相亲3次还是失败？相亲秘笈告诉你如何成功

 youxierenxiangqin3cihaishishibai，jianjianduixiangqinshiqinglexinxin。qishixiangqinxuyaozhangwohenduojiqiao，birunvshengxiangqinchuandibangfanbuxie，zhangwonannvyuehuigonglvedeng。xiamianweidajiajieshaoxiangqinmiji，xiwangbangzhudajiaxiangqinchenggong。

一、相亲失败原因

 ruguonixiangqin3ciyishangdoushishibai，neimejiuyaohaohaozongjieshibaideyuanyinle。yibanlaishuo，nvhaizixiangqin3ciyishanghaishishibai，buwaihuyixiazheijigeyuanyin：

1、热情过头

 bukefouren，henduodeshengnvyinweihenjiaxinqiecaixuanzexiangqin。danshigaojiegeweishengnv，zaizhejiyebuyaobahenjiaxiezailianshang，zhibenzhutibiaomingmude，huozheguoduyinqinxiangduifangshihao，doushihenshadexingwei。nidetaiguoreqinghuihepaoduifang，rangneigeduifangjuedenishiyigekongbudejiehunkuang。

2、太拘谨放不开

 heshangmiandeqingkuangxiangfan，haiyouyileishengnvshitaijujinfangbukai，wanquanbudongderuhezhanshizijideyoudian。zhenggeyuehuidoushijixiexingdewenda，haowuquweikeyan，zheizhongyayideqifenrangduifangzhixiangjinzaodejieshuyuehui。jujinshixiangqinyuehuidetouhaoshashou，yaozhenximeiyicixiangqindejihui。

3、习惯先入为主

 xianruweizhu，duixiangqinduixiangguozaodewangxiajielunkebushishenmehaoxiguan。buyaotaikanzhongdiyiyinxiang，buyaoyinweidiyiyandebujiaganjuejiufoudingzhengciyuehui。xianzaixiajielunweishiguozao，yaojiduifanghezijiyigeshenrulejiebicidejihui。

xiangqinzongshishibaibuyaohuixin，jiexialaikanyikanhuazhenxiaobianweinitigongdexiangqinmiji，yidingnenggouyudaoshuyunidelingyibande！

二、男女约会攻略

nannvxiangqinyidingyaozhidaoyixieyuehuigonglve，zheishixiangqindechangshi。neimenvshengzaixiangqinyuehuiqijianyaozenmezuoni？

 1、jianyichuandenvrenweiyidian，shiqunzhuanghuomaoyi，linanrenxinmuzhonglixiangdenvrengengjinyidianer。yuanzeyiganjing、kanqilaishufuweizhu，buzhangyangdenuanse，shejishangyangqiyixie。yekeyishidangpendianxiangshui，zhiyaodandandejiuhao，jirenliuxiayuyuedeyinxiang。

 2、chuandibangfanbuxie，weishenmejianyinvshengxiangqindeshihouchuandibangfanbuxieni？yinweigaogenxiexiandetaigaolengle，erpingdixiexiandegengyouqinheli，erqienenggoujiqinanxingdebaohuyu。

 3、zaizhaohuatishi，shiyixiebijiaoshuxideyixieqingsongdehuati，birutantandianying、shuji、wangzhandengdeng，nenglejieguozhengdangshixiadezuopin，bingqieyouzijidejianjie。ruguoshiyoufumupeitongqianlaishenmejugongaweixiaoa，nengyouduolimaojiuyouduolimao，tongshihaiyaodaiyouganqingdeshuo：“shushuhao！ayihao！”dengketaohua。

 4、xiangqinyuehuigonglvehenzhongyaodeyidianshididiandexuanze。didianjianyixuanzezaiyixiebijiaoshiheyuehuidekafeiting，zhunbeiyilianggerubangbangtang、xiaowanjuzhileidexiaoliwu，wanyiduifangxiaozhizixiaowaishengshenmedeyelaicourenao，yehaoyingfu。xihuanxiaohaizidenvshengzainanrenyanzhongyongyuanshikeaide。

 5、haiyouzaibaobaolijidebeishangyixiebuzhuangyongpin，yaoshichuanqunziqiejidaishanghoubeidesiwa，mingpian（meiyoumingpiandaizhibidaiti，yaozhidaoyaoduifangnachushoujilaishurunidedianhuahemsnqishishibutailimaodebiaoxian）。