什么叫世故圆滑 变得世故是对是错

 xianshishenghuozhongdongde shiguyuanhua derenzaizhichangyijishenghuozhonghuodedoubijiaoshunfengshunshui，yinweitamendongderenqingshigu，keshizheiyangdexinggeyerongyibeibierentaoyan，neimebiandeshigushiduishicuo?

一、什么叫世故圆滑

shiguyuanhua，shishuorennenggouhenhaodichulishehuiguanxi、shunfengshiduo、yeyoujiaohuadeyisi。

 shigu，shizhishisurenqingxiguan，dairenchushiyuanrunzhoudao;yifanzhishijianyiqiedeshiwu。ciyuchuzisanguoshiqiweiguojikangde 《yushanjuyuanjuejiaoshu》zhong“jiwuchanqixin，shigufanqilv。”、《liezi·yangzhu》：“ weiduanmushuzhe，zigongzhishiye。jieqixianzi，jialeiwanjin。buzhishigu，fangyisuohao。”。

 yuanhuaxingrongweirenchushigefangmiandouzuodehenzhoudao，yezhishengyinyuanrunliuli;qutifeimanhualiu 。mafengxirong 《lvliangyingxiongchuan》diliuerhuidengjunyouxiangguanjizai。

 yuanhua，shiyizhongchushizhexue，suibugaoshen，quebingfeirenrenjiekewuqijingyi，deqiyaoling。yinweichushiyuanhua，budanxuyaoyueliyuzhihui，erqieyaoyoubuwenshifeizhixin，shanhexinizhiji。wuzetiandazhouchaozaixiangsuweidao，yinchushiyuanhuaerbode“molengshou”deyahao，tayouyijumingyan，shenruqianchudidaochuleqizhongaomiao：“chushibuyujueduanmingbai，ruoyoucuowu，biyijiuqian。danmolengyichiliangduankeyi。”

 chushiyuanhuazhe，laoshaojieyou，youxierendaolaorenghaobianshifei，jieruchou，bugaigengzhidebingxing。youderensuirannianqing，chushiquejingminglaolian，bamianlinglong，guanghuarushuijingzhu、jianshenqiu。bianbieyigerenshifouyuanhua，yinggaiguanchaqiyanxing，erbunengzhikannianling。

二、变得世故是对是错?

 biandeshigujiujingshiduishicuo，woxianghenduorendouyousikaoguozheigewenti。chushiyuanhuashiguderentongxiaorenqingshigu，zaiyixiejiangrenqingguanxidechanghewangwangbijiaodeli，keshiruguotaiguo，neimejiurongyibianchengjianhuashigu，zhizhiliuxupaima。

luoman·luolanshuo：“shishangzhiyouyizhongyingxiongzhuyi，jiushizairenqingshenghuozhenxiangzhihouyiranreaishenghuo。”

 zhenzhengdetidechengshu，bushishigu，bushiyuanhua，bushijingshoucuozhezhihoudegouqie。chengshushineixinzhenzhengbiandekuanhou，erdetidechengshushi：zhishiguerbushigu，liyuanhuaerliutianzhen。

zhishigubudaibiaotaohao，budaibiaobamianlinglong，gengduodeshizunzhong，zunzhongduifangdetongshi，gengzunzhongziji。

shenghuoyitongwenwo，woquebaozhiyige，zheicaishidetidechengshu。

zhishiguerbushigu，chujianghueryuanjianghu。

《jinshu·ruanjichuan》zhongjizai，zhulinqixianzhiyideruanjisuiweijugaoguan，minglizhishigu，danshengxingsatuo，bushoujushu。

 tayujianneixiefuyongfengya，yanshoulisuzhibei，conglaibuhuizhengyanxiangkan，zhishijiandandexieyanyipie，zheijiushisuoweide“baiyan”。

zhiyouyujiantadezhiyin，caihuigaoxingditaiqitou，yongzhengyanqukanren，suowei“jianqingyan”。

 ruanjimuqinbinggu，jikangdegegejixiqianlaidiaoyan，ruanjifanzhebaiyan，zhishijixibukuaierqu;jikangzhidaohou，youyulejieruanjidexingqing，jiugancuitizhejiutanbaozheqin，qianqukanwangta，ruanjiguoranbiandehengaoxing。

zhishiguerbushigu，mingshisuerbushoushisujinran。xiaoyinyinyushan，dayinyinyushi。

《caigentan》zhongyoujuhua：“shilifenhua，bujinzheweijie，jinzhierburanzheyoujie。”

 zaizheigefenzadeshehui，womenyaoshengcun，jiubixuyaoheren、heshidajiaodao，zheigeguochengzhong，bawohaochidudetongshiyeyaobaoliuzhenshideziwo，yejiushisuoweidezhishigu，erbushigu。

zheibushiqingeryijuzuodaode，ershizouguoqianshanwanshuiquganwuhexiuliandejieguo。

zhouguopingzai《linghunzhinengduxing》lishuo：

 xuduorensuoweidechengshu，buguoshibeixisumoqulelengjiao，biandeshiguershijile。neibushichengshu，ershijingshendezaoshuaihegexingdexiaowang。zhenzhengdechengshu，yingdangshidutegexingdexingcheng，zhenshiziwodefaxian，jingshenshangdejieguohefengshou。

 ruguonidexinnenggourongnawuxiandejingyan，suiranbaojingshigu，queyounengweichidanchun，cainengfaxianzhenshideziwo，huodejingshenshangdejieguohefengshou。

三、世故圆滑相关名言

 luxun： renshijianzhenshinanchudedifang，shuoyigeren“butongshigu”，guranbushihaohua，danshuota“shenyushigu”yebushihaohua。

 baerzhake： shijieshangmeiyouyuanze，zhiyoushigu，meiyoufalv，zhiyoushishi，gaomingderentongshigugenshishidachengyipian，renyizhipei。

qiesitefeier： yigebuanshigu、banshiyoutiaoliderendehuangtangniantoujiushi：yaneneixielaoyushiguderendenaixin。

 peigen： youxuduohenshiguhenhuichuaimorendepiqixinggederen，quebingbushizhenzhengyouxuewenderen。zheizhongrensuoshanzhangdeshiyinmouerbushiyanjiu。

yuanhuayourenshuoshishigu，wosuanbushangyuanhuade，quexinshang。shidangdeyuanhua,mianquhenduomafan，bushigan。hechangbushizhongtitieni

 nirenweiyigerenyuanhuahuishuohua，huizhuazhujihuizhuangkelian，huibarenheyoulidedoudangchengqizi。niyiweizheishicaihuazheishicongming。keduibierenlaishuo，zheibuyidingshiyoudian。zainiyanlikeaide，zaibierenbuyidingkeai。buyaoyinidezhunzeweizhunze。nibushilaotianye。bieyiweiyouqianjiushiyiqie。

yexuyuanhua，danbingbushigu;yexuxurong，danbingfeiquanwudixian。 ----《huanlesong》