情感测试：结婚你是为了钱还是因为爱？

　　xianshishenghuozhong，nvrenchuguileshiyizhonghenyanzhongdepanbiangerenxingwei，ernanrenhuibuhuiyuanliangtamen，chengweileyigebaoshouzhengyitaolundehuati。youxierenrenwei，zhenzhengdeaiqingbaorongyubaorongde，nanrenyexuhuikaolvdaoyuanliang，tebieshizaitamenshenaidenvrenchuguideqingxingxia。danshi，haiyourenxiangxinyidanchuguiyejiumeiyouhuiguotouyudi，nanrenbutaikenengyuanliang。bulunshishenmeyangdeguandian，nvrenchuguilenanrenhuiyuanliangma，rengranshiyigerangrensisuonaizhizhengzhitaolundehuati。

　　叛变的痛苦——信赖的坍塌

　　nvrenchuguile，nanrenhuibuhuiyuanliangzheiyipanbiangerenxingwei，shiyigechongmanfanzaqingganhedaodeguannianwenti。chuguisuochanshengdetongku，tongchangyuanyuanchaoguoleyiduanganqingdejiexian，fanershizhiqurenyurendexinlaitanta。

　　价值观念的矛盾——社会标准压力

　　zaijiazhiguanniandekaolvxia，nvrenchuguibeichengzuoweibeilunlidejudong。danshi，zhenduinanrenlaijiang，nengbunengyuanliangnvrendechuguiyouyushehuibiaozhunyudaoderenyigouchenglejidamaodun。yingduilaiyuanyuqinqipengyou、shehuifazhanyulundeyali，nanrentongchanghuishenxianfenqidedibu，buzhidaogairuhetiaoxuan。

　　爱和依靠的担心——情感的复杂性

　　ganqingshiyizhongshenshendiyikaoheqinggandanxin。nanrenkenenghuiduinvrendechuguijuedejiqidetongku，dancongqiandewennuanyujiyizhong，tadeneixinyerongyishenaisuotiaodou。zaizheiyangdechongtudeqingganzhong，nanrenyexukeyikaolvdaoyuanliangnvren，queyehenyoukenengyizhishenchutongkudehuiyizhong，nanyishihuai。

　　交流和重建——重构信赖的重要

　　zainvrenchuguitongshiyexiwangwanliunanrenderenkeshi，goutongjiaoliubianchengfeichangzhongyaodejieduan。tanchengxiangjiandeduitan，lingtinghelejieduifangxinsheng，jiqinenggouweizijidewentifuzhunuliziwogaibian，quanshizhonggouxinlaidezhongyao。zhihuizaixinlingshenchudegongmingdianyuzhenchenggoutongzhong，nanrenhenvrencaikenengzhongguiyuhao。

　　个别差异——每一个男人反应不尽相同

　　meiyigenanrendoushiduyiwuerdegeren，tamenkandainvrenchuguifanyingyeyousuobutong。youyixienanrenhenyoukenengxiangyaoyuanlianghejieshounvrencuowu，congtoukaishiyiduanganqing。erlingyixienanrenwangwanghuixuanzejieshuzheiduanganqing，zaiyewufajiyunvrenyicijihui。bulunshiyuanlianghaishilikai，quanshigebiechayiyugerenchengzhangjinglidedaodejieguo。

　　社会思想的演变——男人女人角色的转变

　　suizhexiandaisixiangdeyanbian，zhenduichuguidexintaihaizaichanshengbianhua。yixiefenxirenwei，nanrennvrenzaiqingganchuguishangyingdangjuyouxiangtongdezhipeiquan，yinernanrenyinggaihenvrenyiyang，jiyuyuanliangdehaojihui。zheigeguandiandequeli，yeshinanrenzaoyuduixianyourenwujiaosesixiangdesikaohesikao。

　　包容与自我尊重——均衡的造型艺术

　　bulunshiyuanlianghaishibuyaoyuanliang，nanrenzuihoudetiaoxuandouyinggenjuzijineixinhesixiang。kuanrongshiyizhongchuantongmeide，danyebugaisheqiduizishendezunzhongyudaodedixian。dangmianduinvrenchuguishi，nanrenbixuzaibaorongyufangfanyishizhongjianxunzhaojunheng，jizijihenvrenweilaidefazhanzuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。

　　nvrenchuguilenanrenhuiyuanliangma，zheizhongqingkuangbingmeiyouyigegudingbudongdehuida。meiyigezhuangkuangquanshiyuzhongbutongde，meiyigenanrendouyougezidesikaoyutiaoxuan。buguanzenyang，panbiandetongku、jiazhiguanniandemaodun、aiheyikaodedanxin、jiaoliuhezhongjian、gebiechayi、shehuisixiangdebiangejiqibaorongyuziwozunzhong，quanshiquedingnanrenshibushiyuanliangdeguanjianyinsu。zuihou，nanrenbixusikaoxinli，quelizijidejiazhi，bingweizijiqinggantiaoxuanzuochuchengdanjuece。