和老公偷偷领证后，怎么和公婆相处？

　　chuguidenanrenduilaopohaiyouxingquma，zaihunyinzhong，chuguishiyizhongpanbiangerenxingwei，rangrenjiuxin。feichangzhideyanjiudewentijiushi，dangnanrenchuguihou，tashifouhaihuiduizishendeqiziweichixingquyuguanxin？zheizhongqingkuangyinqilezhuduoyiyihedanyou，erqiemeigezhuangkuangquanshiyuzhongbutongde，meiyouyichengbubiandehuida。lejienanrenchuguihoudexintaibianhua，jiqihunyinlidezhongzhongyuanyinduiyutamendeweihai，yexukeyijieluzheixiewentideyijiao。genjusisuozheiyiwenti，dajiayexunenggenghaodilejie，hunyinliderentonghehaiyuanshibushihenyoukeneng，bingshizhetanxunquanyufushangaiqingdefangfa。

　　出轨的男人：对婚姻联系的冷淡

　　chuguidenanrenduilaopohaiyouxingquma，chuguidenanrentongchangzhenduihunyinguanlianbiaoxianchuyizhonglengmofamadexintai。yidantaxuanzepanbianhunyinchengnuo，takenenghuisangshiduiqizidexingquyuzhichi。zheileilengdanhenyoukenengyinggaishineixinshenchudewentikuijiudeyanzang，huoshiduihunyinpibeiheyanedetixian。danshi，mouxieqingkuangxia，nanshengyeyoukenengzaichuguizhihouyiranbaochiduiqizidexingqu，danzheishijishangyaofuchujiankudenuliyuxiufugongzuo。

　　不再信任：对妻子的精神伤害

　　waiyuduiqizilaishuoshiyizhongfeichangdadepanbianhejingshenshanghai，tamenwangwangyehuishiquduilaogongderenkeheguishugan。hunyinlidexinlaidoushijiyuzhongshihechengxindejichuzhishang，yidanchuxianwaiyu，zheiyigenjishoudaopohuai，hunyinguanliankenengmianlinhenyanzhongdedongdangbuanyutiaozhan。chuguidenanrendelengmozhuixunshenmigankenenghuishiqizitihuidaowufaqudaihebuhuibeiyaoqiudekuchu，zheikenengzaochengtamenduiyuhunyinlianxidezaicicaiyihezhize。

　　心理需求：外遇的成就感

　　chuguidenanrenxunzhaohunhouchuguidaduoshiyinweizheixierenzaihunyinzhongnanyihuodemouleixinlixuqiudedadao。zheikenengjiushiyinweiqianquereqinghetanxiangan，huozhezaitamenkanlaizaihunyinzhongshoudaoxianzhihejushu。hunhouchuguiweitamentigongyigexindedecijichengjiugan，manzutamenneixindekewanghechongdong。danshi，zheileichengjiugantongchangshiyishide，bingwufamanzuchijiudexinlixuqiu。yiner，chuguidenanrenduiqizidexingqukenengqianyi，gengduodeguanzhuyuhunhouchuguimubiaobingfeiziyidehunyin。

　　修补婚姻：重建信任和传奇支付程序

　　suiranwaiyuduihunyinguanlianzaochenglejidadehuihuai，danhunyindehuifubushibukeneng。xiubuhunyinbixubicizhijiandenuliyuxiangyao，baohanchuguidenanrenduiqizidezaiciguanzhuyulejie。zheijiuxuyaotamenzaicigoujianqirentonghechuanqizhifuchengxu，bingtongguojijizhudongdejiaoliuhehunyinzhidaolaichulishiqing。chuguidenanrenbixuyishidaozijidebuzhengquebingqieyuanyiweicifuzhunuli，yucitongshiqiziyeyaojiyukuanrongdehaojihuiyuzhichi。jinyoutongguozheizhongqinfen，henyoukenengcaikeyizaichuguizhihoufujianhunyinguanlian，bingxiufubicizhijiandexingquyuzhichi。

　　结束语

　　chuguidenanrenduilaopohaiyouxingquma，chuguidenanrenduiqizidexingqutongchanghuizaoshouchugui、xinlixuqiuhehunyinxiubudengzhuduotiaojiandexianzhi。youdenanrenkenengduiqizidexingqubianruo，ergengduodeguanzhuhunhouchuguimubiao。danshi，haiyoujihuijingguonulihehuifulaifujianhunyinguanlian，zaicijiqibicizhijiandexingquyuzhichi。hunyinlidexinlai、lijieyuzhichishifujianhunyindezhongyaoqianti，jinyoubicigongtongfendou，caikenengzaichuguizhihouzhonghuoxingfuyuhemu。