相亲秘笈你知道吗

 dangjinshidaigaosufazhan，renmenlianaideshijianyeyuelaiyueshao，dalingnannvdehunyinwentiyijingchengweifumumenxinzhongdeyoulv，suoyigedifenfenjieqilexiangqinhuatihehuodong，ru：gongyuanxiangqinjiao。dianshitaiyexiangyingtuichuleduodangxiangqinjiemu，ru：zhongguoshixiangqin、 xiangqin3 dengjiemu。xiangqinhuatiyichengweidangjinderemenhuati，neimeruhezaixiangqinzhongchuqizhishengni，niyongyounidexiangqinmijilema？

 xiangqinzaoyijingchengweiyuelaiyuepubiandexianxiang，danshiqizhonghaishihuiyouhenduoyoulv。biru，nvhaizichangchangdanxinxiangqinduixiangshifouhuishigehaonanren，ruguobushi，neimezuihoushoushangdewangwangshinvhaizi　xiangqinzenyangkanqingnan/nvhaiderenpin?duiyudabufenrenlaishuo，xiangqindeshihouzuikanzhongdehaishiduifangderenpin，bijingshiyaojinhouyiqihaohaoguorizide，kenengwaixingfangmianzhiyaokandeguoquyibandounengjieshou。eryaotongguoduanduandexiangqinlailejieduifangrenpinhaobuhao，haishixuyaojiqiaode。

一、相亲怎么看出对方人品

相亲队伍中，往往有一些人品差的混在其中，除了渣男外，女孩子也会有部分人品差的。这就教一些男孩在相亲中怎么看出女孩人品吧!

1、guoyuzaihuzijidexingxiang

 suiranshinvhaidouaimei，danruguozhengtianjiuxiangzhezenyangpiaoliang，zheiyangdenvrensuiranbusuantaihuai，danshizuyikanchutahenzisi，bieshewangtahuiyuanyiweinixishengziji。

2、butaigujinideganshou

 zheikeyicongxiangqinshi，tahenideliaotiantaidulaikan，ruguoshizhenxinshiyixiangqindegaosuzhinvhai，shihuizunzhongduifangnanfang，chufeinidexingweirangtagandaoyanfan。ren。

3、顾忌自己的利益

 xiangqinzhihoudeyuehuizhongyekeyikanchunvhairenpindehaohuai，birutaigujizijideliyi，anpaiyuehuishijiandoudekantadericheng，rangnituoxieyuta，huozhetianhenwanlebuguanniduoleiduobufangbiandouyaonisongtahuijiadengdeng，zheiyikaishijiuzheimerenxing，kexiangerzhiyihounimenzaiyiqihuiyouduolei。

4、目的性比较强

 biruzainimenxiangqinguochengzhong，zhaonichulaiguangjiejiushirangnibangtamaishenmedongxi，huozhedongbudongjiuzhaonibangmang，jiejuewenti，zongshituoniganzheigannei，neitabushibanidangzuoxihuandexiangqinduixiang ，nikenengzhishitayonglaishihuandegongju

二、相亲秘笈总准则：

 shoushi、chuanzhehuiyingxiangdiyiyinxiang，xijiejuedingchengbai；yongyanyu、tantulaishidangzhanxianzijizuiyouxiudefangmian；zaiyidingchengdushang“zhuang”，danshibuyaorangduifangyane；zaitanjimouxiehuatishi，yinggaiqianxu，birupiqi、zuojiawudeng，zheiyangshuohuirangduifangzuochuzuidixiandasuan。

1、相亲前的准备

 bulunshixiangqinduixiangshishousheijieshao，nizhishaoduiduifangyouzuiqimadelejie：shengao、nianling、jiating、hunyinjingli、gongzuo、zhuzhideng。yekeyikanyixiexiangqinhuatidejiemutiqianlejiexiangqinhuiwendewenti，ruxiangqin3、feichengwuraodeng。

2、谈话技巧

 zaixiangqinguochengzhong，90%yishangshinanfangzhanjuhuatizhudao，neimejianyinanfangshixianjingxinzhunbeijigeyoumoxiaohua，yongyidiaojieqifen。zaichujibijiaosimidehuatishi，yidingyaozhuyiyuqidehuanheheshikeerzhi。

3、xiangqinqijianfeiyongwenti

 zuoweiershiyishijideshenshinanren，wogerenjuedehaishinanfangyigerenfu。ruguonidetiaojianbusuantaihao，nikeyixuanzexiaofeidiyidiandedifang，ruguonvfangtiaojianhenichabuduode，duobanbuhuixianqi，gengduodeshijuedenishizai，huiguorizi。dangran，yebupaichuyouxienvhaizijijiajingbusuanhao，renyeyibanerguofenzhuiqiuwuzhi。