心态测试：你给自己的婚姻打多少分？

　　dangtanqichuguishi，nanrenjingchangbiaoxianchulenongliedexinlixianxiang。weishenmenanrenyitiqichuguijiufanlian？zheileifanyinglaiyuanyuduizhongchengduhezizunxindeguanxin，duijiatingguanniandegaoduzhongshiyijiduiyufushanghebeipanweizhidekongju。nanrenjuedezhongchengshiweixiguanxidezhongyaoqianti，yidanchuxianchugui，zeyiweizheduiaiqingdebeipansiyipohuai；tamenyezizhichuguihuirangjiatingyuhunyinzaochengjidadesunhai，zheijinyibujifaletadeshiwanghexinhan；ciwai，nanrenyehaipazijinengbianchengchuguideduixiang，juedebuzixinyubuan。yinci，dangnanrentingjianchuguilianggezishi，qingxubenkuihedikangdoushiwomenneixindeziwobaohujizhideyizhongtixian。

　　男人的情感纽带与自尊

　　nanrenyitiqichuguijiufanlian，bingbujinshiyinweitamenduiyuzhongshihezizunxindeguanxin，gengjiashiyinweizheigepengchudaotamenqingganniudaihezizunxindezuishenchu。 duiyudaduoshunanreneryan，jiatinghehunyinjiushitamenguanjiandeqingxuzhichengdian，duilingyibandezhongshijiushitamenchengxianzerendandangdebiaoxian。yiner，yidanchuxianchuguizheizhongxingwei，tamenjuedededaoleairenyuhunyindebeipan，yedianranletamenneixinduijiatingguanniandeguanjianrenke。chuguiduinanrenlaijiang，yinggaishitamenqingganniudaiweixieyutiaozhan，yiner，tijishitamenjingchanghuizaixintaishangfashengjuliedefanying。

　　忠实的实际意义与家庭足够的安全感

　　nanrenyitiqichuguijiufanliandeyuanyinzhiyiyezaiyuduizhongshideshenkelinghuihegaoduzhongshi。zhenduinanrenlaijiang，zhongshibujinjinshiyizhongdaodeyuanze，gengshiyizhongduiyuganqingfuwuchengnuoyuzerendeyizhongtixian。zhongchengshiweichihunyinhejiatingdezhongyaoqianti，shiguanlianwendingxinghexingfukuailedeguanjianyinsu。yiner，dangchuguizheicitanjishi，nanrenkeyiminruidiyishidaolezhongshidedaoleweixie，jiatingzugoudeanquangandedaoleyaobaibuding。zheileiguanniandekaiqiyehuidaozhitamenchanshengyidingdeshiwanghexinhanxintai，tebieshidangtamenhuafeidaliangganqinghenulidequrichangweihujingyingaiqingshi。

　　对背叛和伤害害怕

　　nanrendefanyingyekezhuisudaotamenduiyubeibeipanheshoushanghaipa。chuguidaibiaozhelingyibandechuguixingwei，budandanshirentidebeipan，yeshiduinanrenzaijingshenshanghexinlingshenchudequeshihepaoxia。zheileihaipachanshengzaiduibeigufu，buzaixinrenhebuhuizaibeirenxuyaoshenkeyoulv。nanrenhenyoukenengjuedenidefuchubeihulve，zizundedaolesunhai。tabujinweilenengbaohuhaozijideganqingtouzierjuedenaonu，haiweilenengzishenjiazhihezizunerzhizehefanlian。

　　内心的不安和不安

　　zuizhong，nanrenyitiqichuguijiufanlianyeyourangrenhulvedeyaosu，jitamenneixindebuanyubuan。zuoweinanshi，yifangmian，tamenyehuihaipazijibianchengchuguideduixiang，juedebuzixinhezaiyizijidefengcaibugou；lingyifangmian，tamenyeshiyouzheduijiatingdezerenxinheduihaizidegaoduguanzhu，danxinchuguigerenxingweihuiduiyutamendejiatingdaozhibeijuweihai。zheileineixinjiaolvqingxuhebuancujinnanrenbiaoxianchuleqianghandexinlixianxiang，yibaohuhaozijimianzaoshanghaiweixie。

　　zaironghenanrendeqingganniudai、zizun、duizhongshideshijiyiyi、duibeipanheshanghaihaipajiqineixindebuanhebuandeduozhongyinsukaolvdaoxia，womennenggenghaodilejieweishenmenanrenyitiqichuguijiufanlian。zheibujinjinshiyizhongqingxubengkui，gengjiashitamenduiyuganqinghejiatingjiazhiguanniandegaoduzhongshibaohudeyizhongtixian。chuguibudanduinvxingbanlvxingchenglehendayingxiang，duinanrenbenshenyeshiyizhongxinlingshenchudechongjiweixie，bixugengjiajinshenhebijiaomingandijiejue。