情感咨询：男友为什么对我态度冷淡？

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　　简述: 挣脱于接与不接中间

　　不再信任与迟疑

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　　再次考虑与面对实情

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　　内心挣扎与情感矛盾

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　　挑选与未来的不确定性

　　buguanwoxuanzelejiehuobujie，jianglaidouhuibiandemomohuhu。jiedianhua，wobudebuzhenzhenzhengzhengwangjiguoqudetongku，zaicimianduiwomenbicinanti，binghetagongtongfendouzhongjianxinren。huijuejieting，yexunengjizijiyiduanshijianlizhi，queyehenyoukenengbaohanzhongshen。erzhedexuanze，fangfodouyinzangzhejiaolvhebuming。

　　决定的时时刻刻和成长教育

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　　接与不接，我们的命运我来确定

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