meigerendouyouxinqingbuhaodeshihou,ruguobuxuehuidiaozhengziwoqingxu,xiangxinnihenrongyibeikunzaifumianqingxuliyishiwucheng,neime diaozhengqingxu defangfayounaxie,womenyaoruhediaozhengzijideqingxuni?
调整情绪的方法01:注意转移,避免刺激
ruofashengbeishang、youchou、fennushi,rendedanaopicengchanghuichuxianyigeqiangliedexingfenzao,ruguonengyouyishididiaokongdanaodexingfenyuyizhiguocheng,shixingfenzaozhuanhuanweiyizhipinghezhuangtai,zekenengbaochixintaishangdepingheng,shizijicongxiaojiqingxuzhongjietuochulai。liru,dangzijikumen、fannaoshi,buyaozaiquxiangyinqikumendeshi,jinliangbimianfannaodeciji,youyishiditingtingyinle、kankandianshi、fanfanhuace、duduxiaoshuodeng,qiangpozijizhuanyizhuyili。
ruhediaozhengzijideqingxu?
调整情绪的方法02:理智控制,自我降温
lizhikongzhishizhiyongyizhihesuyanglaikongzhihuohuanjiebuliangqingxudebaofa;ziwojiangwenshizhinulishijinudeqingxujiangzhipinghedeyizhizhuangtai。jiushishuo,fanshiyoulizhiderennengjishiyishidaozijiqingxudebianhua,dangnuqixintoushi,mashangyishidaobudui,nengxunsulengjingxialai,zhudongkongzhizijideqingxu,yonglizhijianqingzijidenuqi,shiqingxubaochiwending。
调 整情绪的方法03:合理发泄情绪
buzhitongxuemenzaikandianshihedianyingshizhuyidaozheiyangdejingtoumeiyou:mourenyinyoubuliangqingxu,bianpaodaokuangye、haibian、shanshangwujuwushudehanjiao,huozhepinmingdijidashumu,huozhekuangben。zheijiushihelifaxieqingxu。fumianqingxuyinggaishidangfaxie,zheishidiaozhengziwoqingxuyigehenhaodefangfa,helifaxieqingxushizhizaishidangdechanghe,yongshidangdefangshi,laipaijiexinzhongdebuliangqingxu,faxiekeyifangzhibuliangqingxuduirentideweihai。
调整情绪的方法04:选择性的记忆
womenyongyoujiyizheiyigongneng,bingbushiyaowomenshenmeshiqingdouyaojizhu,bukuailedeshiqingwomenweihebuxuanzewangjini?zhijizhukaixindeshiqing,nihuifaxian,yuanlaishijieshirucidemeihao,niyenengzheiyangdedadu,keyibuzaiyibierenduinidebuhao,zhizhidaobierenduinidehao,dangran,zheibingbushiziqiqiren,womenzheimezuo,zhishirangzijikuaileyixie,bubifannao,zhengtianshenghuozaikunaozhong。
调整情绪的方法05:目标升华法
nuqishiyizhongqiangdadexintainengliang,yongzhibudang,shangrenhaiji,shizhishenghua,huibianweichengjiushiyedeqiangdadongli。yaopeiyangyuandadeshenghuomubiao,gaibianyiyanqianququxiaoshijijiaodeshidexiguan,gengduodicongdaju、congzhangyuanqukaolvyiqie,yigerenzhiyouquelileyuandaderenshenglixiang,cainengdairenyikuanrong,youjiaodaduliang,buhuirongrenzijidejinglibeiweibuzudaodexiaoshibanzhu,erfangaiduilixiangshiyedezhuiqiu。
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