​如何树立正确的大学生恋爱观？

 henduodaxueshengdouxiwangnenggouzaidaxuelitanyichanghonghonglieliedelianai，keshijishang，zai daxueshenglianai zhong，youyouduoshaorenshibai，shoushang、shenzhimishiziwo。duishenghuorenshengshiqulexingqu，weishenmehuizheiyangni？shiwomenbugouchengshuma？chengshudelianaishizenyangdeni？womengairuhemianduishilian？lianaihexueyeruhezuodaopingheng？

 danglianaideshihoufaxianbuheshishiyaozenyangcainengbushanghaidaoduifangerchengweipengyouni？henduowentiduichulianderenlaishuobingbuhuixiangdao，dengdaowentichuxianshiyouwufawanjiu。jintianzaizheilijiandangaosudajiayixiebijiaozhengquededaxueshenglianaiguan。

一、要正确对待恋爱

 daxueshenglianaishi，yaozhengquechulihaolianai、xueyeliangzhezhijiandeguanxi。lianaishirenshengdeyijiandashi，danbingfeirenshengdequanbu。daxueshengyinggaiyixueyeweizhong，yinweixuexishidaxueshengdezhuyaomude。xueyegaoyuaiqing，zhuzhangxueyeweizhu，buyiguozaodilianai。danyebuyaorenweiaiqingshixueyeyedebanjiaoshi，chulidehaodehua，aiqingyenengduixueyeqidaocuihuazuoyong。

二、要培养爱的能力

1、培养迎接爱的能力。

 ruguoyigedaxueshengxinzhongyouleaijiuyaoganyuyongzhengquedefangshibiaoda；ruguomianduibierendeshiaishiyaonenggouqushe，bingjishizuochujieshouhuojujuedexuanze。nenggouchengshouqiuaijujuehuojujueqiuaidexintaikunrao。

2、培养拒绝爱的能力。

 duiyuzijibuyuanyijieshouhuorenweibuzhidejieshoudeaiqingyingdangyouyongqijujue。jujueshiyingzhuyiliangdian：yi、ruguozhendebuxiwangaiqingdaolai，jujuedeyuqiliqingyaoguoduanjianjue，rongbudebandianyourouguaduan，fouzeduiduifangzaochengdejiangshigengdadeshanghai。er、yaozhangwoqiadangdefangshi。yaozhangwoshuohuadefangshihedu。suiranmeigerendouyoujujueaidequanli，danshiyeyaozuodaoduibierenqimadezunzhong。

三、要正确处理恋爱的挫折

1、正视现实  。zuoweiyigeruizhidedaxueshengyinggaimingbai，shilianzhikubuguozaijiuzaiyuyige“lian”zi，aiqingshishuangxiang、xianghude，yishuangfangdeaiqingweijichu，shiqurenheyifang，aiqingjiuhuishiheng，lianaijiyishibaigaozhong。zheishishiliandeyifangwulunduilingyifangaideyouduoshen，doushibuxianshidele，zuoweiyoulizhidedaxueshengyinggaizhengshizheiyixianshi。

2、升华  。qiebukeyinweishilianeryijuebuzhen，renweishenghuo、renshengdoushiquleyiyi。yaozhidao，lianaishishenghuodezhongyaozuchengbufen，danbushishenghuodequanbu，yaojinkuaibashilianshenghuaweiyizhongfenfaxiangshangdedongli，jinkuaitourudaoxuexihuozhegongzuozhongqu。yaozhengquedekandaiaiqing，baizhengaiqingdeweizhi，chulihaoaiqingyuxuexi，aiqingyurensheng，aiqingyuhunyindeguanxi。

3、换位思考  。yaosheshenchudideweiduifangzhexiang。zheiyangzuoyouzhuyunilijieduifangzhongzhiaiqingdeyuanyin，youzhuyunijieshoushilianzheiyitongkudexianshibingjizaozouchushiliandeyinying。

四、端正恋爱态度

 daxueshenglianaishigeyonghengdehuati，lianaibenlaishiyaoxunzhaoyigezhitongdaohe、baitouxielaodezhongshenbanlv，yaomingbaibushiweileanweijiemen，xunzhaociji，gengbushidanchunweilexingdemanzu。tongshi，lianaiduixiangdexuanzeyeshiyigefazadeguocheng，bunenghushilejingji、zhengzhi、wenhua、gexingdengyinsu，danshigongtongdelixiangdezhixiang、gongtongdepindeheqingcaoshizuigenbende。daxueshengzuoweixinshidaideqiaoliang，qilianaiguanyinggaishilixiang、daode、shiyehexingaideyoujijiehe。