脱单秘籍：还没谈过恋爱的我要如何脱单

　　yong“chaojiajiutifenshoudenanren”zheihuajianshu，xushuleyigeteshuleibiedenanren：dangzaoyuzhengzhihuochongtushi，tamenxuanzeyongfenshouzuoweijiejuewentifangfa。zheileinanrenhaoxiangqianquejiejuechongtu、goutongyutuoxiedeshuiping，ergengpianzhongyutaobikunnanyejianglianaiwentigengjiaqingsong。tamenguodujiqiewanbiguanxi，erhulvelejiejuewentijihui，kenengzaochengzhangjiudebuwendingguanxihefanzadexinliyali。yiner，taxuyaoshenshizijijiaoliufangshi，yichuangjiangengjiankangzhangqiwendingderenqingshiguguanxi。

　　简述：丧失处理冲突的机会

　　男人只图躲避：

　　chaojiajiutifenshoudenanren，youyizhongnanren，dangtamenshenxianzhengzhiyuchongtudangzhongshi，bianhuihaobuyouyudemingquetichufenshou。tamenhaoxiangbuganmianduinanti，huoshiqianquejiejuechongtujiqiaonaixin。fanguolai，tamenxuanlesheqiheduobi，yifenshouzuoweijiejuewentiweiyidaan。zheileixingweifangshizaochengleyizhongqueshichulichongtujihuidejushi。

　　忽略了改进关系的机会：

　　zheizhongnanrenzhenduixuyaojiejuedewentibingbushiyiwusuozhi，danshitamenxuanzelezuijiandandefangfa，hulvelegaijinguanxidejihui。zhengchaobingbudengyuwubifenshou，fanershiyigekeyijiecijihuifazhanqushiyuchengzhangdejihui。danshi，zheizhongnanrenquecuoguozheiyijihui，jianglianaiwentijiandandeguinaweiyigenengtongguojueranfenshoulaijiejuewenti。

　　没法解决冲突和交流窘境：

　　zhengchaoshilianrenguanxizhongmianbulefashengde，chulichongtudeguanjianzaiyudongdegaoxiaodigoutongyurangbu。danshi，duiyuzheileinanreneryan，jiejuechongtuhejiaoliujiongjinghuoxushiyijianwufaqijideshi。tamenyexuqianquenaixin，feichangrongyibaofaxintai，yizhiyutamenwufayilizhiwanshandefangshiheairengoutongjiaoliu，congerdaozhiguanxidebuwending。

　　心理压力和长久的不稳定关系：

　　zheileinanrendexingweifangshizengtianlehouzhongdexinliyali，budanduizishenlaijiang，yeduilingyibandaozhilesunhai。jingchangmingquetichufenshouhuisunhaixinlai，daozhijiaolvbuanyubuan，shiguanxiyulaiyumingan。zaizhangshijiandeqingxumocazhong，airenkenenghuibazheizhongzuofashizuomeifazhangqiyilaideshujuxinhao，jinerdaozhiguanxidebuwendingyubukechixu。

　　构建身心健康平稳关系的重要性：

　　zheizhongnanrenbixuyishidao，zhengchaobingbudengyujieshuyiduanguanxi，eryinggaigenjugoutongyurangbuqujiejuewenti。tayinggaixuehuimianduijiannan，tigaojiejuechongtunengli，bingyishidaolesheqiheduobijinjinjiangwentiyanchibale。goujianqishenxinjiankangpingwenderenqingshiguguanxibixuxixin、renzhiherangbu，yijiduiyubicichengzhangdedalizhichihexinlai。

　　结束语：

　　chaojiajiutifenshoudenanren，zhengchaojinjinshejiaoguanxizhongdeyibufen，buyongjiecijihuitifenshou。nanrenmenbixushenshizijigerenxingwei，zaiguanxizhongjiyugoutongyuchulichongtudejihui。weiyoutongguomianduikunnan，caiyoukenenggoujianqipingwenershenxinjiankangderenqingshiguguanxi。