恋爱要经历的四个阶段

 henduorendoubudongde lianai jiqiao，danyifenchengshudeaiqingbixushijingguoshijiandekaoyande，yourenshuo，lianaiyaojinglidesigejieduan，fenbieshi：gongcun、fanyilai 、duliyijigongsheng。zheilianaidesigejieduanzhijiandezhuanhuansuoxushijianyouzhangyouduan，queyeyinreneryi。

一、恋爱要经历的四个阶段

1、共存

 gangjingguoaimeideyunniang，gangquedingguanxideliangrenganqingzhengshichuzaideshihou，huiwulunheshihedidouxiangzheduifang，zongxiangzhenizaiyiqi，gengshi"yiribujian，rugesanqiu"。

 ruguoshishuyuyidilian，bunengzongshizaiyiqi，keyebunengdidangtamenduibicidesinian，yongshipin、dianhuadengfangshijiquduifangdexiangnian。zheiyangdelianai，feichangqidaijiaqiyijizhoumodedaolai，yidanyoujiaqi，jiuhuifeibendaoduifangdeshenbian。lianaishidenvsheng，shigengjiatourude。

2、反依赖

 lianaimeiyijieduandoushidijinshi，relianqiguohoudelianggeren，ganqingbiandeyuelaiyuewending，yebutaizhongshilianaijiqiaole，neijiexialaide，yejiushimaodundeqianfuqile。renherenxiangchudouyoumaodun，gengbuyongshuoshichaoxixiangchudeqinglv。xiangchujiulezonghuiyudaobuheyideshihou，yehuiyinweixiaoshijijiao，shiyinweitaizaihule。

 yexuniyujianguo，yifangxiangyaoduoyidiandeshijianzuozijideshi，tichujibicidulidekongjian，danshilingyifangquehuijuedezijishoudaolelengluo。yudaozheizhongdeqingkuang，youderenhuimomochengshou，xinliliuxiabuman，danyeyouderenhuiheduifanglilun，yinchuwufashoushidemaodun。

3、独立

 zheishidierjieduandeyanxu，yaoqiudulideshijian。ruguoshuo，dierjieduanjiushimaodunqianfuqi，neimezheigejieduanjiushigaofaqi。mingandeyifanghuaiyishizijizuodebuhao，ganshoudaodeyiweishishuyuan。

 lianaizhongdenvshengganshoudaodeanquangan，shicongtapanduannansheng“aibuaiwo”delaide。yinweiguoyuzaihu，suoyixiaodaobujishihuifudouhuijuedeshibuaizijidebiaoxian。fanfuwuchangdeqingxuduizheigejieduandenvshenglaishuoshizaitaichangjianle。

4、共生

 lianainengjianchidaozheili，jinrulewendingqi。congaimeidexiaoxiuse，jinglimaodundefenhechaonao；congchujianxinhuan，daoxiaobiesinian，zaidaojiuchurengshipengranxindong；congbulejieduifang，zaidaoxianzaisuikoujiunengshuochuduifangdexihao，zaixiangchudangzhonggaibianbici，yeshiyinglebici。

 gongsheng，huoxujiushigongduyisheng。suiransuoyoudelianaidoubuyidingnenggoujiehun，dansuoyoudelianaidoucengrangwomenxiangyaogongduyishengdeshunjian。aita，huixiangdaoweilaihetayiqidesancansiji，miaohuiweilai，guozhewenxin、youqu，jiandandeshenghuo。

 ninengxiangdaodemeihaodouhuiyoutadeyiban，yinweiyushengdouyaoheduifangyiqiduguo。danshenjiulehuidequehuishangyin，danlianaijiuleyehuichengshi。

lianaidesigejieduan，nimenzoudaonayiduanleni？