爱情里，付出的爱越多伤害越大吗

 aiqingxuyaoshuangfangfuchu，shenghuozhongyouxierenhuibaoyuanzijizaiaiqinglifuchutaiduo，fuchudeaiyueduofanerjuedeyuebuxingfu。neimezaiaiqinglifuchuxintaizenyangkandaicaishizuiheshide？

一、爱情里付出的爱越多伤害越大吗

 zaiaiqingzhong，nifuchuyueduo，zhengmingnideaiyueshen，suiranfuchuhehuibaobuyidingchengzhengbi。raner，fuchushimeihaode，zheishinizaixuanxiaofenraoderenjianchenxiaxinlaijingjinglingting，zhongshiyuzijideganqing，bingzunxunxinsuoxiangwangdefangxiang。nifuchudeai，shijizijiyizhongqianchengjiandingdeliliang，jiejinsuonengweizijizhengquyifenxingfudequanli，bingrangnideshijiesamanjinzibannuannuandeyangguang。nimingbailefuchubianshilingyizhongsuode，shiyizhongxinlingshangdefuzu，shiyizhongganqingshangdeshenghua。

 ruguonizhendeaizhe，zhixiangjineigezuiaiderenyigewennuandegangwan，yidinghuixinganqingyuandiqujiyu。ruguonirenweizaiaiqinglifuchuyueduo，shanghaiyueda，zheizhinengshuomingnishiyigehaipafuchulinyufuchuderen。nizisidizhixiangpingjiciqingsongqieyidejiyu，jiunengguaipiandaoduifangdezhongqing。ruguonidanxinzijidefuchudebudaohuibao，neimeshuomingnibingbushineimeai，nizhibuguoshixiangyongyiwuhuanyiwu，zheishijiaoyi。aishizifade，wufayongduidenglaijiaohuan。

 genjugangganyuanli，yaoxiangzaiaiqingdeqiaoqiaobanshangbaochipingheng，nimenzuoyonglikeyiyiyangda，dandaozhouxinjuliyebixuxiangdeng，huozheyifangdezuoyonglidadandaozhouxinjuliduan，yifangdezuoyonglixiaodandaozhouxindejulizhang。yaozhangwozheigejiqiaobixushishuangfangbuduanfanfuchangshicainengqiulaishuipingxian。ruguonijiangduifangpengdaogaokong，yaoshiduifangyaolikai，bixuconggaokongzhongtiaoxialai。

二、爱情里的付出心态怎么看待

 zaihenduorenyanli，buqiuhuibaodefuchushizhenaidebiaozhi。yeyouhenduorenhuizaiaiqingguanxizhongjijiaobicisheifuchugengduo，sheisuoqugengduo。zaiaiqingguanxizhong， ruhefuchuhesuoqucaiduizishenheguanxifazhanyouli， zheishiaiqingguanxishuangfanghexintaixuejiadouxiangzhidaodewenti。

其实，从社会交换理论的角度来看， 爱情关系中双方的互动是持续进行的彼此奖赏的活动， 在这一过程中， 个体付出代价， 得到回报。没有这样的彼此交换， 爱情关系就不会存在。这种交换也可以被称为爱情交换。