他之所以不想娶你,肯定是因为这些

　　nanfangjingchangtifenshou，lingrenkunhuobuyi。zheibingbushiyishidechongdong，ershiyigeyanzangxinlijiankangwenti。yexushitaduiyuguanliandebuquedingxing，huozheduizijishilidecaiyi。buguanyinsuzenyang，zheileifanfufashengtaolundehuatihenzhideshendusikao，tansuoqibeihoudezhenzhenzhengzhengyuanyin。yexuzhiyouyouxiaojiejuelezheigewenti，dajiacainengshibicizhijiandedaowenbufazhan，xunzhaobicizhijiandezhenshixingfukuaile。

　　nanfangjingchangtifenshou，zheigewentiyizhikunraozhedajia。meimeizheiyihuatibeitidao，chanzazhewujinyouchouhebuan。weilenenggengjiashenruzhangwozheigewenti，womenyinggaicongbutongjiaoduhecengmianjinxingsikao，tansuoshencengyuanyinhejiejuedebanfa。

　　发掘内心的矛盾

　　zainanfangjingchangtifenshoubeihou，henyoukenengyunzangzheyizhongneixindemaodun。tayexuzaijingshenshijiezhongxianruyihuo，meifajunhengzijideyaoqiuyuzeren。yexutaduiaiqingdezijintourutaiqianle，huoshiduilingyibandeqiwangtaigao，bunengmanzuxianshizhongchabie。zheileimaodungankenengshiwojiehunqianbuzushendusikaoherenzhenguanchadedaodejieguo。

　　归功于外界因素

　　nanfangjingchangtifenshouhenyoukenengyehewaijieyinsuxiangguan。yalihendagongzuo、renjiguanxizhengduo、jiazhongyalideng，douhuitishengtaruanruodeqingxufanying。takenenghuibaqinggankunhuogaikuoweifenshou，qidaiweicijiejueneixindekunraohewaizaifudan。danshi，zheizhishiyizhongtuolixianshidexingshi，genbenwufazhenzhenzhengzhengchuliwenti。

　　探索自已的内心冲动

　　nanfangjingchangtifenshoubeihouhaihuicunzaineixinneixindeyuwangtansuo。tayexuzaihunlianguanxizhongganjuemimang，xiwangyongfenshoulaihuoquzuishihezijidexingfukuaile。zheizhongzuofazhuyaolaiziyuyuduiweilaibuquedingxing，duizishendetansuohetuibiandexinxuqiu。danshi，zaizheiguochengzhong，taxiangyaolejiezijideneixinchongdong，shendusikaohezhenchengjiaoliucaisuanshichuliwentidehexin。

　　创建健康的生活协调机制

　　zhenduinanfangjingchangtifenshoudexianxiang，dajiabunengyiweidihulvehuotaobi，fanershikeyijianlijiankangdeshenghuoxiediaojizhi。genjuzhenchengdeduitan、lingtinglingyifangneixindeyaoqiuheyoulv，womennenggenghaodelejiebicizhijian，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。tongshihaixuyaosuzaobicizhijiandegongqingli，tishenglianxideyouhaoduhekekaoxing。

　　试着情感引导和婚姻咨询

　　dangnanfangjingchangtifenshoubianchengkunhuoshi，qingganyindaohehunyinzixunnenggouchengweichuliwentidezhongyaotujing。tongguozhuanyebangzhuhezhidao，womennenggenghaodelejiebicizhijiandeneixinyaoqiu，gaijinbicidejiaoliuyulijie。zheibujinyouliyuchulixianjieduandenanti，yeduiweilaiguanlianfazhanqushijuyoujijidetuidongzuoyong。

　　结束语

　　nanfangjingchangtifenshou，shiyigexuyaodajiaguanzhuyujiejuewenti。dangmianduizheigewentishi，womenyinggaibaochilizhihelizhi，tongshihaiyaozunzhongduifangdetiyanyuxuqiu。genjushendusikao、zhenchenggoutongjiaoliuhezhuanyezhidao，dajiayouxiwangxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa，yitongmaijinmeihaodeweilai。