怎样辨别男朋友是否花心？

　　faxianzijinanrenchuguilezenmeban，dangfaxianzijidenanrenchuguishi，womenkenenghuishenxianjiaolvhedanyoudangzhong。danshi，zuizhongyaodeshibaochilixing，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidefangshi。zuixian，womenyaoyuairenzhenchengdigoutongjiaoliu，zhangwochuguideyuanyin。suihou，bixuziwofansi，bingfenxishibushihaikenzaicizheiduanganqing。jiarujuedingfenshou，xunzhaozhongduanruanjiandezhichishizhiguanzhongyaode。jiaruquedingzaici，chuangjianxinrenhejiaoliuyuelaiyuezhiguanzhongyao。zuihou，womenyinggailaoji，zhiyouzhenchenghefangfanyishi，caikeyizainijingzhongzhaodaofangxiang。zheibianshidangfaxianzijinanrenchuguileshi，dajiagaizenmeban。

　　fajuenanrenchuguihou，zenmemianduiyuchulizheiyinantini？shijishang，jiejuezheiyangdezhuangkuangxuyaodajialengjingfenxi，bingzhidingqiadangdeliucheng。

　　1. 接受现实的第一步：接纳实情

　　faxianzijinanrenchuguilezenmeban，zaiwomenyishidaolenanrenchuguishi，xinliyoukenengbeiyanlidaji，xintaibianhuawuchang。danshi，womenyinggaizhimianxianshi、jieshouxianshi。hulvehuofoudingjiangzhinengjianhuanwentijiejue，zheikenenghuidailaixindetongchu。

　　2. 开展心里自我反思：思考关联

　　fajuenanrenchuguihou，guanjianzaiyufanshengzijiyubanlvxianghuguanxi。womenyinggaiwenyixiaziji，shibushiyoushenmeqingkuanghuobugouzaochengneiyangdeqingkuangchuxian？shenshizijijiaoseyiwu，bingzhaodaoyouhuadeshineikongjian。danshi，yexuyaoqueli，waiyubingbushiwomendecuo，yiwukenengbingbuzaizanmendeshenshang。

　　3. 交流是重要：真诚会话

　　zaizheiyijieduan，yuairenkaizhanzhenchengdeduitanzhiguanzhongyao。biaoshuwomenzijidetihuihegulv，zhengqiuduifangdejieshipingjiafankui。danshiyaozhuyi，zheibujinjinshiyigechizedechangsuo，ershiyigetanxunjiejuefanganjiyu。genjugoutongjiaoliu，nenggougenghaodilejiebierendexiangfahetihui，weixiayibujuecetigongcankao。

　　4. 重新审视关联：是否有必要

　　zaifaxianchuguihou，womenyinggaizhongxinshenshizijiduiyuzheiduanganqingdeqidaihedaodedixian。womenyinggaishensishulvshifouyoubiyaoyuwaiyudenanrenhuandurenshengdaolu。zheijuefeiyishi，danshiwomenwubimingquezijishiyongjiazhihemeihaocainengzuodaozhengquedejueding。

　　5. 寻找技术专业适用：倾吐和建议

　　yingduinanrenchuguidekuchuhedanyou，womenyexujuedewuchuqingsu。zheishihou，xunzhaojishuzhuanyeshiyongshizhengquedexuanze。xinlixuezixunshihuohunyinshenghuozixunguwennengbangzhuwomenshulixinxu，tichujianyi，bingqiezaidajiaxuyaoshijiyuanweishiyong。

　　6. 防范意识至关重要：复建信任

　　jiaruwojuedingzaicizheiduanganqing，neiyangfujianxinrenjianghuichengweijiweizhongyaodemeirirenwu。yifangmian，yaoqiuwaiyudenanrenchengxin、quantouming，jienatadeqinfenlaifujianwomenzijidexinren。lingyifangmian，womenyeyinggaibaohuhaoziji，baozhengzijideyaoqiuhuodemanzu，buhuizairenshoupanbianxingshanghai。

　　7. 真实自我发展：关心个人成长

　　buguanquedingzenyang，fajuenanrenchuguidouhuishiyicishenkeqinshenjingli。zaizheiguochengzhong，dajiayaozhidaozuizhongyaodeshizhuyizijidegerentisheng。genjusuzaogerenxingquaihao、tuozhanjiaojiquan、zhuixunziyidegongzuo，womennengzaicifaxianzijiqijiazhiyukuaile。

　　8. 向前推进：重塑未来

　　zuizhong，buguanwomenlikaihuozaici，womenyinggaixiangqianzou，qinfenzhongsuweilai。buguanwomenyoushenmekunnan，fujianxinrenhezaicizhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfudoushiwomendeshiming。

　　faxianzijinanrenchuguilezenmeban，zaiwomenfaxianzijidenanrenchuguishi，zheiyebushizhongdianzhan，fanershixindezhengcheng。genjulengjingfenxihezhengquexingwei，womennengzainijingzhongxunzhaojiejuefangan，bingweiyihouzhujiumeihaodelumian。