情感咨询：情侣谈恋爱到什么程度见家长？

　　jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangde，jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangxingchenghechanshengde？zheidangzhongcunzaiyixiliefanzadexinlizhuangtai。tamenwangwanghuijuedejingshencengmiandekumenyubudadao，xiwangdedaogengduoguanzhuhexinren。zheileijingshenchuguitongchangshiyizhongzhuiqiucijihemanzufangshi，yimibuneixindekumen。yucitongshi，tamenyeyoukenengquefazikongnengliheyizhili，didangbuzhuwaibudeyinyou。tamentongchangzaichenniyuxinxiandecijideyouxiyucitongshi，yongyuchengdanzerendeganjuelequefachongzurenzhinengli。jingshenchuguinanrendexinliqingkuangshiyigefuzaduobiandexingye，bixushenkelijiehetaolun。

　　心理需要强烈不满

　　jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangde，jingshenchuguiyigenanrendeneixincunzaiyizhongjingshencengmiandekumenyubudadao。tamenxiwangdedaogengduoguanzhu、lejiehexinren。zaizhangshijianfuqiguanxizhong，tamenyexujuedebeihulvehuobeishiweilisuoyingdang。zheizhongxuqiubufuhedeganjueleshitamentanxunduozhongfangshilaimibuneixindekumen。

　　追求刺激和满足方式

　　jingshenchuguinanshenggenjujingshenchuguizhuiqiucijibingmanzu。tamenqipanganshouxindeganjueyujiqing，yitaochurichangshenghuozhongdepingpingdandanyuyali。jingshenchuguichengweiwomenxunqiucijiyuqingganmanzufangshi，weiqichanshengyishikuaiganhechengjiugan。

　　自控能力的缺乏

　　jingshenchuguinanshengtongchangquefazikongnengliheyizhili。yingduiwaibudeyinyou，tamenwufadidangerxuanzeleshenxianyinyouzhong。tamenduiyuchacheshuipingqianque，tongchangweilenengzhuiqiuduanzandadaoerhushilebuliangyingxiangxingshanghai。zheileizikongnenglidequefashitamenwufadidangzhujingshenchuguiyouhuo。

　　责任心的缺少

　　jingshenchuguinanshengtongchangquefaduizishengerenxingweidezerenxinhedaodeshufu。tamentongchangjiangzishendadaofangzaidiyiwei，erhushileduilingyibanhejiatingzeren。tamenyinggaimeiyourenshidaozijidegerenxingweiduibierendailaideshanghai，huozhebuyuanmianduihedanfuzheileiyiwu。

　　自我调整制度的缺乏

　　jingshenchuguinanshenghenyoukenengquefajiankangdeziwodiaokongjizhi，meifajijiyingduishenghuozhongdenantiyutiaozhan。tongguojingshenchuguilaituolixianshiwenti，tanxunduanzanbaituo。danshi，zheileiduobijinjinbunenggenchu，jiejuebuleneixinzhenzhengyiyishangdenanti，jinerdaozhiqingxucuoluanhegengduokunhuo。

　　缺乏沟通与倾吐的途径

　　jingshenchuguinanshengtongchangbunengyouxiaodibiaodazijineixinxuqiuyuqingxu。tamenyexuquefayuairenjinxingjiaoliudetujing，zhaobuzheqingsudeduixiang。zheishitamenbukeyiconggenbenshangjiejueneixindefenqihebumanyi，zhinengbaqingxucezhongyujingshenchuguizheiyibuzhengchangdefangfa。

　　jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangde，zaifenxizhong，jingshenchuguinanrendexinliqingkuangshiyigefuzaqieduoweidudexingye。neixindekumen、zhuiqiuciji、zikongnenglihezerenxindequeshao、quefaziwodiaozhengtizhijiqigoutongbuchang，zhongzhongyinsuxiangfuxiangcheng，gouchenglejingshenchuguinanshengyuzhongbutongdexinlitezheng。xuyaojiejuejingshenchuguinanti，xuyaokaolvzheizhongxinlixuyaodedadao、gaijingoutongyuqingganbiaoxiandetujing，bingtigaotadeziwodiaozhengheshiminggan。