老公变心出轨，我该如何挽回他？

　　nanrenweishenmehuichugui，weihenanrenhuiwaiyuyizhishiyigebeishouzhumudehuatitaolun。gebuxiangtong，youxierenrenweizhuyaoshiyinweiduiaiqingdebumanyihuoshixunzhaoxinxiandecijixing，yeyourenjuedezhuyaoshiyinweizisiziliyuneixindeyuwangposhi。nanrenchuguishencengyuanyinhuishejidaoxinghejingshencengmiandebixu，duiyuzishenyunweiderenzhengjiqishizheyigexindeqingxutiyan。benwentaolunnanrenchuguidegezhongyinsu，yiqiubangwomengenghaodilejiezheiyixianxiangqibeihoudeshencengcidongyin。

　　jianshu：tanxunnanrenchuguideqianzangyuangu

　　深层次情感需求所导致的出轨行为

　　nanrenweishenmehuichugui，zainanrenchuguishenhou，yunzangzhetamenshencengcideqingganxuqiu。youyixienanrenzaiganqingerzhangqiairenguanxizhongganjueqianqueqingxudadao，tamenyexukewangbeirenlijie、beizhongshi、beizhongshi。dangzheizhongxuqiuwufamanzushi，tamenyexuxunzhaoheqitarenzhongxinjianliqingxulianluo，yimibuneixinshenchudekumenhebumanzugan。

　　觅求自我认可的渴望

　　nanrendezizuntongchanghetadutedemeiliheyouhuolixixixiangguan。dangnanrenjuedezijizaiganqingerzhangqiguanxizhonghulvehuonanyihuodechongzudehaowuyiwenshi，takenenghuixunzhaowaiburentongherenzheng。zheileikewangyinlingzhezheixierenzaichuguizhongzhaodaoqitarenzanyangyuwennuan，yishiyingtamenneixinduigerenjiazhidexiangwang。

　　对新颖刺激性与性冒险的渴望

　　yixienanrenchuguikenengjiushiyinweitamenkewangxinxiandedecijijidongdexingtanxian。zhangqixingdehunyinshenghuohuoxiangduiwendingdeguanxikenenghuizhishijingshencengmiandeyayifuqishenghuodekuzao。zheileiyapogancushiqizhaodaoxindedecijitanxian，genjugenpengyouchanshengguanxiqumanzuxinzhongdeyuwang。

　　解决个人问题和不正常的行为模式

　　youyixienanrenmianlingerenwentiheneixinshenchudezhengtuo，rubuzixin、jiaolvqingxu、bumanzugandeng。tamenyexuyingyongwaiyulaiyangaihuojiejuezheigewenti，yilinshijianqingxinlidekuchu。danshi，zheileibuzhengchangdexingweimoshizhinengjinyibujiajutadejiongjing，bingduiyutamendeshejiaoguanxichanshengbuliyingxiang。

　　沟通与关系难题产生的影响

　　qianqueyouxiaogoutonghekunhuoguanxinantidoushinanrenchuguideyigezhongyaoyinsu。dangtamenjuedezaiguanxizhongwufaxingrongzijideyaoqiuyuqingganshi，takenenghuixunzhaozaibiechuhuodemanzu。meifajiejuezheigewentideguanxixiaojikunhuoweihaiwaiyudefengxianxing。

　　汇总

　　nanrenweishenmehuichugui，nanrenchuguidezhuyaoyuanyinfuzaduobian，budandanshixingyuwanghuobiaomiandebumanyi。shencengcideqingganxuqiu、ziworenkedekewang、duixinxiandecijideyouxichongdong、jiejuegerenwentihejiaoliuguanxinantichanshengdeyingxiangdengduozhongyinsuhenyoukenenglianhezuoyong，cujinnanrenmaixiangchuguixingweigerenxingwei。lejienanrenchuguiqibeihoudeshencengcidongyinyouliyukaizhangengjiahaodeguanxigoutongyuchuangjianshenxinjiankangxiangduiwendingdeairenguanxi。