谈婚论嫁时与男友闹矛盾 如何挽回男友的心

　　zainanren40suidenianjiduan，chuguideqingkuangyuelaiyuegengjiaguangfan。weishenme40suidenanrenrongyichuguini？zheiyexuyugezhongyinsuxiangguan。yifangmian，zhongniannanrenduiyuzishenshenfenshiyongjiazhipinggukenenghuidaozhijingshenyali，shidetamenxunqiuwaijierentonghefuwei。lingyifangmian，hunyinshenghuozhongdejiandanhekuzaoyeyoukenengshidetamenqipanxunqiuxinxianganhecijixing。chucizhiwai，40suizhengchuzaizhiyechenggongdezuijiashiqi，yougengduodejihuiyuyixingjiechu，zengqianglechuguidefabingyuanyin。zongdelaishuo，40suinanrenfeichangrongyichuguizhuyaoshiyinweijingshenyali、hunyinshenghuoshenghuodandiaojiqiqudechenggongzhiyeleixingsuodailaidegezhongyinsudaozhide。

　　中年危机激发诱惑

　　weishenme40suidenanrenrongyichugui，zainanrende40suihuanjie，tamentongchanghuizaoyuyixiliedetiaozhanzhuanbian，zheijiujiaozuozhongnianweiji。zhongnianweijishiyizhongxintai，talingrengandaojiaolvqingxu、shiwanghehuihen。zheiyijieduan，nanrenjiuhuikaishiduizijideweilaikaizhanrenzhendesikao，takenenghuisikaozijidegongzuofazhanqushi、jiatingzhuangkuanghegerenchengjiu。zheigefanshenghezhiyijingchangweitamentigongyizhonggongzuoyaliyubuandeganjuele。zheigezaodongbuanhebumanyikenengzaochengtamenxiangduobi，qipanxunqiuyizhongyuxiankuangbuyiyangciji，erchuguitongchangbianchenglezuijiandandeyouhuo。

　　婚姻生活琐碎透现情绪

　　suizhenianlingzengzhang，hunyinlideyouyanjiangcutongchanghuirangnanrenjuededichenhewuqu。neixiewomenlanmanhuoredeaiqingbukebimiandiyaojinglipingdanqi。zhongfusuosui、rifuyiridejiatingyalicushinanrendeqingxutouxian。weileduobigezhongyali，takenenghuixunqiuyizhongqingsongkuailefangshiqumanzuzijineixinyaoqiu。chuguichangchanghuibeitamenshiweiyizhongdecijibaituodexingshi，rangtamenzanshitaolihunyindeshufuyuzeren。

　　初入职场取得成功引起诱惑

　　40zhousuishihenduonanrenzaizhiyeshengyahuodehendaqudechenggongshi。tamenyexuzaoyizaigongzuoshangyongyoulezijideyingxiangli，huodelechongzudecaifushengyu。bansuizhequdechenggongdedaolai，tamendexinxinyedeyitisheng。danshi，zheileiqudechenggongyehuidailaigengduodeyouhuo。sizhoudedajiaduiyutamendeqinpeiheqinglai，rangzheixienanrenxianruzishenwangxianghechengjiugan。zaizhichangshanghexiuxianhuodongzhong，tamenchupengchugengduodeyixingpengyou，danzheizhonggengduodekenengxingyetigaolechuguidehaojihui。

　　本人达到变成首先选择

　　suizhenianlingzengzhang，dajiamanmanmingbaileziwojiazhidebiyaoxing。zhonglaoniannanrentongchangzhujianzhaodaozijidebenrendadaohemanzugan。tamenqipanzengjiazijidebenrenxingye、zhuixungerenxingquaihaojigerenreqing。danshi，zaizheiyangyigegongzuodezuijiashiqi，tamenwangwangbixufuchugengduoshijianhejinglilaidadaogerenguihua，zheikenengzaochengaiqinghehunyindeshengshu。tamenyexuganjuebixuqitafangmianxunzhaochengjiugan。zheileibenrendadaotongchangchengweiwomenchuguidezuijiaxuanze，yinweitajiyutamenyizhongyuzhongbutongdezizhuganheyuyuegan。

　　控制欲望的失调

　　40suinanrenfeichangrongyichuguidelingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshikongzhiyuwangdeshidiao。zaizheigenianling，nanshitongchangyouzhehengaodequanliyuwangyukongzhiquxiang。danshi，tadeyujiatinghunhoushenghuotongchangqushitamenrangbuhedangxin，zheijiangdaozhitadekongzhiyuwangmeifahuodemanzu。weileshixianzheileikongzhiyuwang，takenenghuixunqiubiedeguanlian，congershixianduilingyigerendekongzhiyuweihai。

　　结束语

　　weishenme40suidenanrenrongyichugui，suiran40suinanrenyichugui，danzheibingbudaibiaomeigerendoutaruchuguidelu。meiyigenanrendoushiyouxuanzedequanli，tamennengtongguoziwofansi、yuairenxianghujiaoliuhechuangjiangengqiangdejiazhongfangshilaibaituozheileiyouhuo。zuizhuyaodeshi，yishidaolezheileiyouhuodechuxian，erqiecaiyongjijizhudongdeduicelaiyufangxianjinqu，yibaohuhaozijihehunyinhejiatingguanlian。