女生见男网友要注意什么？如何提高脱单成功率？

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　　nanrenzaihuaiyunqijianbeipandejudongshenhou，youzhegengshencengcideqingganyuxinlizhangai。zheiyixianxiangjiwomendailailejiyujinxingsikao、lailijie，huaiyunqijiannanrenwaiyudaodixiangzhengzheshenme。xialiejiangzaihaoduogebutongshijiaozhankaitaolun。

　　向往自由与刺激性

　　yunqinanrenchuguidaibiaoshenme，youyixienanrenhuizaihuaiyunqijianbeipan，shizaitamenkanlaizishendeganqingshenghuoyuelaiyueyayikuzao。hunyindezerenheyali，jiqixiaohaijijianglailinjubianshidetamenjuedejushu。tamenyexuxiangyaotongguohunhouchuguilaixunzhaoxinxianganhereqing，yishiyingjingshenshangdesuiyiyaoqiu。zheizhongzuofakenengshizhenduishenfenrentongherenxingdebenzhidexiangwang。

　　缺乏安全感和陌生感

　　lingyifangmian，huaiyunqijiannanrenbeipanyekenengshiyinweitamenjuedebuanquandeheshuyuan。huaiyunqijiannvxingrentidegaibian、xintaidebianhuajiqijiaolvbuandetisheng，kenenghuizhishihezhangfujiandeganqingshengshu。nanrenkenenghuiyinweibuzhidaogairuhejiejuezheixiebianhuaheqingganerkunhuobuyihejuewang，jinertiaoxuanzaiqitanvxingdeshenshangqiuanweiyuguanhuai。zheizhongzuofashiduimeiyouanquanganhemoshenggandebiaoshu。

　　父亲身份压力和不安

　　huaiyunqijiannanrenwaiyudelingyigebiaoshushihetamenzuoweifuqinshenfenyalihebuanxiangguan。jijiangchengweibabadaibiaozhetamenjijiangdanfugengduodedandangheshenfendezhuanbian。tamenhuoxuduishibushinengshengrenzheigexinderenwujiaosegandaojiaolv，haipazijishifounengtigongchongzudejingjifazhandalizhichiheqingganguanhuai。waiyukenengshiyizhongtuolixianshiyuyalidexingshi，changshizaiqitanvxingdeshenshangxunzhaohuanjiefangsong。

　　沟通不到位和情感需求

　　goutongbudaoweiheqingganxuqiuquebudadaodoushihuaiyunqijiannanrenwaiyudeyigeqianzaideyuangu。huaiyunqijiannvxingwangwanghuiyinweirentidegaibianheyuntufanyingzhujianbiandemingancuiruoaishengqi，ernanrentongchangbushanyubiaodaqingxuyuguanhuai。tamenyexujuedezijibeihulvehuozhewufamanzuzijiqingganxuqiu，jinerxunzhaowaijieganqingzhongdedadao。zheileichuguishiduigoutongbudaoweiheqingganxuqiufanying。

　　思考与一起成长

　　huaiyunqijiannanrenbeipanbingbujinjinshiyizhongbeipangerenxingwei，erqieyeshizhenduinanrenxinlizhuangtaiheqingganxuqiudeyizhongtixian。erwobukezhikandaolebeipandekuchuxingshanghai，gengyingcongzheidangzhongsikaoyuxuexipeixun。fuqiliangrenyingdangyiqimianduihechuliyunqikaoyan，qinfenchuangjiangengjiankang、kaifanghezhenchengdeyuyangoutongjiqiao。tihuihexiezhulingyifangjiejuezhuduozhuanbianyuyali，shituidongfuqiganqingyitongfazhandeguanjian。

　　yunqinanrenchuguidaibiaoshenme，nanrenzaiyunqichuguibingbujinjindaibiaolebeipangerenxingwei，gengjiashiduiyuxueshengxinlideqingxuhexintaideyizhongfanying。genjurenzhihegongtongfendou，fuqiliangrenkeyixingchenggengyouxiuhelaoguzhijiandeguanxi，yinglaixinshengmingdedansheng。