经历过感情伤害的我不敢谈恋爱了

　　yanjiuchuguinanrendeneixinshenchu，daibiaozheyaojinruyigegaoshenmocedeyituan。chuguigerenxingweitongchangshejidaofanzadeqingganhexinlidongli，nanrenzaitiaoxuanbeipanairenshitongchangshibeihenduorenfabingyuanyinsuoposhi，huozheduobihunyinshenghuomaodun、dadaozishenneixindeyuwangzhuyaobiaoxian。danzheixieneixinshenchudefanzayumaodun，naizhiziwomishi，cushinanrenshenxianqingganwoxuanzhong，nulichangshijunhengduiyujiating、zerenyugerenxuqiudedanxin。zhangwochuguinanrendexinli，zhenduiweihufuqiguanxihetuidongqingganhemujuyoushifenzhongyaodeyiyi。

　　背叛的发病原因：追寻达到自身冲动

　　chuguigerenxingweizailianrenzhongjiandaozhilexinlaideliekaiyutongku，danbeipandexintaifabingyuanyinquewangwanglingrengandaoyihuo。chuguinanrenchangchanghuibeineixindeyuwangsuoposhi。hunyinlidemaodun、jiandankuzaodeshenghuo、qingganquebudadao，douchenglezaochengchuguidejijiqudongli。zheizhongchongdonggenjuchuguilaizhuixundadao，linshimibuneixinshenchudekumenyujiaolvqingxu。tamenzhuixunzheshenmigan、cijixingyureqing，qidaidedaoqingganlidedadaoheziworenke，qipanzaichuguideguochengdangzhongzaicizuohuizijicunyoudejuede。

　　心理上的茫然：心里繁杂与矛盾矛盾

　　chuguinanrenzaibeipanlingyibandeyucitongshi，qishineixintongchangchongchizhefanzahemaodun。tamenlejietamendexingweihuizaochengshanghaihebuliangyingxiang，danyoudidangbuzhuyouhuo。chuguinanrenhenyoukenenghuixianrudaodeyuqinggandejiaoliangzhong，xinlimeifadiaojie。tamentihuidaofuzuigan、zizekuijiu，dantongshiyenanyigeshexinlideyuwang。zheileineixinshenchudemangranyumaodun，shidetamenxianruyizhongnanyizibadechujing，chixuwangfanyubeipanyuhuihenzhongjian。

　　自我逃避：婚恋问题和自我完善

　　chuguinanrendebeipangerenxingweitongchangshiduihunyinlichuxianwentideduobi。tamenjiangmianlinhunyinlidegoutongbudaowei、qinmiguanxideshuyuan，huozherichangshenghuozhongdeyaliyujiaolvqingxu。chuguibianchengletamenfensanzhuyili、yiwangnantideyizhongfangshi。chuguinanrenyeyoukenengshiduizishenwanshandeyizhongkewanghetansuo。tamenxiwangyongyuqishuotarendeguanxilaifajuezijideyaoqiuyunengli，xunzhaozaishenmiganzhonghuodexinlingdechengzhangyudadao。

　　情感涡旋：自我迷失与家庭危机

　　chuguinanrenjingchangxianruyizhongqinggandewoxuan，tamenyizhizaixunzhaobenrenmanzuyucitongshi，wangwangbansuizhehendadefengxianhekunjing。chuguibudanduilingyibanzaochengweihai，yeduijiatingchengyuanguanxizaochengjidadeliekai。zaizheiyangyigeqinggandexuanwozhong，chuguinanrenhenyoukenengmanmanmishifangxiang，mituduihunyindezerenyufuwuchengnuo。yigejiatingdepingwenhexingfumanmanbenkui，jinerdaozhiaiqingyuqinqingdejudasunshi。

　　复建和成长：理解和沟通的意义

　　lejiechuguinanrendexinli，bujinyouliyushoushangairengengqianglumianduiyuquanyuxinlingdechuangshang，youweibenrenyuhunyindegaizaodailailehenyoukeneng。goutongyulijiebianchenglefujianguanliandeguanjiansuozai，bicibixuduiwaikaifang、tanrandimianduikunnan，yitongtanxunwentidebenzhi，bingtansuochulideluxian。duichuguinanreneryan，gaibianziworenkedequanguochengyeshifeichangzhongyaode。taxuyaoshencengcifansheng，zengqiangshiminggan，hejieshouzijidewenti，congzheidangzhongxiqujiaoxun，cujinyigerendechengzhangyubianhua。

　　结束语

　　chuguinanrendexinlishiyigepangencuojieqieduoyuanhuadenanti。beipangerenxingweishenhoubeifuzheshencengcidechongdong、maodunyumangran。lejiechuguinanrendexinli，genjuduiwentifenxihechuli，youliyucujinyigerendechengzhanghehunyindehuifu。yucitongshi，zhongjianxinrenhehunyinguanxiyeyaolingyibandegongtongfendouhebaorong。bulunshizuoweishoushangyifanghuoshichuguideyifang，tansuoyuxuexizenyangchulizheileifanzaxinlijiankangwenti，quanshiwanchengneixinhemuhexingfudeguanjianyinsu。