安全感测试：你安全感指数有多少

 nvshengdouxiangtanyichangyouanquangandeai，kepianpiannvshengyoushibijiaoquefaanquangande，neimezenmexiaochuaiqingdebuanquangan？zaizhe，meigerenneixindouhuiyouanquangandengji，xiamiantongguoanquanganceshilaijiexiaozijideanquangandengji。

一、安全感测试题

1、ruguonibeianpaiquxialiedifangkaocha，nihuixuanzequ？

南极冰川→跳到2

罗布泊沙漠→跳到3

yamaxunredaiyulin→tiaodao4

2、diyiciyuehui，nijuedexiamiannagedidianhuishinidexingyunyuehuidianni？

购物中心→跳到6

游乐场→跳到5

水族馆→跳到4

3、zaoshangtedizaoqiweilingyibanzuozaodian，danshitahaishixiangshui，nigaizenmeban？

zijixianchi，duifangneifenliuzhe→tiaodao2

situoyingzhuaibatanongqilai→tiaodao4

zuishangmeishuoshenme，danshixinlijuedebutongkuai→tiaodao5

4、nimaileyigelansedetoumingyanjinghe，nihuixuanzeyongzenyangdeyanjingbulaidapeini？

蓝色→跳到6

紫色→跳到8

纯白→跳到7

5、zaifeijichangbuxiaoxinnacuolebierendexingli，nigaizenmeban？

quguangbozhanxunzhaoshizhu→tiaodao4

将错就错→跳到7

zhanzaiyuandidengshizhu→tiaodao6

6、pangtuodayuzhongyouyigenanzidaidaidizhanzhe，nijuedetaweishenmezheimezuoni？

chuncuijiushixianglinyueryi→tiaodao7

shilianlexinqingyumen→tiaodao8

zaiyuzhongkenqiunvpengyouyuanliang→tiaodao9

7、banlifaqiyicimujuanhuodong，danpianpiannimeiqianle，nigaizenmeban？

xiangqitarenxianjiezhe→tiaodao9

zhaojiekoutaobikai→tiaodao8

jieshizijishenshangmeiqian→tiaodao10

8、nimishizaitonghuasenlinli，zheishiqianfangturanchuxianyigeshandong，nirenweidongneishizenyangdeqingxing？

limianzhuzhesenlinxianzi→tiaodao9

chuanshuozhongdehaidaobaozangzangzailimian→tiaodao11

huazheshenmibihuadeyuanshishandong→tiaodao10

9、zainiyanqianchuxianleyipianliaokuojingse，pingzhijuenirenweineishishenmeni？

beifeiqidegucheng→tiaodao11

tangmanbeiqiaodejinsehaitan→tiaodao12

yitiaokuankuodedadao→tiaodao13

10、nijinijiadeaiquanmaileyigeliwu，nijuedexiamiannageshizuiheshide？

yingyangfengfudegutou→tiaodao11

fenhongsesichouhudiejie→tiaodao13

shushimianruandexiaozhentou→tiaodao14

11、yixianazhongqingkuangzuirongyirangniweizhiaoye？

wanyouxitaiguorumile→tiaodao12

laoshibuzhidezhongyaogongkemeiyouwancheng→tiaodao13

dengdailianrendedianhua→tiaodao14

12、qixijielailinle，nihuisongshenmeliwujixinaiderenni？

香包→跳到14

玫瑰→跳到15

红线→跳到13

13、yigenvshengbanyehuijia，yidakaifangmenshitaturanshishengjianjiao，nijuedeshiweishenmeni？

jialilailexiaotou→tiaodao15

kandaotadenanpengyougenbiedenvshengzaiyiqi→tiaodao16

yiqunhaoyoujitazhizaoleshengrijingxi→tiaodao17

14、jiarunishoushangyouyigexigua，nihuijiangtazenmechini？

jiangtazhachengguozhi→tiaodao16

zuochengshuiguoshala→tiaodao15

zuochengbingdongxiguashuiguopinpan→tiaodao17

15、xiamiansanweixiaojiezhong，youyiweijianghuishiniweilaidezhuguan，nixiwangshinawei？

duanfa，kanqilaijingshendousoudexiaojie→tiaodao18

juanfa，kanqilaishishanghuopodexiaojie→tiaodao16

zhifa，kanqilaiwenjingduanzhuangdexiaojie→tiaodao17

16、duiyunidezhijia，nishizenyangdalideni？

xihuanliuhenzhang，ouerxiujianyixia→tiaodao17

dingqixiujian，tushangtoumingzhijiayou→tiaodaob

wanquanbuliu，danxiujiandegangganghao→tiaodaoa

17、zaimeishijiekandaolesanjialamiandian，nihuixuanzejinrunajia？

chaojihaochideyoumingdianmian，danshidianpubijiaozang→tiaodaod

zhuanghuanghaohua、ganjing、piaoliangdeniuroumiandian→tiaodaoc

ladeguoyindechuantongniuroumianguan→tiaodao18

18、yiweiheniguanxiyibandenvshengmailejianxinyifulaixiangnixuanyao，nihuizenmezuo？

zhijiekuazanyifuhaokan，jiexialaijiuwenpaizihejiaqian→tiaodaod

shuojijugongweihua，ranhouzaixinlitoutoudigujijiage→tiaodaoa

zhuangzuomeikanjian，suibianfuyanleshi→tiaodaoe

二、安全感测试答案解析

1、易碎玻璃型 安全感欠缺等级：★★★★★

 duinilaishuo，anquanganyizhishimengxiangzhongzuirouruandeyaolan，henrongyiyinweiduitarenhuozijiquefaxinxinerchanshengbuanquangan，erqie，nitianxingjiaorongyixiangxinbieren，rongyishoupian，yidanshoupianlejiuhuichanshengduisheidoubuxinrendexianxiang，bingqiexinzhongshangkounanyuhe，kaishiduitarentifang。

2、多虑不安型 安全感欠缺等级：★★★

 nishigeshanyuguanchazhouzaoshiwuderen，youzhehenqiangdedongchalihesikaonengli，youyunisikaodeshiqingtaiduo，nihuiduoyifenxiantianxiayoueryoudebuanquangan，dangsuoshifanshiyingraoshanglai，nidebuanquanganhenrongyiyanbianchengjiduandejiaolv。

3、理智冷静型 安全感欠缺等级：★★

 lixinglengjing，moulveshizu，zixinleguan，zheishiniderengetezhi。duinilaishuo，buanquanganwangwanglaiziyiliaozhiwaidezhuangkuang，zixindeniduisuoyoushiqingdejiezoujibudiaodounengzhangkong，danshiniwangwangjiushizaizuiyouzixindedifangzaigentou，yidandangnibawobuzhujumiandeshihoujiuhuikaishixinhuangqiduan，manmanbiandejiaolv。

4、天真乐观型 安全感欠缺等级：★

 youyuxiantiandeleguanjizhuangmandianzidenaodai，nitongchangduizhouzaoshiwudezhangkongdujiyucenenglixiangdanggao。danchunertianzhendenihenshaoguoduokaolvfuzadeshiqing，youyifen“chuandaoqiaotouziranzhi”dehuoda，nibuhuiqirenyoutian、huadiweilao，nidezongzhijiushiruherangzijiguodegengkuaile，erbushizixunfannao。

5、脆弱忐忑型 安全感欠缺等级：★★★★

 nishigebijiaodianxingdequefaanquanganderenwu，zaimoshengdehuanjingxia，nihuixiangbianleyigerenside，qingxucuiruojinzhang，huayuyehuibianshao，zhidaoshuxilehuanjing，xinlidetantebuancaihuijianjianxiaochu。

三、怎么消除爱情中的不安全感

1、自信

 xiangtanyichangyouanquangandeai，shouxianyaozixin。taxuanzenizuonvpengyou，yijingshiyidingchengduderenke，nishenshangyoutamiliandedifang。ruguonizixin，baochizhuzheigedian，rihouhainengkuoda，neitadangranhuilibukaini。danshidangnifumiansixiangheqingxuwangwaimao，nishibushiandanxialaile？zheiyangdenihaiyouxiyinlima？woruguobupeidehua，tazenmehuixuanzewo？

2、心态

 lianaishilaifenxiangnidexingfukuaile，erbushizhengjiu。kesidinglvshuo，meigerenbuguanxianzaideduixiangshishei，zuihoudouhuigentaxiangpipeiderenzaiyiqi。

换句话，是你的就是你的。如果必须靠你牢牢抓住，他才留下，那他就不属于你。如果能跟他长久稳定，那很好。如果不幸，那爱咋咋地，我有能力遇见更好的人。