七种心疼的感觉，只有异地恋才懂的心痛的滋味

 cengjingyishouge《dengnidengdaowoxintong》huobiandajiangnanbei，xintongdeganjueshicunzaide。qianjitianyiweixiongdidadianhuajiwosushuoyididetongku，genwoshuoyidilianxintongdeziweibuhaoshou，qishiwoyedagaidong，yidiliandetongkuwufeijiushiyixiaqizhongxintongma。

一、长时间不见面，打电话都没有共同话题

 yinweigongzuojinzhang，duoshuyidilianqinglvjigeyuebujianmiandoushuyuzhengchang。gangkaishi，meitianhuitonggedianhua，guanxinduifangguodezenmeyang，chishenmele，leibulei，zaiganma?keshishijianjiule，zheixiewenhoubiandepingdanwuwei，shenzhiganjueshizaimeihuazhaohua。bujinduifanghuidadehenfuyan，jiulianzijidouganjuezongwenzheixiehuatihenshahentianzhen。cengjingzuishuxideren，xianzaiyidiandiantunse，liangongtonghuatidouzhaobudao，buzhidaoshigaifangshouhaishigaijixu。

二、网购小礼物，成了彼此最真实的浪漫

 yidilianhenku，qianbudaoduifangshou，wenbudaoduifangdechun，nalihaiyoushenmelangmankeyan。chulewangliaohedianhualiaotian，zheifenlianqingshizaishizhaobudao“luojiaodian”，bierendeqixikeyipeizheduifangchifanguangjiekandianying，eryidilianqinglvdeqixizhinengbeiwuxiandekongxuganyangai，danyuanzaimougejierili，nikeyishoudaoduifangdekuaidi，yenengganshouyiciweiruoqueyouzhenshidelangman。yidilianderenqishihenkewangjianmian，danjiuxiangdengnidengdaowoxintongneiyang，xianshidejuliqueshidapolexinzhongzuihouyidianhuanxiang。

三、看不到对方的世界有多大，你在原地等待像个傻瓜

 yidiliandeqinglvmendui“dengdai”yicisuanshiyouaiyouhen，aizainikeyiyongdengdaidefangshihuanlaiyifenmeihaodehunyin，henzaiqianfangdeluyouduozhang，xiwangyouduomiaomangniyigaikanbuqing。nizainan，tazaibei，duifangdeshijieshishenmeyangzi，tazaineiliyoumeiyouyudaogengheshideren，nizaitaxinlijiujingzhanjuzhezenyangdeweizhi，shuoshizaidenihenmolingliangke，youshihouxiangxiang，zaiyidiliandeguochengzhong，fuchugengduodeyifang，queshixianggeshagua，erqiexintongdeganjueyebuhaoshouba。

四、别人都在谈婚论嫁，而你们毫无进展

 ruguobaqitalianaidejinzhansudubizuohuojian，neiyidilianjiushuyuwoniu。doudaolegaijianjianshuangfangfumudenianlingle，shenbiandepengyoumengaiququgaijiayejiale，zhiyounimenhaichuzaimoheqi，yiyanbuhejiuyaonaofenshou，sihaomeiyouanquangankeyan。xinlitouqueshihenzheji，keshiduiciniyouwunengweili，yidilianxintongdeziweitixiandelinlijinzhi。

五、你并不是很期待周末

 yidaozhoumo，nijiuhuifaxianzijihenkelian。yinweiniyoudabadeshijian，queyoubuzhidaozuoshenme，xiangkandianyingqueshaogerenpei，xiangyaoguangguangjieyouyuebudaoren，dadianhuajiguimi，duifangyinweiyaopeinanyouerweiwanjujueni。youshihouxiangxiang，haishirangzijimangliuyidianhao，zhishaozheiyangjiubuhuigandaogudu。

六、遇到比ta更适合的人，却只能看着机会溜走

 suiranhenduoshihouniganshoubudaozijizailianai，dannishizhongjianchiweiaifuze，jinguantalinihenyuan，dannishizhongzilvxianggeyihunrenshineiyanghuozhe。danshendeyixingpengyouwanshangyueniqukge，nixiaozheshuowanshangheduixiangyouyue，yudaorangzijixindongderen，niyeshizhongmaibuchuneiyibu，jinguanniquedingzheigerenyaobitayouxiu，bitagengshihelianai，dannihaishijianchidengzheyidideta，nizongshizheiyangquanziji：“doudengleneimejiule，buchazheiyishibanhuile。”

七、你感觉同时爱着两个人，一个是ta，另一个是你想象的ta

 qinglvyidi，nanmianyouyifangzongaihuanxiang，huanxiangtaweixiaodeyangzi，huanxiangtaqinnietoudeyangzi，huanxiangtadounikaixindeyangzi。shijianjiule，nizaixinlijiuhuipingkongniezaoyigeta，wulunshixinggehaishimouxiejudongdouhexianshidetacunzaichuru，shenzhiyaobixianshidetahaojishibei，qishinixinliyehenqingchu，dannirenyouzijizheiyangquzuo，yinweinizhishixiangrangkanqilaimeineimejimohegudu，xinlikongkongdeweizhizongdeyoudongxitianmanba?

 yidisuiranhenxinku，henjianao。danyuanzhangxiangxin，kujinganhuilai，nimenbicixiangshou，yongzhangqimanredezhuangtaijianlidexinrengan，jichushifeichanglaogude。suoyi，yuanzhangfengquanmeiyiweiyidilianzhongdeni，budaowanbudeyi，haibuyaoqingyishuofenshou，bijingnicengjingkukudenuli，sheidoubuxiwangtabeilangfei。yaojianxin，nimendoucunzaiduifangdexinwoli，zhishishihouweidao，zhishijulitaiyuan，xianzaidiaodemeiyidilei，douhuihuanlaijianglaizuimeizuichunzhendexiao。