男友很忙没时间谈恋爱，女生谈恋爱的好处

 nanyouhenmangmeishijiantanlianai，jianxinxuduonvshengdaoleyidingnianjibianhuixiangtanlianai，youyunvshengdoushihuiqidaizishennengbeitarenchongni。danshijishang，rujinyeshiyouhenduorenbutaixihuantanlianai，youyutamenjingchangzaitanlianaidequanguochenglihuirenweizishenyekeyiduziyirenguodefeichanghao，juedezaitanlianaishiyoukenenghuibiequzishen，huojianshaozishenyuanbendeshenghuopinzhi。

 shijishang，nvhaiduotanlianai，shiyouyidingyoushide。xiangxiangyixia，tangruoshuoninianqingshimeiduotanlianai，zhidaoyidingnianjihouzaizhaorenwanhun，neimahuiguotouxiangyixiangshibushihuirenweizishenqianqueyidingdelianaijiqiao，yeyinerzaochengzishenduiyixingpengyouzhangwohenshao。

 neimenilejienvshengtanlianaidehaochushisha?tanlianaidemudi?xialiecongduogecengmianduinishuonvhaitanlianaidehaochu，shiniduizheigewentiyougengquanfangweidezhangwo。

一、身旁有些人陪在你身边

 tanlianaideganjueshihenxingfude，xianrujinhenduonvhaishijishangdouhenmeiyouanquangan，huoxushiyouyuershibabamamachangchangmeiyoushenpang，huoshishiziyidejiatingguanxibingbuyouqixingfukuaile，yincihuizaochengzishenyouqimeiyouanquangan，zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，shijishangnvhaiduotanlianai，zaiyidingshuipingshangkeyirangzishengengyouguishugan。

 zaitanlianaidequanguocheng，ninengganshoudaoshenpangyouxierenbeibanni，neiyangkeyijiangdipingchangpengdaowentishizishendewuligan，huirangzishendexinligenganwen，burongyineimafeichangrongyihaipagudu。ziran，jiarushuoqidaishenpangyouxierenshouhou，neimejiujinliangjianshaoyuanjulilianai，youyuneiyangjiuhuishinijuedegengbuanquan。

二、大量地掌握异性朋友

 tanlianaideganjueshizenyangde?shijishang，rujinzheileishehuifengshangshishifenduiwaikaifangde，yincixuduoqingkuangxiadajiananmianhuizairichangshenghuozhonghuocongtarendekouzhongtingjianyigeshifenzhanandeshi。yinci，bulunshipingchangjiaoyouhuoshitanlianai，womendouyingdangxuehaojianbienayizhongnanhaiershianquankekaode，youyuzhinengrucicaikeyifangzhizishenzaiaiqingshangzaoshousunhai。

 nanyouhenmangmeishijiantanlianai，yibaneryan，nvhaiduotanlianaidehua，neimajiunenggengkuaidezhangwoyixingpengyou，yinciyingduiyixiezhananshijiubukenengfashengshoupianshangdangdezhuangkuang，neiyangyeshibaohuzijidezhongyaotujing。

三、认识自己合适哪一种

 dajiadouzhidao，shijishangtanlianaideqingkuangxiananmianhuiyouyixiefenqi，youyuliangrenlaiyuanyubuyiyangdejiatingshenghuohefazhanziranhuanjing，yincixuduoqingkuangxiaduidaiyixiewentinanmianhuiyouyixiemaodun，zheiyeshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshi。tangruonvhainengduotanlianai，neimashijianjiule，niyejiunenglejiezishenxiaishenmeyangderen，huoshizishenheshishenmeyangderen。

 yinweizhiyounizhidaozishenheshinayangdenanhaier，nicaikeyizaixiayiduanqingganzhongzhaochuheshizishenderen，zixiaodeqingkuangxia，jiulejiezishenxuyaonaxie，zairihoudelianaizhongbianhuishaolehenduokunao，bingqiezaitaolunwanhunshi，niyekeyigengjiandingbuyidixuanzezijidexinli，renshizijiweilaixianghezenyangdenanshengyiqishenghuo。ninruhexiangni?