恋爱秘籍：女生追求男生的三大禁忌，别让自己过度着迷

　　nanrentongshichuguihaojigenvrenshenmexinli，nanrenyucitongshichuguihaoduogenvren，zheizhongzuofashenhouyunzangzhefuzaqieshenkexinlidongji。yexushiduimeibeimanzuxingkewangchixuzhuiqiudedaodejieguo，yexushiduiyuzishenziyoubujideyizhongzhuixun。youxienanrenhenyoukenengjiyuduiquanliheduzhanyudexiangwangerzhujiantansuoxindecijixing，huozheyinweineixindebuanquanganershituyonghaojigexiaohuobanqumanzuziwokendingdexuyao。buguanyuanguzenyang，nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrendexintaishiyigefuzaqieshenrufenxihuodongdezhuti。

　　1. 男人的自我愉悦和情感苦闷

　　nanrentongshichuguihaojigenvrenshenmexinli，nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrenshenhoujingchangyunzangzheyizhongziwoyuyuedexiangfa，genjuhuodegengduodenvshiguanzhuyuyangmuqumanzuziyideaimuxurong。tamenxiangyaoyongzheizhongfangshizhengmingzijidutedemeiliheyouhuoli，congerdedaochengjiuganhemanzugan。danshi，zheileizhuixunzhishiyishideganjuele，genbenwufazhenzhenzhengzhengmibuneixindeqingxukumen。

　　2. 并没有满足冲动与探寻新刺激

　　nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrentongchangshijiyuduiwufabeimuqianairenmanzuxingkewangdezhuiqiu。zaizhangqiguanxili，fuqishenghuohenyoukenengyuelaiyuekuzaohuoqianqueshenmigan，cikeyixienanrenhuichangshizhaodaoxindecijixing，yimanzuqiriyizengzhangdechongdong。tongguobingqieyuhaojigenvrenchanshengfangshilaizhuixunjidonghefangsong，xiwangnenggouzaizheiyangyizhonghudongzhongdedaochengjiugan。

　　3. 权利与独占欲的一种体现

　　nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrenyeyoukenengyinggaishiquanliheduzhanyudeyizhongtixian。zheizhongnanrenzhuixundebujinshixingshenghuo，gengshiyizhongduinvxingzhanjuchongdong。tamenxiwangyongbingqieyuhaojigenvrenweixiguanxilaibiaoxianzijidemeilishuiping，jiqiduinvxingkongzhinengli。zheizhongzuofatongchanglaiyuanyuyizhongneixindeaimuxurongyuduizijidejiazhidexiangwang。

　　4. 内心的不安全感和自我肯定要求

　　nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrenyeyoukenengshineixindebuanquanganyuduiziwokendingdexuyao。tamenjijiyuhaojigenvrenjianlilianxiqumibuneixindebuanquangan，bingshituyongzhuduoairendeaiyuhuanyingnilaihuodeziwokending。zheizhongxingweiwangwangyuneixindexinxindudi、ziworentongganqueshaoxiangguan，xuyaokaowaijiedeguanzhuwomendeaibaochizijideqingxujunheng。

　　5. 社会发展及文化条件的限制

　　nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrendejudongyeshoudaoleshehuifazhanjiwenhuatiaojiandexianzhi。zaiyixieshehuishang，nanshidenggefangmiandebanlvguanxibeishiweiyizhongbeijienahuozhichiheguligerenxingwei，erfeidaodeyulunlidaodewenti。zheizhongguannianhesixiangjiqiduinanrenquanlihedezhuzhong，duinanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrenxingchengleyidingchengdudeweihai。

　　nanrentongshichuguihaojigenvrenshenmexinli，zongeryanzhi，nanrenyucitongshichuguihaojigenvrendejudongshenhouyunzangzhefuzaqieshenkexinlidongji。bulunshiziwoyuyueyuqinggankumen，huoshichongdongquebudadaohetanxunxinciji，huoshiduiquanliheduzhanyudeyizhongtixian，jiqineixindebuanquanganheziwokendingyaoqiu，dounenggoubiaoshuzheizhongzuofaqibeihoudexinlizhangai。lejiezheizhongxinlidongji，nengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejiehejiejuezheiyangdezhuangkuang。yucitongshi，shehuiwenhuayaosuyeyaoyinqiguanzhu，yituidonggengjiajiankanghejunhengdeguanliansixiangdechansheng。