恋爱中女生总是胡思乱想怎么办？

 lianaizhongdenvshengzongaihusiluanxiang，yudaoyixiexiaowentijiuhuibashiqingxiangdehenyanzhong，naodailibagushidouyanxiyibianle。danshinvshengzhengtianhusiluanxiangbuliyuaiqingdefazhan，neime zongshihusiluanxiang shishenmebingni，ruhekefuzijizheiyangdexingweini？

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一、为什么女生总会胡思乱想？

 husiluanxiangdexintaigenyuanzaiyujiaolv。jiaolvshiyouyuyigerenyuqiubumanerxingcheng。youyuyanzhongdeyuqiubuman，daozhiyigerentineidejiaolvyinweinanyizhaodaoxuanxiedeguandaoerjijuguoduo，fanyingzaisiweishangjiushisuoweidehusiluanxiangle。

1、内心敏感。  nvrenshiganxingdongwu，tamendeneixinshifeichangmingande，youyuminganjiurongyishoudaowaijiedeganrao，wangwanghuishoudaoshanghai。nvrenaizuoshijishangyeshiqinggancuiruodebiaoxian，chuxianleyidianxiaoshiqing，tamenjiunenggouganshoudao，bingqiezaizijidexiangxiangxiafangda，rongyixiaotidazuo。

2、自我保护意识。  nvrenaizuo，qishishiyizhongziwobaohudexingwei。doushuonvrenzaijiehunzhiqianshigongzhu，zaishenghaizideshihoushihuanghou，erzhihounvrenjiubianchenglebaomu。rangwomenshixiang，ruguozaireliandeshihou，yigenanrendoubunenggourongrenziji，chongaiziji，neimehunhoudeshenghuonenghaoguoma？、

3、考验对方。  nvrenaizuo，tebieshilianaizhongdenvrenzuo，shijishangyizhongsajiao，shuaxiaopiqi，genbenyongyishikaoyanzijidenanren。zuoweinvrenyouyoushihoujiushibujianglile，nihuizenmeduiwo？ruguoniyexianggehaiziyiyang，gennvrenduizhefapiqi，neizhinengshuonizainvrendekaoyanzhongshibaile。dangnvrenzaizuodeshihou，yexuzhishizaikaochananrendepiqiyuxiuyang，jianyanduifangshifouzhenxinaiziji。

4、生理波动。  nvrenzhisuoyirongyiqingxuhua，huizuo，shiyinweiyoushihouhuishoudaotineijisudeyingxiang。nvrendeshengliyunanrenshibutongde，meigeyuedouyoulijia，ruguodiaoyangbudang，neifenmishidiao，shentixuruo，dikanglicha。zheigeshihou，yexulianggerenzhijianbingmeiyoumaodun，danyouyushenglishangbeijihuole，nvrenzongshixiangfafapiqi，zijidenanrenziranjiudechengshouzheigetongkule。

lianaizhongnvshengzongshihusiluanxiangzenmeban？

二、女朋友爱胡思乱想怎么办？

1、检查自己的行为：  qishibingbushisuoyoudenvhaizidoushihunao，taweishenmehuihusiluanxiang，hendayibufenyuanyinshinizijidexingweibuzugou“jiandian”rangtayouleyixin，nvhaizizongshixihuanbashiqingxiangdefuzayixie，suoyikankanzijinalizuodebuduiba。

2、减少和异性不必要的联系：  youdeshihou，yinweigongzuo，huozheqitapengyouyaobangmangadengdengzhileibudebulianxiyixingdeshihou，keyiouerlianxiyixia，meishenmeshiqing，jiujinliangjianshaoheyixingdelianxiba，lianxideshihouyeyaozhuyijianghuadeshuociheyuqie。

3、有足够的时间来陪伴她：  husiluanxiangzheigeqingkuang，zaijingchangjianmian，meitiannianzaiyiqideqinglvdangzhongshihenshaofashengde，ruguoyiduiqinglvzhangshijiandebujianmian，biruyidilian，neimeshuangfangjiugengrongyihuxiangcaiyi，nvhaizijiugengrongyixiangdeduole。

4、 不要和她吵架：  如果你因为女孩子胡思乱想，在猜疑你（虽然你没有做）你就很着急和她吵架的话，那你就真的太不应该了，女孩子为什么会紧张你，完全是因为太在乎你了。

5、把“关系”确定下来：  henduonianqingdeqinglv，tanlehaojiniandelianai，danshibubaguanxiquedingxialai，yizhiliangzainali，bujianjiazhang，bushuxibicidepengyou，zheizhongjiaowangdehuanjing，huirangnvhaizifeichangdemeiyouanquangane。

lianaizhongnvshengzongshihusiluanxiangzenmeban？

三、胡思乱想怎么自我调节

1、自我刺激。  shenjingjiaolvzhenghuanzhefabinghou，naozhongzongshihusiluanxiang，zuolibuan，baisibudeqijie，tongkuyichang。cishi，huanzhekecaiyongziwocijifa，zhuanyizijidezhuyili。ruzaihusiluanxiangshi，zhaoyibenyouqudenengxiyinrendeshudu，huocongshijinzhangdetililaodong，wangquetongkudeshiqing。zheiyangjiukeyifangzhihusiluanxiangzaichanshengqitabingzheng，tongshiyekezengqiangnideshiyingnengli。

2、增加自信。  yixieduizijimeiyouzixinxinderen，duizijiwanchengheyingfushiwudenenglishihuaiyide，kuadazijishibaidekenengxing，congeryoulv、jinzhanghekongju。yinci，zuoweiyigeshenjingjiaolvzhengdehuanzhe，nibixushouxianzixin，jianshaozibeigan。yinggaixiangxinzijimeizengjiayicizixin，jiaolvchengdujiuhuijiangdiyidian，huifuzixin，yejiushizuizhongquzhujiaolv。

3、自我松弛。  yejiushicongjinzhangqingxuzhongjietuochulai。biru：nizaijingshenshaohaodeqingkuangxia，quxiangxiangzhongzhongkenengdeweixianqingjing，rangzuiruodeqingjingshouxianchuxian。bingzhongfuchuxian，nimanmanbianhuixiangdaorenheweixianqingjinghuozhenggeguochengdoubuzaitiyandaojiaolv。cishibiansuanzhongzhi。