什么样的好男人会是合格的伴侣？

　　weishenme40suidenanrenrongyichugui？zheishiyigebeishouzhumudenanti。suizhenianlingzengzhang，henduozhonglaoniannanrenzaihunyinzhongxiangshoudaoqinggandemangran。tamenyexujuedeyalihetansuodetisheng，bingqieyekewangzhongshinianqingshihousuiyiyureqing。zheileixinlichongtuyijiduiyutouchangyouhuo，shitamengenghuixianruchuguidejudongzhong，zaochenghunyinxianruweiji。danshi，yaoqingchuzheiyixianxiang，womenyinggaicongshencengcidedongyinhexinlixuyaoqusikao，yitanxungengjiaquanmianjiejuefangan。

　　情感困惑和莫名地压力

　　zhendui40suinanreneryan，zhonglaonianqiahaoshikunhuohejiaolvbuandejieduan。tamenwangwangjuedeyalihechengdandetisheng，xingyefazhandepibei，rentijinengherongmaodegaibian，jiqijiatingyalidehouzhong。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，henduonanrenhuixunzhaoyizhongchurukoulaixunzhaoshiqudedongxisuiyiyujiqing，erchuguitongchangchengweiwomenzhuixunshifangchulaidexingshi。

　　自身身份探索自信渴望

　　nianguole40denanrenjingchangshenxianzishenzhenshishenfendeshijiantansuodangzhong。takaishishenshizijirenshengdeyiyihezaojiu，bingtihuidaoshijianyali。yucitongshi，tamenyekewangbiaoxianzijizaiqitalingyudejiazhiyuyouhuoli。chuguijiuchengweileyizhongxiufuzixinxin、ganshougerenjiazhidexingshi。xindelianaiguanlianweitamentigongyizhongbeiguanzhuyuzhuiqiudeganjuele，mibuletamenneixinduizixinyuzizunxindekewang。

　　对婚姻的日益发麻和与爱人的生疏

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，hunyinlidemeihaohereqingtongchanghuimanmanxiaosan。40suinanrenkenengjuedeyuairenjiandeqingganshuyuanhegongchudekuzao。tamenkewangzaiciganshoureqinghecijixing，tansuoxindecijixingyujiqing。chuguishiyizhongtuolixianshihouzhongxindianranmengxiangdexingshi，rangtamenjuederichangshenghuoyijiuyougengduokenengxing。

　　整个社会认同和身份建立

　　shehuifazhandesixiangjiwenhuazhenduinanrenlaijianghenyoukenengchanshengjudadeweihai。zaiyixieshehuishang，nanrenzai40suizhihoujiangmianlinduishenfenheyouhuolidehuaiyi。tamenhenrongyishoudaozhenggeshehuiyali，qidaibiaoxianzijiyiranjuyoumeiliyouhuoli。chuguichengweiyizhongdadaozheileishehuifazhanyalibingxunzhaorentongdexingshi，rangtamenzaicijianlishenfen。

　　沟通不到位和亲密关系的缺少

　　zaihunyinzhong，bulunshiyinweigongzuofanmang、jiatingyalihuoshiqitawenti，fuqijiandegoutongyuhunyinguanxichangchangshoudaoyingxiang。40suinanrenhenyoukenengqueshaoduiqinggandebiaoshuhejiaoliu，bingjuedemeifamanzuzijiqingganyaoqiu。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，tamenjiergenjuchuguixunzhaobeizhongshi、beirenlijiebingmanzuqinggandekewang，yimibuhunyinlidequekou。

　　自控能力差与对诱惑抵抗能力

　　suiranmeigerendouyouyinyou，dan40suinanrenjiangmianlingengduodeyaliyutiaozhan。tamenyexuzaoyiqinshenjingliguoyiduanshijiandewendingxinghewending，zhenduixinshiwudezhuiqiuhemaoxiandechongdongmanmantigao。dangtamenpengdaoyinyoushi，meiyouzugoudezikongnenglihedikangnengli，huixianruchuguidejudongzhong。

　　结束语

　　weishenme40suidenanrenrongyichugui？zheizhongqingkuangbaokuolehenduofangmian，baohanqinggankunhuo、ziworenzhi、hunyindefanmen、shehuifazhanyali、jiaoliuwentihezikongnenglidequeshideng。yaojiejuezheixiewenti，womenyinggaigengjiazhongshizhongniannanrendexinlixuqiuhehunyinguanlian，tigonggengjiayouxiaodegoutonghehudong，jiqibangzhuqichuangjianjiankangdeziworenkeheqinggandadao。weiyouruci，cainengzuodaozhenzhengjianqingzhonglaoniannanrenfeichangrongyichuguiwenti，weichixingfukuailelaogudehunyinguanlian。