男友不是理想结婚对象，该如何维系这段感情？

　　nanrenchuguiyoushenmezhengzhuanghebiaoxian?，zaiganqingli，nanrenchuguishiyigefuzaqiejishoudewenti。nanrenchuguidebingzhenghebiaoxiangezhonggeyang，nenggoubiaoxianweiqingxushuli、lengdan、jingchangzhaoliyoujiabanjiadian、jingchangshiyongshoujishang、jingshenjiaolvdeng。youdenanrenjiuhuikaishifashengmingxianbianhua，lirugenggaichuanzhedaban、liuyirongmao、duizishendefengcaizaochengguoduguanxin。biedebiaoxianbaohanduiyuhunyinbuhuizaizijintouru、duijiatingyalibuwenbuwen、yubanlvdefuqishenghuojianshaohuoyuelaiyuelengmo。nanrenchuguibudanyanzhongyingxiangfuqiguanxi，yeduizheigejiatinghebanlvdexinlijiankangchanshengfumianyingxiang。yiner，zhangwonanrenchuguidebingzhenghebiaoxianzhenduiweihubaoyangjiatingwendinghemeihaoyouweizhongyao。

　　chuguishiyizhongzaiganqinghuohunlianguanxidangzhongzhongdegerenxingwei，zhenduizaoshouchuguibanlvdeyifangeryan，zhangwonanrenchuguidebingzhenghebiaoxiannenggoubangzhutamenjinzaofajuebingchulizheileiwenti。xiabianjiangtaolunyixiechangjiandenanrenchuguidebingzhenghebiaoxian。

　　1. 情绪疏离和冷淡

　　nanrenchuguiyoushenmezhengzhuanghebiaoxian?，dangyigenanrenzhujianchuguishi，takenenghuimanmanyubanlvzaochengqingxushulihelengdan。tamenduiyubanlvdereqinghecanyududafuduxiajiang，buhuizaizhanxianchuzhiqiandeguanhuaihetiexin。

　　2. 经常使用手机上

　　nanxingzaichuguiguochengzhongxuyaobiandeshifenguanxinshoujishang，chixuchaxun、fasongduanxin，fangzhirangbanlvfajuefeiyisuosiduanxinhuoweixinliaotianjilu。tamenduibaohushoujijiamiyuelaiyueguodumingan。

　　3. 经常上夜班或出门

　　nanrenchuguishijingchanghuizhaoliyoujiabanjiadianhuojingchangchumen。shiweileyulingyiweimubiaopengmian，jitayubanlvzhongjiandailaigengduoqinggankongjian。

　　4. 精神焦虑和负罪感

　　chuguidenanshengkenengtihuidaoneixinshenchudefenqihebuan，yingduihunyinhebanlvdepanbiangan，tamenwangwanggandaoxiukuihexinlibuan。

　　5. 出现了明显的容貌更改

　　youdenanrenzaichuguizhihoukaishigengweizaiyizijiderongmaohexingxiang。takenenghuigenggaichuanzhedabanshejifengge，zhongshixingxiangqizhi，erqieyuelaiyuegengjiazaiyizijideyouhuoli，laixiyinyigexindemubiao。

　　6. 不会再资金投入婚姻生活

　　chuguinanshengyibanduifuqiguanxibuhuizaizijintouru，duijiatingyalibuwenbuwen。tamenyexuzhujianshengshuyubanlvdegoutong、yitongguanlijuecejiatingguihua。

　　7. 与伴侣的夫妻生活转变

　　nanrenchuguihou，yubanlvdefuqishenghuokenengmingxianjianshaohuoyuelaiyuelengmo。tamenyexujiangshenglixuqiujuxianyuchuguibanlv，huoyinweikuijiudanduifuqishenghuotibuqixingqu。

　　nanrenchuguiyoushenmezhengzhuanghebiaoxian?，huizong：zhangwonanrenchuguidebingzhenghebiaoxianzhenduiweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuowendingxinghejiangdibanlvxinliyaliyouweizhongyao。qingxushuli、lengdan、jingchangshiyongshoujishang、jiabanjiadianhuochumen、jingshenjiaolv、rongmaogenggai、buhuizaizijintouruhunyinshenghuo，jiqifuqishenghuozhuanbiandengdouhuichengweinanrenchuguidebingzhenghebiaoxian。banlvliyingbaochijingti，jishifaxiannantibinghechuguinanshengkaizhanzhenchenghuihua，yitanxunjiejuefangfa，xiufufuqiguanxidejiankangyupingwen。