如何缓和老公和娘家的关系？

　　nanrenjingshenchugui，jishiyizhongxinlitezheng，yeshiyizhongshehuidaodeanquanyinhuan。zaihunyinzhong，jinguanrentibucengwaiyu，danguannianzaoyilikaijiating，neixinyijingbeibierenqintun。nanrenjingshenchuguibudandaozhilejiatingdeliekai，yegeduanlebenlaixiangduiwendingdeqingganqiaoliang。bulunshixunqiuciji，tuixiezeren，huoshitanxunqinggandadao，nanrenjingshenchuguizaochengzaochengdeshanghaibukewanhui。yiner，weichihunyindezhongshiyuduijiatingdezerenxin，bianchengguanainanrenjingshenchuguideguanjiansuozai。

　　困扰与叛变——男人内心联系的敏感界限

　　zaidangjinshehuizhong，nanrendejingshenchuguinantichengweileyigebeishouzhumudehuatitaolun。zheileiwaiyubingbushizhinanrenzaiwaibujutixingdongshangyubierenfashengxingguanxi，eryinggaishinanrenzaixinlingshenchufashengqingganhexinlingshenchudepanbian。zheileipanbianhenyoukenengyinggaishihunyinhuoshihunlianguanxiqiangliebuman，yihuozheshiduizishenshenfengerenjiazhidemitu。bulunshichuziyucaiyi，xunzhaoshenmigan，huoshibunengmanzudexiangwang，nanrendeneixinwaiyunantijijiatingjigerendailailejidadekunhuoxingshanghai。

　　压力引诱——男人精神出轨形成的原因

　　nanrenjingshenchuguixingchengdeyuanyinfuzaduobian，qizhongzhiyijiushixiandaishehuijudadeyali。gongzuoyujiatingyiwudeduozhongyalirangnanrenhenrongyichanshengqingganpijuanpibeigan，jinerxunzhaowaibuqingganjiyu。shejiaowangluohexuhuanshijiedejueqi，youweinanrentigonglegengduoyinyouhejiyu，buzhibujuehuajinjingshenchuguidewoxuan。hekuang，yidanzaijiashangwaizaiyouhuo，lirujiuqingrenhuoshigongzuodadangdedansheng，nanrendejingshenchuguibianzhanxianchugengjiafanzademianpang。

　　家庭困境和情感裂开——男人精神出轨的代价

　　nanrendejingshenchuguibudanduiyugerenzaochengweihai，genghuiyinqijiatingdekunjingheqinggandeliekai。hunyinlidexinrenfenlie、neijiugandexingchengjiqilingyibandetongchu，quanshijingshenchuguijijiatingzaochengdeshanghai。suiranjingshenchuguizaixingdongshangbingmeiyoushijixingdipanbianjiating，danshiquejiangdilegerenyujiatingzuyuandelianxiyuguanlian。jiatinglidegongchumanmanshuyuan，qinmiwujianyuelaiyueshengshu，jinerdaozhihunyindeliekaihejiatingdewajie。

　　复建信任和修复关系——处理男人精神出轨的路径

　　yingduinanrenjingshenchuguidejiongjing，fujianxinrenhexiufuguanxishiguanjianxingdefangshi。lingting、goutongyulijiejiushifujianxinrendezhongyaoqianti，beichuguiyifangbixuxiufuxinlizugoudeanquangan，erbeipanzhejiuxuyaohuigaihezhenchenggenggai。fuqijiandexinlishudaohehunyinzixundoushixiezhubicizaiciqudelianxihegongtongdemubiaodeyouxiaotujing。chucizhiwai，zhenduinanrenlaijiang，tamenyebixuxuehuiguanlifangfayalidiyuyouhuo，zhuzhongjiatingdebiyaoxing，tigaoziworentongheshiminggan。

　　nanrenjingshenchuguiwentibidingchanshengzhongdadechongjisunhai。zhiyouzhenzhiheqinfen，fuqiliangrencaikeyituanjieyizhi，yiqimianduihechulizheiyinanti。genjufujianxinrenhexiufuguanxi，dajiayexunengjiejiuneixieganqinghejiatingzhongmitudenanren，rangtamenzhongshiheziji、yujiatinghexiegongcundenenglianghexinxin。