezhengzhao，ziran，zheizhongjinjinzhishiwanhuiaiqingdeyixiejixiang，tamenbingbudaibiaoyiqie，hennanbaozhengfenshouhoudezhongguiyuhao。meiyiduanaiqingdoushiduyiwuerde，jinyoubicigongtongfendouhezhenchengdejiaoliucainengzuodaozhenzhengwanhuishiqudeaiqing。xiwangzheigejixiangnenggoujinizixinxinyumubiao，shinizaifenshouhouminruidibuhuowanhuiaiqingdekenengxing，jizijigenduifangchuangzaoyigegengmeihaodeweilai。