女神计划：真正的女神是不滥用魅力的！

　　zaiqingganchongtuzhong，chaojiafenshoutongchangshidajiaqingxubaofajielun。erlengjingqinaishizaizheizhongqingkuangxia，bixujiyubicihuiguipingjing、fansiwentideshijianye。chaojiafenshoulexuyaoduojiudelengjingqi，shishishangzaiyumeiduiqinglvderenqunhezhuangkuang。youxierenyexuzhixujiri，biankezhongxinshenshinantiranhouzhaodaojiejuefangan；eryeyouderenkenenghaixuyaohenzhangdeshijianlaizhongxindiaozhengqingxu、huiguilixing。wulunlengjingqichixuduozhangshijian，guanjianzaiyuzaizheiqijian，qinglvmenkeyilengjingfenxi，lingtingbicizhijiandeyaoqiuhetihui，weishizhexiubuguanxichongfenzhunbei。

　　从争执到理智：修复和提高关系的一个过程

　　chaojiafenshoulexuyaoduojiudelengjingqi，chaojiafenshoushiyiduanjiannanerbeishangdejieduan，bixuyiduanlengjingqilaipingfubicizhijiandeqingxu，bingqieweiguanxidehuifutigongkongjian。zheiyilengjingqizhangduyousuobutong，zaiyuduozhongyaosu，baohanqinglvzhijiandegexinghua、zhengzhiyanzhongchengdujiqinantidetexing。

　　一个不能忽视的冷静期

　　danglianrenyinzhengzhierchuxianfenshoujuedingshi，kenengyiweizheshuangfangyijingqingxuxingfen、maodunehuadaowufajixugoutongjiaoliudechengdu。zheishi，lengjingqidebiyaoxingxiandegewaixianzhu。lengjingqinengrangqinglvmenjiejueqingxudeyingxiang，zhongxindedaolixing，qieyoushizhangsisuowentidebenzhihekenengjiejuefangan。

　　冷静期的时间也，有所不同

　　lengjingqizhangdubingmeiyougudingguifan，fanershiyousuobutong。youxierenkenengzhixujitian，jiukeyihuidaozhengchangdesiluqingkuang；eryeyouderenkenenghaixuyaojizhou，shenzhigengzhangdeshijianlaibaochiqingxujunheng。zuizhongyaodeshi，womendouyinggaiyougengduodeshijianyukongjianquchuliziyideqingxu，bingxunzhaozaiciqudelianxidebanfa。

　　冷静期里的思考与反省

　　lengjingqichulerangqinglvmenjianqingqingxuwai，haitigongleyigesikaoyufanshengdehaojihui。shuangfangkeyihuiwangchaojiadezhuyaoyuanyin，shenshizijidedandanghegerenxingwei，zhangwoduifangdexuqiuhetihui。genjusikaoyufansheng，qinglvmennenggougenghaodilejiebicizhijian，xunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa，bingweijinhoudegongchudiandingjichu。

　　冷静期的意义和功效

　　lengjingqibujinjinzhishipingfubicizhijiandeqingxu，yeshiweilexiufugaijinguanxicongyuantoushangdaxiajichu。zaiqingxuningjinghou，qinglvmenkeyikaolvzaiciqudelianxi、xunqiuzhuanyexiezhuhuoshizhongxinshenshibicizhijiandeqidaihesixiang。zheiyiduanshijianyejiletajiyuzhongxinshenshitamenshibushizhendexiangyaojixuzheiyiduanguanxi，yijishifouyouhenyoukenengzhaodaoyigegengjiajiankang、gengzirandefangshiqugongchu。

　　复建关系：冷静期以后

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　　结束语

　　chaojiafenshoulexuyaoduojiudelengjingqi，chaojiafenshouzhihoudelengjingqishifujianguanxideguanjianshiqi，gengshiweiweilaifazhangengjiajiankanghelaogudeyibu。meiyigerenhuiyoubutongdeshijianyufangfalaijiejueziyideqingxu，lengjingfenxinanti，jiqizhongxinsikaoyuairendeguanxi。zhongyaodeshiyaoaixizheiyiduanshijian，jiyuduifanggenduifangchongzudezhongshiyukongjian，yiqiuzailengjingqiyihouzhongliancongergaishanguanxi。