识别渣男：男人短择的表现

　　nvrenchuguinanrengaizenmechuliweihao，dangzaoyunvrenwaiyuqingkuangshi，nanrenyaomianduiqingganshangdetiaozhanchongjixing。danshi，qiadangdechulifangshinenggouweiguanlianfujianpulu。bulunshizhenchenggoutongjiaoliubingxunzhaoxinlishudao，huoshiziwofansibingxunzhaowaibushiyong，nanrendounenggoujiejuezheiyijiongjing。zhenduinvrenwaiyu，nanrenbixubaochilengjingshitulejie，yucitongshiyingzunshoudaodedixianjishidangshijiayali，jianshoudixian。zaizheiguochengzhong，zhongshi、xinrenhebaorongshizhuyaoyinsu。genjubicilingting，chengxinbiaodaganshou，bingzhidingxunsuxingdong，nanrenkeyimashanggoujianqilaoguzhijiandeguanxijiben，zhonggoufuqizhijiandexinrenhemeihao。nvrenwaiyubingbushijieshu，fanershikaoyan，nanrenyingdangweituijinyitongderenshengguihuaerfendou。

　　挽回感情，修补痛苦

　　nvrenchuguinanrengaizenmechuliweihao，nvrenwaiyuduinanrenlaijiangshiyiciyanjundetiaozhan，danqiadangdechulifangshinenggoubangzhunanrenwanhuiganqing，xiubuxinlingshenchudetongku。mianduizheiyangdejiongjing，nanrenxuyaocaiquyixiafangfa：

　　保持冷静和理解

　　yingduinvrenwaiyudekeguanshishi，nanrenshouxianyaobaochilengjing。bubishenxianqingxuzhaoze，fanershijiduifangyixieshijianyukongjianlailengjingfenxi。jinkenenglejienvrenchuguideyuanyin，yanjiushenhoudongjihejingshenxuqiu。zheimezuonenggoubangzhunanrengengkeguandekandaishiwu，bingqieweihouxujiejuetigongzhicheng。

　　诚信交流和心理疏导

　　fuzerendejiaoliushifujianxinrenhexiufuguanxideguanjiansuozai。nanrenyingdangyongganbiaodazijidetiyanhegulv，tongshihaiyaolingtingnvrendejieshishuomingjingshenxuqiu。biyaoshi，nenggouxunzhaogengzhuanyedexinlishudaoxiezhu，rangshuangfangdoushijiyuqingtuxinlidekunrao，bingzhaodaogenghaodejiejuefangan。

　　坚守底线与适当施加压力

　　suirannanrenqidaiwanhuiganqing，danyexuyaojianchibuxiezuorendedixianzunxunyuanze。zaihenvrendegoutonghuanjiezhong，nanrenyingdangqingchubiaodaduizhongshiyuzhenchengdeqidai，bingshidangshijiayaliyiquebaowentijishijiejue。zheijinengtishinvrenweizijidexingweichengdan，haikeyiweihubaoyangnanrenbenshendeliyihezizun。

　　聆听、信任和包容

　　fujianxinrenshixiubutongkudeguanjianyinsu。nanrenyingdangjiyunvrenqingtukongjian，naixinqingtingtadexinlitihui，bingtanxungongtongdejiejuefangan。yucitongshi，nanrenyeyaozhanshengzijidegulvyujiaolvqingxu，manmanhuifuduinvrendexinren。baorongshiguanlianxiufuzhongdeguanjianyinsu，nanrenyingdangkuanyidairenyuyuanliang，chuangzaoyigexianghuzhichiyuchengzhangkongjian。

　　共同的目标、迅速行动

　　weilenengfujianfuqiganqing，nanrenhenvrenbixugongtongshangdingzongtimubiaobingzhidingjijizhudongdexingwei。bicibixuchedigaibianbicizhijianderenwujiaoseyuzeren，bingzhiliyugaijingoutongyuhudongxingshi。canyufufuzhutihuodong、chuangjianyitongaihao、tishenghudongjiaoliushizhangdengcuoshinenggoubangzhubicimanmanfujianganqingdejichu，weijinhoudegongchudiandingjianshidejichu。

　　nvrenchuguinanrengaizenmechuliweihao，nvrenwaiyuduinanrenlaijiangshiyicijidadejiongjing，danqiadangdechulifangshinenggoubangzhunanrenjianlixindexinrenhehuifutongku。genjubaochilengjingyulijie、chengxingoutongyuxinlishudao、jianshoudixianheshidangshijiayali、lingting、xinrenyubaorong，jiqigongtongdemubiaohexunsuxingdong，nanrennenggoumaijingengjiankanghelaoguzhijiandeguanxi，shiqixingfuhexingfu。